I get socially excluded to easily

[Clownworldcell]

I get socially excluded way to easily because some people will just exaggerate how bad I am over how much they misunderstood me or how much they want to be against me over how they don’t agree with me. Social groups are like echoe chambers they only tolerate what they agree with while they’re willing to be intolerant to people they don’t agree with.

For my first example of how I would struggle with being socially excluded to easily I’ll start with a group chat I was in. I’d say opinions people did not agree with and the people in the group chat would argue with me and exclude me I even went as far as to tell the truth about someone in a group chat only to have everyone in the chat leave and turn against me.

To go on to my second example I’ll speak of a time I told a joke and the leader of the group said he was not sure if he could be my friend because he was acusing me of having intentions I did not have over a joke. Acusing people of having bad intentions when they have no bad intentions is lieing in my books lieing over assumptions based on the wrong answer is worse than unintentionally offending someone with a joke. The guy trying to exclude me even tried to mention a possibility of me not being aloud at his place. Fuck people’s assumptions have no place in having any authority over a topic.

To go on to my last example I’ll talk about being excluded from entering bars and nightclubs the bouncers take one look at me and see me as the guy they can not be bothered to let in. I wanted to go to a bar with this social group I invited myself in to one night and the social group seemed cool with it yet the bouncers wanted me to stay out the bar the moment they saw me.

 

[RandomGuy]

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[LeFrenchCel]

You're too based for normiedom

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

People ignore me when I speak in groups, like a pesky child saying stuff whilst the adults are talking.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

You can't make rape jokes to normies.

But yes social exclusion begets further social exclusion, I stopped interacting with my coworkers don't even say goodmorning, I do my work and go home, this way I don't have to put up with their BS as I know they are whispering about me behind my back but oh well, a nigga needs to eat.

 

[Pancakecel]

Mogs me having people to talk to/ being in group chats jfl

 

[ThisShitIsOva]

People ignore me when I speak in groups, like a pesky child saying stuff whilst the adults are talking.

Same here. It’s fucking brutal, man. I have learned to keep my talking to a minimum. The second I share something, in a momentary lapse of judgement, I am reminded.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

Same here. It’s fucking brutal, man. I have learned to keep my talking to a minimum. The second I share something, in a momentary lapse of judgement, I am reminded.

It's a brutal way to exist, it means people don't see you as equal to them and are not worth the energy of a reply compared to others in the group. You command no respect and they wouldn't notice if you disappeared.

 

[Incline]

I got excluded, made feel unwelcome of every group I tried to join in my life so far. 27 years of this shit jfl.

 

[Balantol]

People will agree with you and include you based on how attractive you are. They'll just find reasons to disagree with you and get you excluded from the group. Example, if you say a joke that's barely offensive, they will take it to an extreme and demonize you, whereas if you're attractive they will find it funny. No remorse is given to ugly men

 

[Clownworldcell]

You can't make rape jokes to normies.

But yes social exclusion begets further social exclusion, I stopped interacting with my coworkers don't even say goodmorning, I do my work and go home, this way I don't have to put up with their BS as I know they are whispering about me behind my back but oh well, a nigga needs to eat.

A rape joke is what got this foid in a normie group to try to exclude me. When it comes to normie groups they think they’re intolerance to what they can’t stand is a qualifying reason to make rules about what can and can not be said with in the joke. I don’t think intolerance to anything counts as a valid reason to make a rule about what others say. They only see themselves as the people making rules about what people can say because they’re willing to exclude anyone who doesn’t comply with what the rest of the group will and will accept.

Another problem I have with getting socially excluded to easily is for the questions I ask it’s like I make the mistake of asking a question someone’s not comfortable with. I can tell their unforgiving attitudes towards me are representing how much they want to socially exclude me. I asked a Libary lady if she had ever smoked weed and ever since I asked her that question she acted like she did not want me any where near her. People will be bias to the worst possibilities they create in their mind with out ever questioning the other mistaken side it just enables the problem of hating people over making them look worse than they really are so what I’ve learned is I can be socially excluded for questioning people if I’m not careful normies are so
Close minded and unforgiving

 

[Clownworldcell]

It's a brutal way to exist, it means people don't see you as equal to them and are not worth the energy of a reply compared to others in the group. You command no respect and they wouldn't notice if you disappeared.

Being socially excluded to easily is representative of the way in which people will talk to other people like they are inferior to them. So In a way the person being socially excluded to easily is not the problem. The problem comes from two different reasons causing social exclusion.

The first problem is the way in which people will unfairly exaggerate how bad someone is for their mistakes causing comments to go around that are not true about the socially mistaken person.

The second problem is people who socially exclude people to easily can have egotistical problems this only causes the narcissistic people to take content about themselves that won’t make them better than others to act like they’re better than others just to enable the problem with labeling the less confident socially
Challenged people as inferior people at a powerless position in the social hierarchy