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Serious I don't suffer only from inceldom, but from social isolation

spud_tard

spud_tard

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If only I could have discussions with someone on topics like art, nihilist philosophy, literature, and cinema in real life... I think social isolation is one of the main causes why I'm unhappy. The fact that I'm not understood by people who treat me either like "a brilliant person" (which is completely dumb because even though I have potential, my chronic fatigue ruins everything) or as an idiot because of my disorganized behavior.
 
The two often go hand in hand
 
The two often go hand in hand
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They nearly always go hand in hand. They both have the exact same causes, all human interaction is based on looks and physical appereance. If you don't have those you basically automatically get rejected in any system that has to do with human interaction.
 
They nearly always go hand in hand. They both have the exact same causes, all human interaction is based on looks and physical appereance. If you don't have those you basically automatically get rejected in any system that has to do with human interaction.
I think my personality and the fact that I'm awkward socially is the main cause and not physically (even though I have huge dark circle and skinny as fck IRL), and also the fact that they are a lot of people who are so stupid that you can't do mature conversations with them
 
I think my personality and the fact that I'm awkward socially is the main cause and not physically (even though I have huge dark circle and skinny as fck IRL), and also the fact that they are a lot of people who are so stupid that you can't do mature conversations with them
You are factually wrong. If you passed the looks threshold you wouldn't experience any of this. Looks are the only thing.
 
You are factually wrong. If you passed the looks threshold you wouldn't experience any of this. Looks are the only thing.
Wrong. Environment also plays a part. I probably wouldn't be so lonely if I wasn't forced into isolation by my parents.
 
They are correlated.
If only I could have discussions with someone on topics like art, nihilist philosophy, literature, and cinema in real life...
use chatgpt and stop romantizising irl friendship. They are never like in the movies, but always have a weird dynamic, especially if one of both is an inkwell. You seem very bluepilled about this.
 
relationships usually come out of friendships, when you have a big group of friends withs guys and foids, but i don’t deserve that seemingly
 
Wrong. Environment also plays a part. I probably wouldn't be so lonely if I wasn't forced into isolation by my parents.
Wrong. Environment is vastly overrated and plays hardly any role, atleast not for most people. You wouldn't be so lonely if you had the looks and height, which is determined by your genes.
 
Friendship is an addition to life, nothing more. The building block of actual happiness is sex, serving both pleasure and validation. Friends won't make a sexless life bearable. They won't help you get out of bed in the morning. They won't fend off the constant suicidal thoughts. They won't validate your existence as a human. Because they simply can't. You see, we crave by design female attention. There is absolutely no surrogate for it. You can try, you won't find it. Nobody needs friends, they are there solely to pass time. You need sex, good and frequent sex. Preferably with a partner who at least acts like she wants you.
 
Back when I lived in my own flat I was pretty hopelessly isolated.
 
Friendship is an addition to life, nothing more. The building block of actual happiness is sex, serving both pleasure and validation. Friends won't make a sexless life bearable. They won't help you get out of bed in the morning. They won't fend off the constant suicidal thoughts. They won't validate your existence as a human. Because they simply can't. You see, we crave by design female attention. There is absolutely no surrogate for it. You can try, you won't find it. Nobody needs friends, they are there solely to pass time. You need sex, good and frequent sex. Preferably with a partner who at least acts like she wants you.
unfortunately you are right :feelsbadman:
 
If only I could have discussions with someone on topics like art, nihilist philosophy, literature, and cinema in real life... I think social isolation is one of the main causes why I'm unhappy. The fact that I'm not understood by people who treat me either like "a brilliant person" (which is completely dumb because even though I have potential, my chronic fatigue ruins everything) or as an idiot because of my disorganized behavior.
I relate a lot.
 
Very relatable post.
 

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