RageFuel How to restore/improve my self-esteem?

[copecopter]

I've been bullied relentlessly and severely for most of my life, my father never allowed me to make my own decisions, I always had to do what he says, or to explicitly wait for him to tell me what to do.

Lo and behold, I've become 26 and I have an awful self-esteem and I lack a locus of internal control and I think I got that abused dog syndrome or something.

I see some people being bold, nonchalant, and Chad-like and it makes me seethe that I was crushed to the ground.

Anyway to fix it?

 

[grimlockcel]

Something will happen naturally randomly, nothing we say will make a difference imo

 

[esdeathlover]

I've been bullied relentlessly and severely for most of my life, my father never allowed me to make my own decisions, I always had to do what he says, or to explicitly wait for him to tell me what to do.

Lo and behold, I've become 26 and I have an awful self-esteem and I lack a locus of internal control and I think I got that abused dog syndrome or something.

I see some people being bold, nonchalant, and Chad-like and it makes me seethe that I was crushed to the ground.

Anyway to fix it?

find something which your sucessful at and which has completion

 

[LUCK]

Self esteem isn't something that you can generate yourself, but by actual real life experiences. If you really want to improve it that badly, then "put yourself out there" as normies usually say. I don't know how else to phrase it.

I wouldn't recommend it personally since it's practically just jestering for random people, but I think that's the only way to farm any relatively positive responses.

 

[cursed]

I found a way to increase self-esteem

I don't even know why I'm writing this in this forum, considering the kind of people who usually post here, but I'll share my knowledge anyway. Over the last three years, I suffered a major psychological slump and tried to find a way to feel good about myself again. Well, here's what I found...

incels.is

this worked for me, but i have a problem with consistency if i go off the rails takes me a long time to build up courage to get to it again.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

 

[SociallyStunted]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

 

[garvs]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

Heavily agree with this.

 

[Teffedout]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Something will happen naturally randomly, nothing we say will make a difference imo

Pure genetic lottery

 

[Morbilius]

Self esteem is a reflection of how people treat you, that's why the "just be confident" advice never holds up you can't fake it

 

[TheFinalFrontier]

One must take the copepill

 

[TheFinalFrontier]

Self esteem is a reflection of how people treat you, that's why the "just be confident" advice never holds up you can't fake it

Normies love to yap about some "fix your personality" as if personalitypill doesn't just justify blackpill

 

[Morbilius]

Normies love to yap about some "fix your personality" as if personalitypill doesn't just justify blackpill

Normies have to cope with the just world fallacy belief otherwise they'd rope

 

[TheFinalFrontier]

Normies have to cope with the just world fallacy belief otherwise they'd rope

Like okay man, take the copepill, but stop trynna reject the bp when it's as much reality as newton's third law

 

[Obanchito]

No blunt forcing your way out of it

 

[Morbilius]

Like okay man, take the copepill, but stop trynna reject the bp when it's as much reality as newton's third law

Agreed the blackpill is simply the truth

 

[TheFinalFrontier]

Agreed the blackpill is simply the truth

 

[GloomyGhoul]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

Not if you’re an ugly subhuman. You cannot change being sub5. Besides, foids will leave you as soon as the opportunity arises

 

[GloomyGhoul]

Being bullied by your own parents is far worse than being bullied by your peers

 

[Frail Link]

Getting a girlfriend, somebody who love you, who desires you. Only THAT cures and improves self esteem.

The true solution