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I don't understand how normies expect us to be outgoing and fit in?

ProfesionalDoomer

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Most of the self improvement advice are just some stupid shallow blind statements. Those for instance, "you should start approaching girls", "you should be more positive ", "you need to smile more", and "you need to come out of your shell and be more outgoing"? Every time I hear this stupid , useless normie advice I want to hit their head wiith an old TV. How do others expect me to approach women when they constantly give the cold shoulder and dirty looks because of my weird looking serial killer vibe, due to my cursed autism? How do they expect me to be this jolly Mickey Mouse when i've been made fun of and bullied my whole life? I'm not even shy to approach girls, but the way they treat me for being myself demotivates me.

I know i'm not doing any favor by having that mentality, but it's not like I haven't tried any of those ridiculous , useless self improvement shit, including approaching foid, and I haven't made anything out of it. In fact, i'm a bigger loser now. I'm 28 never touched a foid, and I'm more resentful.

If you think about, non of these blackpilled stuff would exist if people were more understanding of the difference and were kind to people of our kind.

Normies are unbelievingly stupid.
 
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And when we do try to fit in and be outgoing we got told we're creepy or give off "weird vibes"
 
Because the Bluepill operates on the belief that personality is everything. The Redpill operates on the belief that social skills are everything. So when you, an autistic man with a non-conventional personality and an inherent lack of social skills, can’t get girls because of your looks + those things compounding, they literally cannot comprehend the idea that these things might not be possible to improve. To them, personality and social skills are malleable and learnable, for an autistic person this is not true.
 

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