How badly were you bullied at school?

[RottingMentalIago]

I want to see how badly we were bullied on average versus whether any were just mildly excluded socially.


I also want to know whether there’s a generational gap between the severity. Whether kids who grew up in 1990s and 2000s were more likely to be assaulted by a mob or whether Gen z are more likely o just be socially excluded.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Me born 1994 Bunsen Burner.

 

[VanGobbel]

Never attacked, but namecalling, "joking" and just not taking me seriously was pretty standard.

 

[AutistSupremacist]

just joke names like school shooter

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

Maybe the last option

But I don't remember a situation when anyone told to me a single word if not being forced to work with me, full ostracism made by muh innocent angels

And this

not taking me seriously was pretty standard

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Never attacked, but namecalling, "joking" and just not taking me seriously was pretty standard.

Yeah. I didn't experience the absolute worst.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Yeah. I didn't experience the absolute worst.

I had a Bunsen burner placed on my skin. The retarded Swedish teacher did nothing to punish the bully because boys will be boys.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

My school experience in England was basically like Andrew Detmer in Chronicle.

 

[unknowninceI]

Namecalling

 

[unknowninceI]

Namecalling

Mostly to do with my morbid obesity

 

[LusER]

I have been mild bullied mentally and some times physically.

In 10th grade a foid called me a rapist to my face for just talking to her. She later threatened that she will call the teachers and accuse me of harrasment. I apologized to her. They kept harrassing me for 2 weeks after that.

PS: This foid somehow knew that I kinda liked her from the beginning.

After 2 weeks she send her cucked boyfriend to beat me up. But he was short as fuck and an absolute framecel.
He knew I would knock him out in a fight so he never fought me.

Heightpill is actually brutal as fuck

 

[Onlywaifusareforme]

Stuff like name calling, avoiding me at all times, treating me like I was a ticking time bomb at any moment, never taking me seriously, reducing all my experiences to just nothing, stuff like that. I fortunately don't really get physically bullied as my height and weight are the only things I can cherish but anything goes when it comes to verbal. I didn't experience the worst but I can tell I was going to if I didn't try going against them somewhat.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I voted Bunsen burner on my poll but also got attacked by a crowd in the playground.

Who voted mob attack?

 

[tayhrdl]

They did things like avoiding me, making fun of the way I look, calling me stupid. I think that I could've avoided all that bullying if I just beat them the fuck out when it first started. Plus anxiety just made me freeze all the time so I couldn't even verbally respond and defend myself.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

They did things like avoiding me, making fun of the way I look, calling me stupid. I think that I could've avoided all that bullying if I just beat them the fuck out when it first started. Plus anxiety just made me freeze all the time so I couldn't even verbally respond and defend myself.

I was verbally explosive which gave the bullies a reaction. The quiet autistic homosexual I sat next to in one class barely got bullied because he didn’t react. There were rumours that me and him were a couple because he defended me repeatedly but he didn’t react to the rumours whereas I physically attacked the kid who suggested we were a couple which gave the headteacher an excuse to give me a whole week of internal exclusion. It was a disgusting school.

 

[keithbauhaus]

Name calling & mild physical assault. I stood up for myself once and received detention.

 

[SupremeSaint]

Physical assault and name calling

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Physical assault and name calling

What type of physical assault? I got mob attack and Bunsen burner attack. I voted for the Bunsen burner and another user voted for mob which is disturbing when you think that more than one of us has experienced a mob attack in a place we are supposed to be safe and protected.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Name calling & mild physical assault. I stood up for myself once and received detention.

Break time detention? Lunch time detention? After school detention? Weekend detention (if legal inside your country)?

Or those internal exclusions (all day detention)?

 

[keithbauhaus]

Break time detention? Lunch time detention? After school detention? Weekend detention (if legal inside your country)?

Or those internal exclusions (all day detention)?

After school detention. I also received all day detention for tackling a kid who was laughing at me in middle school. The after school detention incident was me telling my bully to "fucking" leave me alone.

 

[cymbeline]

constant psychological torment, humiliation, being recorded, suicide encouragement. occasionally having shit thrown at me. It got better at 16 after gymcelling and growing an inch or two

 

[RottingMentalIago]

After school detention. I also received all day detention for tackling a kid who was laughing at me in middle school. The after school detention incident was me telling my bully to "fucking" leave me alone.

Oh No he SwOrE hoW oUtRaGeOus.


Schools and their respectability politics are disgusting.

What country are you in?

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Regular name calling and social exclusion. Physical attacks were rare, maybe once a year on average.

Mob attack only happened once. A popular kid was being mean to me and then he grabbed me. I just snapped and I managed to spin him around quickly before letting go so he fell on the floor. I remember he looked shocked and I thought it was kinda funny how he went from being cocky and standing to lying on the dirty ground in shock.

Before I knew what was happening, basically all the popular boys were chasing me. Luckily I managed to hide in a toilet cubicle and put all my weight against the door so all they could do was throw rubbish over the top and shout insults.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Regular name calling and social exclusion. Physical attacks were rare, maybe once a year on average.

Mob attack only happened once. A popular kid was being mean to me and then he grabbed me. I just snapped and I managed to spin him around quickly before letting go so he fell on the floor. I remember he looked shocked and I thought it was kinda funny how he went from being cocky and standing to lying on the dirty ground in shock.

Before I knew what was happening, basically all the popular boys were chasing me. Luckily I managed to hide in a toilet cubicle and put all my weight against the door so all they could do was throw rubbish over the top and shout insults.

How old are you?

I’m 1994 so grew up in the 2000s which was the last era of truly violent and horrible bullying.


Did anyone protect you? I had a gay stoner Aspie kid protect me but it made the bullying worse because then all the chavs started claiming we were a couple.

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

How old are you?

I’m 1994 so grew up in the 2000s which was the last era of truly violent and horrible bullying.


Did anyone protect you? I had a gay stoner Aspie kid protect me but it made the bullying worse because then all the chavs started claiming we were a couple.

I'm 28 and no one protected me.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I'm 28 and no one protected me.

Holy shit so you were even worse off than me lol. I thought I was the Andrew Detmer of this community.

 

[INVERTER]

Unsure how to answer..

Mostly just exclusion. I have so many stories about that.

As far as physical not as much but in 8th grade band this team of kids bullied me a lot and would steal my things. One time one of them strangled while another stole part of a project I did for another class. One day, I waited until one of the kids put his tuba on his lap to strangle him. He freaked out and followed me into the instrument storage area and pushed me into the cubbies from behind. My nose started bleeding like crazy so the teacher noticed. We both got suspended but I got double the sentence of the other kid

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Unsure how to answer..

Mostly just exclusion. I have so many stories about that.

As far as physical not as much but in 8th grade band this team of kids bullied me a lot and would steal my things. One time one of them strangled while another stole part of a project I did for another class. One day, I waited until one of the kids put his tuba on his lap to strangle him. He freaked out and followed me into the instrument storage area and pushed me into the cubbies from behind. My nose started bleeding like crazy so the teacher noticed. We both got suspended but I got double the sentence of the other kid

Yep the bullying victims always get the harsher punishment because we were the difficult ones. The chavs who tormented us were not.

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Holy shit so you were even worse off than me lol. I thought I was the Andrew Detmer of this community.

Idk, it sounds like you had it worse off than me if people were putting bunsen burners on your skin. I only had like 1 physical altercation a year, normally it was just insults and social exclusion. But yeah, my school experience was pretty awful. Funny to think that I'd never even heard of an incel while all that was going on, that came the year after I left school when ER did this thing.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I'm 28 and no one protected me.

In many ways having one boy protect you though can make it worse. Literally everybody including the teachers believed me and the gay stoner were a couple because of how vociferously he defended me lol.


When he came out as gay I remember cringing because literally everyone looked at me and was like “well now that explains why he protects you so much, kike”.

He was a nice kid but he did more harm by defending me than he would have done if he’d just stayed quiet. The mob attacked me after he had shoved a kid that was bullying me and then he got suspended and then the mob attacked me because the gay stoner had assaulted a popular kid to protect me lmao.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Idk, it sounds like you had it worse off than me if people were putting bunsen burners on your skin. I only had like 1 physical altercation a year, normally it was just insults and social exclusion. But yeah, my school experience was pretty awful. Funny to think that I'd never even heard of an incel while all that was going on, that came the year after I left school when ER did this thing.

Oh so you left school at 16? I thought by 2013 you still had to stay in school until 18? Or was that 2014?

How did you manage to get such a good job before you became UCLWRA?

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

In many ways having one boy protect you though can make it worse. Literally everybody including the teachers believed me and the gay stoner were a couple because of how vociferously he defended me lol.


When he came out as gay I remember cringing because literally everyone looked at me and was like “well now that explains why he protects you so much, kike”.

He was a nice kid but he did more harm by defending me than he would have done if he’d just stayed quiet. The mob attacked me after he had shoved a kid that was bullying me and then he got suspended and then the mob attacked me because the gay stoner had assaulted a popular kid to protect me lmao.

Very much a double-edged sword, as the saying goes.

Funny enough, we didn't have any openly gay boys at my school. There were a few lesbians though.

 

[sirlancelot]

I never got beaten up fortunately but i had some minor physical altercations with a couple kids , it never went pass pushing thankfully. The popular kids were pretty fucking annoying as you would expect, i got the typical naming calling. Females usually left me alone which I appreciated. Wish i could say the same about males. If i could go back to school i would definitely try to beat up some of the popular kids. Maybe even a couple girls along the way. i know id probably lose but an unexpected solid first punch would go a long way for my psyche.

 

[TooSomething]

Too severe to even talk about it here is all I will say.

All of the options are tame af compared to what I went through.

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Oh so you left school at 16? I thought by 2013 you still had to stay in school until 18? Or was that 2014?

How did you manage to get such a good job before you became UCLWRA?

I was the first year that had to stay until 17 (the year after us had to stay till 18) but I chose to get an apprenticeship as EMA had been abolished by then and I couldn't face going to college and still having no money at all.

My school didn't have its own sixth form so yeah, we left the actual school at 16 but legally had to go to do another year of education or training.

I had jobs but they weren't good jobs, lol. I did an admin apprenticeship and worked as an office clerk or office junior at a few different firms. I was also briefly an Uber Eats driver.

What did you do after leaving school?

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Too severe to even talk about it here is all I will say.

All of the options are tame af compared to what I went through.

The boy who defended me got sperm wiped in his hair in a hotel on a school trip by some chav trash. At least I never got literal sexual assault.

 

[cathuluelitist]

I want to see how badly we were bullied on average versus whether any were just mildly excluded socially.


I also want to know whether there’s a generational gap between the severity. Whether kids who grew up in 1990s and 2000s were more likely to be assaulted by a mob or whether Gen z are more likely o just be socially excluded.

All of the above besides the bunsen burner thing.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I was the first year that had to stay until 17 (the year after us had to stay till 18) but I chose to get an apprenticeship as EMA had been abolished by then and I couldn't face going to college and still having no money at all.

My school didn't have its own sixth form so yeah, we left the actual school at 16 but legally had to go to do another year of education or training.

I had jobs but they weren't good jobs, lol. I did an admin apprenticeship and worked as an office clerk or office junior at a few different firms. I was also briefly an Uber Eats driver.

What did you do after leaving school?

i returned to England the year EMA was abolished

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I went to university and did okay and had a tech job at a start up but then became too autistic and now have UCLWRA.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

All of the above besides the bunsen burner thing.

How old are you? Most of the serious bullying seems to be the milennialcels or zilennial gen z like @DCI Gene Hunt .

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

i returned to England the year EMA was abolished

Lol, sometimes you just gotta laugh. I honestly don't know how the sixth formers did it in a post-EMA England.

Imagine having to ask your mum to buy you the latest copy of Nuts Magazine. Couldn't be me. The apprenticeship didn't pay much but at least it was something.

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

I went to university and did okay and had a tech job at a start up but then became too autistic and now have UCLWRA.

Wait, you had an actual good job but had to leave due to autism? Brutal.

At least in my case, it was low paying jobs anyway (mostly minimum wage) so financially it's basically the same now and without the stress of wageslavery.

 

[fbfcel]

i'm broken

Mild physical assault
Name calling
People simply not wanting to be paired up with you in group projects

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Lol, sometimes you just gotta laugh. I honestly don't know how the sixth formers did it in a post-EMA England.

Imagine having to ask your mum to buy you the latest copy of Nuts Magazine. Couldn't be me. The apprenticeship didn't pay much but at least it was something.

EMA was only like £30 per week. I wouldn’t have qualified anyway. My (((mother))) is too wealthy both from divorce raping my dumb father and her own professional consulting career (somehow committing contempt of court didn’t damage her career).

 

[RottingMentalIago]

Wait, you had an actual good job but had to leave due to autism? Brutal.

At least in my case, it was low paying jobs anyway (mostly minimum wage) so financially it's basically the same now and without the stress of wageslavery.

Delivery driver is shit because customers (especially university students) claim you didn’t deliver it and then it gets docked from your wages or you get a mark against your name. Amazon drivers complain regularly about that.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I went to high tier Catholic school and was bullied for being an autist. Don't believe the myth that bullies end up to be losers. Bullies can end up in top careers too. In fact doctors and surgeons are well known to bully nurses in hospitals.
Why wouldn't an aggressive personality thrive in this world?
Next people will be saying that bully Lions will end up as losers in the wild.

 

[keithbauhaus]

Oh No he SwOrE hoW oUtRaGeOus.


Schools and their respectability politics are disgusting.

What country are you in?

Burgerland. It was a private school tbf, but regardless the bully should have received detention. My parents were pissed off at my principal and pulled me out of the school.

 

[Mango]

Mainly the last two options. Never really anything physical throughout my school years but a few incidents come to mind:

- In middle school (6th grade), a kid went around pricking people with a toothpick and I ended up as one of their victims. Also that same year I got shoved by a fat Hispanic kid for no reason.

- In high school I got picked on by another fat Hispanic kid. I shoved him into a wall one day and he seemed to back off after that.
Shortly after, he either dropped out, got arrested (he was a drug addict) or moved schools around my sophomore year because I stopped seeing him around.

 

[Rapistcel]

I want to see how badly we were bullied on average versus whether any were just mildly excluded socially.


I also want to know whether there’s a generational gap between the severity. Whether kids who grew up in 1990s and 2000s were more likely to be assaulted by a mob or whether Gen z are more likely o just be socially excluded.

Bullied verbally and socially during entire secondary and high school, bullied physically during 7th and 10th grade.

 

[Caesercel]

Relentlessly verbally bullied in primary school with mild physical bullying but not much. More physical kind of bullying in middle school. Followed by more verbal bullying in junior high.