This is in part a response to this old thread:
I all too often see this argument from coping incels saying that they "moved past" their hatred and treat their lack of hate like its an achievement or something, or they speak about their lack of yearning for sex as though they've attained some new "level of existence" JFL ITS NOT A...
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Nobody hates women as such. We all want the intimacy and the tenderness. And of course we want to ascend. Any guy here who would get the chance to fuck a girl would, despite anything they might have said in the past.
It is ok, of course to hate how
women behave nowadays. No question about that. Women today, especially young ones, are hypocritical, without morals, deceitful, manipulative, back stabbers, etc, etc. The list is endless.
But saying "Muh, women's nature is bad, always been bad; their genes are evil" is a ridiculous cope.
And in fact it is hypocritical. People who say this sort of thing are generally young idiots who want to act tough. More often than not, this kind of statement is part of an
Ersatz Chad routine. It is the most retarded kindergarten-level reaction to feminism. Feminists say "Women good, Women fantastic, Women always right" (which is of course dumb as shit) and then our own little micropenis virtual chadlets reply "Women bad, Women bad, Women bad' just to piss them off, like 5 year-olds annoying girls at recess. Dumber than shit.
Women's behavior, like our own is a composite of instincts and upbringing. Instincts are not "good" or "bad" per se, they are just the result of natural evolution to a set of living conditions that we have moved past millennia ago. So of course, instincts generally need to be reined in to make civilization possible. The biggest single problem is the alpha male instinct and the attraction females have for the alpha. That problem is dealt with by most cultures through rather strict sexuality control rule and enforced monogamy. In our culture, boomers came up with the genius idea that "liberating" sexuality would be great. Sure! It just made us revert to cavemen behavior. Women today are simultaneously trying to be cavewomen (fuck the alpha) while pretending to be supremely sophisticated. Naturally, the result is repulsive hypocrisy.
But that is a cultural problem. It has nothing to do with women's nature (instincts). Men's nature is just as "bad". When men regress to cavemen level, like Ghetto blacks have, it is not pretty either. And when men pretended to be unfettered alphas while pretending to be supremely sophisticated (Nazis, SS), it was even worse.
Human life is about figuring out how to deal with our instincts. Some cultures do (or did) it reasonably well and others (like our present one) do a piss poor job of it.
Hate our culture, not women. Do something real; stop coping.
Now, my reply to the above thread:
Having no desire for sex and moving past hatred are 2 completely different things.
I, for one, still fap often and enjoy the occasional escort. But I have indeed moved past my hatred of women
Yes. They are more mature.
So ? A good thing that happens without effort is still a good thing.
Of course, those who pretend they are heroes because they have become "impervious" to hatred or sexual urges are hypocrite copers. But genuinely not hating women is good. Forever impotent hatred is a sure recipe for deepening depression.
Cope. Hypocrisy. Effort? Yielding to your impotent craving for fake toughness is an effort? Okay ...
Fantasizing about vengeance is lame cope. No wonder societies who practice honor killings and vendettas are the most primitive.
No shit.
Yes, and that is good. Often, our will is
wrong. We desire things that are not good for us. The sooner that kind of "will" is broken, the better.
Mine did not, so far. Again, nothing to do with moving past hatred.
Frightened of getting older? This has a name. It is called "Peter Pan syndrome"
We say everything we want on this forum and that is what makes it great. You don't get banned here for being unorthodox.
As an aside, I think that thiis is at least in part due to this place being run by the FBI. They want to know what Incels think (to monitor us) and so are unlikely to want anybody banned for what they say. An ironic avatar of "Free Speech", to be sure.