Let me refute all points of this trope.
1-Belief in Entitlement: Individuals adhering to this trope often feel entitled to a relationship or sexual activity with someone simply because they have been "nice" to them.
Wrong. no one feels entitled to a relationship, man are taught to be kind to women since birth and all media and cultural norms tell them that is the way to get a girlfriend, if he should not expect to spark a romantic feeling on the object of his affections by being so nice and kind to her then why does everyone around him regurgitate that line of thinking into his mind for years? when a man like Tate (whom i think is a clown btw) tells young man not to waste their time and money on shallow modern women he is called a criminal and gets featured in a government sponsored tv show that tries to demonstrate how his mentality is evil and wrong.
2-Hidden Motives: Their "niceness" may be a facade, masking underlying desires for validation, attention, or romantic/sexual favors.
Wrong. this is one does not even make sense, no one does anything without some motive behind it so this will apply to anything really, most "nice guys" are not subtle about their desires and confess their feelings often, and if not the female in question often knows how he feels even before he says anything really, what? are nice guys gonna punch their girl in the face after they get a girlfriend? no, those guys often turn into male feminists doormats.
3-Resentment and Anger: When their "niceness" isn't rewarded with reciprocation, they may become resentful, angry, or even hostile.
This one is true but is that anger unfair? is it not aggravating to act like a prince and get a "no" and then see a chad doing the exact same thing and get a "yes"? the feeling of injustice is entirely justified and rational, this type of response is common in all primates, ask a chimp to do a flip and give him a banana as a reward and then ask his brother the same thing but give him nothing, watch as he goes ape shit and tries to rip your face off, obviously i am not saying the rejected man in question is right to get physically or verbally violent, but it is understandable that he would feel betrayed because the female rejection is only valid if she holds a chad to the same standard, otherwise she is a unjust hypocrite.
In short the "nice guy" functions as a defense mechanism which women will deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction -- by flipping it around and accusing the guy of being after "Only one thing", rejecting nice guys goes completely against all those cultural narratives of women being the profound gender whose sexuality is more sophisticated and requires deeper effort and sentimentality, in stark contrast to men's so called "shallow sexuality".
So, the question for them is:
"how to reject nice but unattractive men without seeming shallow or an unjust hypocrite?" Queue the "nice guy" trope: accuse the man who is nice but unattractive of being a sex-seeking asshole who was only "after your body", despite the fact that you are fine with getting fucked by tinder chads you literately just met and continue chasing stereotypical hot jerks that will pump and dump you.
1-Belief in Entitlement: Individuals adhering to this trope often feel entitled to a relationship or sexual activity with someone simply because they have been "nice" to them.
Wrong. no one feels entitled to a relationship, man are taught to be kind to women since birth and all media and cultural norms tell them that is the way to get a girlfriend, if he should not expect to spark a romantic feeling on the object of his affections by being so nice and kind to her then why does everyone around him regurgitate that line of thinking into his mind for years? when a man like Tate (whom i think is a clown btw) tells young man not to waste their time and money on shallow modern women he is called a criminal and gets featured in a government sponsored tv show that tries to demonstrate how his mentality is evil and wrong.
2-Hidden Motives: Their "niceness" may be a facade, masking underlying desires for validation, attention, or romantic/sexual favors.
Wrong. this is one does not even make sense, no one does anything without some motive behind it so this will apply to anything really, most "nice guys" are not subtle about their desires and confess their feelings often, and if not the female in question often knows how he feels even before he says anything really, what? are nice guys gonna punch their girl in the face after they get a girlfriend? no, those guys often turn into male feminists doormats.
3-Resentment and Anger: When their "niceness" isn't rewarded with reciprocation, they may become resentful, angry, or even hostile.
This one is true but is that anger unfair? is it not aggravating to act like a prince and get a "no" and then see a chad doing the exact same thing and get a "yes"? the feeling of injustice is entirely justified and rational, this type of response is common in all primates, ask a chimp to do a flip and give him a banana as a reward and then ask his brother the same thing but give him nothing, watch as he goes ape shit and tries to rip your face off, obviously i am not saying the rejected man in question is right to get physically or verbally violent, but it is understandable that he would feel betrayed because the female rejection is only valid if she holds a chad to the same standard, otherwise she is a unjust hypocrite.
In short the "nice guy" functions as a defense mechanism which women will deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction -- by flipping it around and accusing the guy of being after "Only one thing", rejecting nice guys goes completely against all those cultural narratives of women being the profound gender whose sexuality is more sophisticated and requires deeper effort and sentimentality, in stark contrast to men's so called "shallow sexuality".
So, the question for them is:
"how to reject nice but unattractive men without seeming shallow or an unjust hypocrite?" Queue the "nice guy" trope: accuse the man who is nice but unattractive of being a sex-seeking asshole who was only "after your body", despite the fact that you are fine with getting fucked by tinder chads you literately just met and continue chasing stereotypical hot jerks that will pump and dump you.
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