I grew up not only being on the short side (I'm really lucky that I'm even 5'7", I was really really short as a kid), and on top of that I'm not attractive facially, and then on top of that I didn't even end up with big dick despite being dark skinned as fuck (what the fuck kind of set up is that, God is seriously fucking with me here 
)
Grew up poor too
I hold no resentment for my parents for any of those things, those were outside of their control for the most part, but I definitely resent them for the fact that I had to DISCOVER THE BLACK PILL (THAT IS UNFORGIVABLE TO ME)
I definitely hold resentment towards my parents for not being honest with me about how this world works (when it comes to looks, money and status) and the importance of pursuing financial freedom rather than the safety of a 9 to 5 job by "studying hard" (which will not benefit an unattractive man in this world)
I should not have had to learn of all these harsh truths that determine my quality of life, in my 20's, from random fuckers on the internet
THAT IS RIDICULOUS
THE FUCKING INTERNET HAS PREPARED ME MORE FOR NAVIGATING LIFE AS AN UNATTRACTIVE MAN
THAN MY OWN PARENTS!
That is some sad shit
An unattractive guy can't have an enjoyable life if he is lacking resources (that is fucking rule #1 that we should have been taught from 15 years old and onward)
Guess what, our parents fucking knew that and still (like most lazy fucking parents) gave us a cookie cutter religious/moral upbringing with no focus on wealth building or investing
So now, I as an individual, has to fucking rush to try and build these high income skills and discover all these opportunities myself, so I can squeeze out some enjoyment in life before I fucking hit my 40's (before my body starts going to shit lol). Forty is a good few years away, I'm still in my 20's, but I doubt I'm going to have financial freedom before I reach my 30's
I'm never going to have any children, I don't want the burden, I've lost too many years of enjoyment already so my life will be about me and me only at this point
But if I did have a son, I would make him the luckiest son ever. I'd be honest with him about the world from the get go, no nonsense like Santa, I'd want him to "find magic in the world" not from fairy tales or religion, but from science, discovery and satisfaction in leisure.
He can do all the gaming he wants but every weekend we'd have to study trading (be it forex, stocks, etc) and some of all the other things I do to bring in money (high income skills)
I'd want him to be set up so that even if he turned out unattractive he'd never have to worry about lacking resources and opportunities, he'd never have to feel the anxiety of "running out of time" because you now have to play "catch up".
Not even "catch up" with everyone else (because we aren't even in the same plane of existence), but "catch up" relative to "incel criteria". We can cope about having the same goals as normies (wife, children, etc) but in our case they require vastly more resources to achieve
All of this because our parents refused to be honest with us
Its sad really, a lot of us were doomed because our parents wanted to paint a fairy tale world for us:
They saw how we were developing
They saw how short we were and the slow rate we were growing at
They saw how average and below average our faces were
They saw how socially awkward we were
They saw the slow social changes that were taking place in society
Etc, etc, etc
But, EVEN THEN, they still refused to try and adapt their parenting to our circumstances, so that we could build a life suited to our conditions. You know, like a caring parent actually should
MOST PARENTS DO LAZY PARENTING
They didn't tell you about Santa Claus because they felt like your belief in this being, was core to some key psychological development that you needed to prepare you to become successful in life. There was no logic or planning behind it.
They told you about Santa Claus, BECAUSE EVERYBODY ELSE'S PARENTS DOES, and because its about THEM collecting all these "cute memories" for THEMSELVES to reminisce over
A lot of people don't seem to get that your parents aren't parenting FOR YOU, they are doing it for themselves. Parenting as it stands today is a very selfish thing, the average parent deludes themselves into thinking that they do it for their child, but they are doing it because that child is their investment (those are two completely different things)
Children are "self affirming" investments. Your parents don't need you to be satisfied with life to yield a "return" on their investment, they just need you to merely be alive. That's enough to stroke their ego as "creators"
A lot of us are in fact going to end up betabuxxing some whore that jumps off the cock carousel (there are a lot of simps in the incel community), and when she gets pregnant that's another win for your parents, they don't give a fuck if that was what you wanted or the best choice for you, you getting a woman pregnant carries on their genes into the future, they win
Like I've talked about before in another thread about parents and parenting, your parents don't love you, they love the "idea of you" (what you represent):
incels.is
This section from that post pertains to HOW and WHY your parents "love" you:
Parents don't really care as much as they think they do, this is exactly why when they have a child with the potential to become an "incel" they fail completely when it comes to raising that child to have a satisfying life, because raising such a child to have an enjoyable and successful life, requires you to make self sacrifice with certain beliefs, and be more pragmatic, objective and even COLD in what you teach them about life. It may "hurt your heart" as a parent but your son will 100% thank you for it later in life when he sees how other incels are doing when they lack resources and make blue pilled life choices
To my fellow incels, here is why your parents failed you:
Their morals wouldn't allow IT
Their religious beliefs wouldn't allow IT
By "IT", I mean them telling you the harsh objective truths of reality that parents don't want to tell their sons (the black pill), and would rather have them "figure it out later in life" (AGAIN, LAZY PARENTING)
Do you think your parents (especially your mother) didn't know that short guys barely get dates or sex (if any at all)?
They did, they just chose not to talk about it because its an uncomfortable truth of life that they can't "moral away" or "pray away", and telling you about it challenges those beliefs. So they'd rather mentally block out such things and leave you suffer, fail and figure it out yourself (NO GUIDANCE)
Do you think your parents (especially your mother) didn't know that "nice guys" get treated like trash (despite advising that you act like a "nice guy")?
Its the same thing like above, your parents can't "moral away" or "pray away" this reality. Your mother especially would rather not talk about it because it also makes her look like a "bad person". She probably only dated and fucked "bad boys", that doesn't sound so "moral" or "religious" does it? (which is exactly why mothers will avoid thinking about or talking about this with their sons)
Mothers also don't talk about these things because they don't want their sons to look at them in a negative light, because talking about these things brings up obvious questions: - "Mom, what kind of men did you date?"
Pretty much all of our mothers are the same kind of woman that would reject us
That's a painful irony for her. She spent years rejecting certain traits, and now she has to see these traits in her own offspring
But like most parents today, she just wanted to be able to give the lazy cookie cutter advice, and not look at the changes in the dating market, the stats for marriage and divorce, etc, and take these social changes into account when deciding how she will raise her son. Same thing with the father too.
In fact I'd argue more that your father ESPECIALLY should have done this. You can't really expect women to be forthcoming and honest, our fathers were supposed to black pill us.
Parents do LAZY PARENTING, because it requires TOO MUCH EFFORT (more effort than they are willing to put into parenting) TO PROPERLY GUIDE INCEL SONS TOWARDS A PROSPEROUS FUTURE
Yet talk to some of the incels on this site and you speak of your parents (especially your mothers) like they are saints or something. Its like you have no self awareness of how much THEY TRULY FAILED YOU
BECAUSE DEEP DOWN
THEY DIDN'T REALLY CARE THAT MUCH
NOT AS MUCH AS THEY THINK THEY CARE
That's the scary thing about self delusion, they think they care a lot about you, but their actions reflect that they just care about THE INVESTMENT THAT IS "YOU"
Your satisfaction doesn't matter, you were "supposed to" yield "X returns" as an investment, you were supposed to be "normal" and "attractive", and only "X minimal investment" (cookie cutter upbringing) was "supposed to be" required for you to yield "X returns", and that's why they didn't take the time and effort to observe the changing world and your inferior traits, and alter your upbringing to be suited to this world
The average parent is self centered and lazy, and only having a child for the "experience of raising a child"
THEY DID NOT PUT MUCH THOUGHT INTO YOUR UPBRINGING AT ALL (and you have to come to terms with that, its the reason why your life is where it is now)
The funny thing is, now all of a sudden when I've reached this point in my life, people act like I'm supposed to have some kind of reverence for my parents
But I don't feel like that at all, I am grateful for the food, the shelter, the clothing, the opportunity to be educated, etc, but those things are all the basic bare minimum things that DON'T MATTER WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING A HAPPY LIFE AS AN UNATTRACTIVE MALE
I'll say it again, your parents aren't blind, they saw what you were growing into, they knew you would need to have money, or power, or status to even have a sex life one day, but they blocked those kinds of "negative" thoughts out because they'd much rather sacrifice you in order to cling to their morals and religious beliefs. You have to understand that your parents chose those things over you, if not you would already have been black pilled by your father and/or mother during your teens
The only thing I can do now is rush towards my goals and focus on wealthmaxxing. Be diligent so I can get to where I want to be financially as soon as possible
The moment I set myself up good, I'm gone forever from my current life, I'm not even joking
I'm changing my name
I'm leaving my country
I'm deleting all of my contacts
I'm never contacting anyone from my current life again
AND
I'm never going back to my country or my home
I'm starting an entirely new life and leaving my old trash life behind (I'm "going ghost")
Whether my family or friends of the past are "ok" with it and can "move on" is not my concern, I'm the one who is stuck in the shitty life I am in now and has to live with it everyday
Its not an enjoyable existence to wake up everyday and think about killing yourself, think about how peaceful it would be if you just faded out of existence when you go the bed later that day. Having to push yourself forward each day for that one singular goal, that future you are working towards that you've yearned after for so many years
My incel life has literally burned away any sense of attachment that I hold for my country, my family, my friends, anything in my life period
Its like I care for them TO AN EXTENT, but I hate my existence more than I care for anything
That's why I won't feel any regret or "miss" anyone, because as far as I'm concerned this universe has robbed me of enough of my life, and all the free time and focus I have left should be about me making up for lost time and enjoying the years I have left. Not "chatting with friends" or helping family members out with their problems
The rest of my life is going to be about me and ONLY ME, because somebody has to put me first, and it isn't going to be anybody but me. To all the incels reading, you better realize that this goes for you too and start working on what you need to when it comes to your finances, because you aren't going to have even a remotely enjoyable 30's or 40's or so on without financial freedom, you are delusional if you think otherwise
A sexless life with video games, anime and porn is not something that will satisfy a man in his 30's, you can keep coping and telling yourself that it will be enough, but it won't. A lot of you guys are going to wake up trapped in a twilight zone episode. I've already spent years thinking about this shit and I can see where things are going, I will probably kill myself if I am still in my current life at the age of 30
Financial freedom is a must for unattractive males, all of our parents should have made that a focus but they didn't, so here we are, in our 20's and our lives are going nowhere with no direction except a path that leads towards wage slavery and betabuxxing a whore who gets off of the cock carousel. Things aren't looking too good for us right now
Again, statistically about 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women ages 25 to 44 aren't virgins, and most people are still getting married, so a lot of you guys reading this saying to yourself - "I would never betabuxx, I will never give up on love" is just coping, because you don't seem to realize that your obsession with "being loved" and your obsession with "female validation", IS EXACTLY WHY YOU ARE GOING TO "GIVE IN" AND END UP SETTLING FOR USED COCK CAROUSEL GOODS
You are going to experiences STANDARDS ATTRITION (more on that in the thread below):
incels.is
This current thread you are reading is also very much related to a thread I previously made about parenting:
incels.is
This section from the top of the post is very relevant:
Our parents like most parents went with strategy #2, because again, LAZY COOKIE CUTTER PARENTING - "let teens figure out all the fucked up things about reality themselves because I don't want to feel bad"
Our parents, if they were PROPER PARENTS who cared about our quality of life, should have adopted strategy #1 in our cases, because we could not afford to be raised like every other child and still have enjoyable lives, and the state of our current lives is a testament to that fact (our lives are trash and will only get worse unless we go to extremes to change it)
So yes our parents did fail us, and they will continue to fail us
Don't look to your parents for sympathy, empathy or understanding when it comes to our lives as incels
REMEMBER - THEIR MORALS AND RELIGIOUS BELIEFS COME FIRST
Its the reason why they refused to be honest with you about life, and accept the harsh truths we needed them to bestow upon us
Its also the same reason why they will ignore you trying to tell them about it and dismiss all the studies, facts, figures or personal experience you have
The only thing we can do is focus on the financial opportunities we have before us, and work on trying to climb our way out of our hell hole lives ourselves
But after I do all of that shit, I don't know about you guys, but I'm cutting all ties
No family or friend is going to become a burden to me, I won't be anyone's handout
After I struggle to get myself into financial freedom, my life becomes about me and only me
Only leisure, pleasure and pursuing my interests will matter to me at that stage of my life, everybody and everything else will be left behind in the past, and to me that is the most logical path for any incel to take at this point
)Grew up poor too
I hold no resentment for my parents for any of those things, those were outside of their control for the most part, but I definitely resent them for the fact that I had to DISCOVER THE BLACK PILL (THAT IS UNFORGIVABLE TO ME)
I definitely hold resentment towards my parents for not being honest with me about how this world works (when it comes to looks, money and status) and the importance of pursuing financial freedom rather than the safety of a 9 to 5 job by "studying hard" (which will not benefit an unattractive man in this world)
I should not have had to learn of all these harsh truths that determine my quality of life, in my 20's, from random fuckers on the internet
THAT IS RIDICULOUS
THE FUCKING INTERNET HAS PREPARED ME MORE FOR NAVIGATING LIFE AS AN UNATTRACTIVE MAN
THAN MY OWN PARENTS!
That is some sad shit
An unattractive guy can't have an enjoyable life if he is lacking resources (that is fucking rule #1 that we should have been taught from 15 years old and onward)
Guess what, our parents fucking knew that and still (like most lazy fucking parents) gave us a cookie cutter religious/moral upbringing with no focus on wealth building or investing
So now, I as an individual, has to fucking rush to try and build these high income skills and discover all these opportunities myself, so I can squeeze out some enjoyment in life before I fucking hit my 40's (before my body starts going to shit lol). Forty is a good few years away, I'm still in my 20's, but I doubt I'm going to have financial freedom before I reach my 30's
I'm never going to have any children, I don't want the burden, I've lost too many years of enjoyment already so my life will be about me and me only at this point
But if I did have a son, I would make him the luckiest son ever. I'd be honest with him about the world from the get go, no nonsense like Santa, I'd want him to "find magic in the world" not from fairy tales or religion, but from science, discovery and satisfaction in leisure.
He can do all the gaming he wants but every weekend we'd have to study trading (be it forex, stocks, etc) and some of all the other things I do to bring in money (high income skills)
I'd want him to be set up so that even if he turned out unattractive he'd never have to worry about lacking resources and opportunities, he'd never have to feel the anxiety of "running out of time" because you now have to play "catch up".
Not even "catch up" with everyone else (because we aren't even in the same plane of existence), but "catch up" relative to "incel criteria". We can cope about having the same goals as normies (wife, children, etc) but in our case they require vastly more resources to achieve
All of this because our parents refused to be honest with us
Its sad really, a lot of us were doomed because our parents wanted to paint a fairy tale world for us:
They saw how we were developing
They saw how short we were and the slow rate we were growing at
They saw how average and below average our faces were
They saw how socially awkward we were
They saw the slow social changes that were taking place in society
Etc, etc, etc
But, EVEN THEN, they still refused to try and adapt their parenting to our circumstances, so that we could build a life suited to our conditions. You know, like a caring parent actually should
MOST PARENTS DO LAZY PARENTING
They didn't tell you about Santa Claus because they felt like your belief in this being, was core to some key psychological development that you needed to prepare you to become successful in life. There was no logic or planning behind it.
They told you about Santa Claus, BECAUSE EVERYBODY ELSE'S PARENTS DOES, and because its about THEM collecting all these "cute memories" for THEMSELVES to reminisce over
A lot of people don't seem to get that your parents aren't parenting FOR YOU, they are doing it for themselves. Parenting as it stands today is a very selfish thing, the average parent deludes themselves into thinking that they do it for their child, but they are doing it because that child is their investment (those are two completely different things)
Children are "self affirming" investments. Your parents don't need you to be satisfied with life to yield a "return" on their investment, they just need you to merely be alive. That's enough to stroke their ego as "creators"
A lot of us are in fact going to end up betabuxxing some whore that jumps off the cock carousel (there are a lot of simps in the incel community), and when she gets pregnant that's another win for your parents, they don't give a fuck if that was what you wanted or the best choice for you, you getting a woman pregnant carries on their genes into the future, they win
Like I've talked about before in another thread about parents and parenting, your parents don't love you, they love the "idea of you" (what you represent):
[Hard To Swallow Edition] Your Parents Don't "Love" YOU, They "Love" The "IDEA OF YOU"
A lot of people need to realize that your parents don't really "love" YOU, they "love" the "IDEA OF YOU" The ideal that you represent. You are their legacy, they can live vicariously through you and see you reach heights of success they couldn't, and in some way that makes them successful...
incels.is
This section from that post pertains to HOW and WHY your parents "love" you:
A lot of people need to realize that your parents don't really "love" YOU, they "love" the "IDEA OF YOU"
The ideal that you represent. You are their legacy, they can live vicariously through you and see you reach heights of success they couldn't, and in some way that makes them successful
Your parents don't really care if you are "happy" so long as you "do better than they did". So to all the incels still attached to their parents, grow up, you have to start looking out for yourself and your own dreams and desires, because your parents don't really care if you achieve them
So long as you simply exist to breed and carry on their genetic legacy they'll be alright with it, because even if you are a failure, you just having children leaves the potential for their genetics to "amount to something", and that's enough for the average parent
A lot of you are thinking "i'll never even get a woman" but most guys on this forum are pathetic and weak willed, statistically the majority of you reading this will be a betabuxx by age 30, that's just a fact
Statistically about 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women ages 25 to 44 aren't virgins (you can look it up), so most of the teens on this forum going on and on about "its over, I want to be loved" and guys in their 20's saying "its over, I want to be loved", are going to probably end up married to some used up whore at some point
That desperation and yearning to "be loved" and "feel desired" is only going to lead you to one path, betabuxx. For most of you its inevitable, you think you are never going to "make it", but what you don't realize is that years of desperation and loneliness is going to make you lower your standards over time, to where your criteria of "making it" is so low, that you'll delude yourself into believing that the crappy offer you finally accept was "a good deal"
If you are reading this, that's probably your future, that's the future of men who spend years obsessing about love and attraction, it will become your be all end all, you'll accept almost anything if you can get a taste of it, and you'll take any offers you can get after years of wanting it. Many of you are going to be "that guy" who is raising some other guys kid or dealing with some bitch with a ton of baggage and a high dick mileage, in some cases quite literally as the amount of inches of dick she's come across adds up to a mile
Here's the sad truth
Your mother doesn't care if you end up with a single mother with bastard kids so long as you JUST END UP WITH SOMEONE, and that's because like I said, your parents don't really care about YOU, they care about the IDEA OF YOU, what you represent, and what you represent is "LEGACY"
So long as your circumstances add up to a potential "continuance of legacy", they will accept the circumstances (or learn to), especially if they think you can't do any better
Your father doesn't care if you end up with a single mother with bastard kids so long as you JUST END UP WITH SOMEONE for the same reason too, in fact he'll probably tell you some BS like he's proud and it "takes a "real man" to raise someone elses kid" and that you "manned up"
Also if you had ended up with a hot super model he'd be saying the exact opposite and that you are a "chip off the old block", even though he wasn't even a "ladies man" and never got a woman of such quality, because again, PARENTS LIKE TO LIVE VICARIOUSLY THROUGH THEIR CHILDREN
Parents don't really care as much as they think they do, this is exactly why when they have a child with the potential to become an "incel" they fail completely when it comes to raising that child to have a satisfying life, because raising such a child to have an enjoyable and successful life, requires you to make self sacrifice with certain beliefs, and be more pragmatic, objective and even COLD in what you teach them about life. It may "hurt your heart" as a parent but your son will 100% thank you for it later in life when he sees how other incels are doing when they lack resources and make blue pilled life choices
To my fellow incels, here is why your parents failed you:
Their morals wouldn't allow IT
Their religious beliefs wouldn't allow IT
By "IT", I mean them telling you the harsh objective truths of reality that parents don't want to tell their sons (the black pill), and would rather have them "figure it out later in life" (AGAIN, LAZY PARENTING)
Do you think your parents (especially your mother) didn't know that short guys barely get dates or sex (if any at all)?
They did, they just chose not to talk about it because its an uncomfortable truth of life that they can't "moral away" or "pray away", and telling you about it challenges those beliefs. So they'd rather mentally block out such things and leave you suffer, fail and figure it out yourself (NO GUIDANCE)
Do you think your parents (especially your mother) didn't know that "nice guys" get treated like trash (despite advising that you act like a "nice guy")?
Its the same thing like above, your parents can't "moral away" or "pray away" this reality. Your mother especially would rather not talk about it because it also makes her look like a "bad person". She probably only dated and fucked "bad boys", that doesn't sound so "moral" or "religious" does it?
(which is exactly why mothers will avoid thinking about or talking about this with their sons)Mothers also don't talk about these things because they don't want their sons to look at them in a negative light, because talking about these things brings up obvious questions: - "Mom, what kind of men did you date?"
Pretty much all of our mothers are the same kind of woman that would reject us
That's a painful irony for her. She spent years rejecting certain traits, and now she has to see these traits in her own offspring
But like most parents today, she just wanted to be able to give the lazy cookie cutter advice, and not look at the changes in the dating market, the stats for marriage and divorce, etc, and take these social changes into account when deciding how she will raise her son. Same thing with the father too.
In fact I'd argue more that your father ESPECIALLY should have done this. You can't really expect women to be forthcoming and honest, our fathers were supposed to black pill us.
Parents do LAZY PARENTING, because it requires TOO MUCH EFFORT (more effort than they are willing to put into parenting) TO PROPERLY GUIDE INCEL SONS TOWARDS A PROSPEROUS FUTURE
Yet talk to some of the incels on this site and you speak of your parents (especially your mothers) like they are saints or something. Its like you have no self awareness of how much THEY TRULY FAILED YOU
BECAUSE DEEP DOWN
THEY DIDN'T REALLY CARE THAT MUCH
NOT AS MUCH AS THEY THINK THEY CARE
That's the scary thing about self delusion, they think they care a lot about you, but their actions reflect that they just care about THE INVESTMENT THAT IS "YOU"
Your satisfaction doesn't matter, you were "supposed to" yield "X returns" as an investment, you were supposed to be "normal" and "attractive", and only "X minimal investment" (cookie cutter upbringing) was "supposed to be" required for you to yield "X returns", and that's why they didn't take the time and effort to observe the changing world and your inferior traits, and alter your upbringing to be suited to this world
The average parent is self centered and lazy, and only having a child for the "experience of raising a child"
THEY DID NOT PUT MUCH THOUGHT INTO YOUR UPBRINGING AT ALL (and you have to come to terms with that, its the reason why your life is where it is now)
The funny thing is, now all of a sudden when I've reached this point in my life, people act like I'm supposed to have some kind of reverence for my parents
But I don't feel like that at all, I am grateful for the food, the shelter, the clothing, the opportunity to be educated, etc, but those things are all the basic bare minimum things that DON'T MATTER WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING A HAPPY LIFE AS AN UNATTRACTIVE MALE
I'll say it again, your parents aren't blind, they saw what you were growing into, they knew you would need to have money, or power, or status to even have a sex life one day, but they blocked those kinds of "negative" thoughts out because they'd much rather sacrifice you in order to cling to their morals and religious beliefs. You have to understand that your parents chose those things over you, if not you would already have been black pilled by your father and/or mother during your teens
The only thing I can do now is rush towards my goals and focus on wealthmaxxing. Be diligent so I can get to where I want to be financially as soon as possible
The moment I set myself up good, I'm gone forever from my current life, I'm not even joking
I'm changing my name
I'm leaving my country
I'm deleting all of my contacts
I'm never contacting anyone from my current life again
AND
I'm never going back to my country or my home
I'm starting an entirely new life and leaving my old trash life behind (I'm "going ghost")
Whether my family or friends of the past are "ok" with it and can "move on" is not my concern, I'm the one who is stuck in the shitty life I am in now and has to live with it everyday
Its not an enjoyable existence to wake up everyday and think about killing yourself, think about how peaceful it would be if you just faded out of existence when you go the bed later that day. Having to push yourself forward each day for that one singular goal, that future you are working towards that you've yearned after for so many years
My incel life has literally burned away any sense of attachment that I hold for my country, my family, my friends, anything in my life period
Its like I care for them TO AN EXTENT, but I hate my existence more than I care for anything
That's why I won't feel any regret or "miss" anyone, because as far as I'm concerned this universe has robbed me of enough of my life, and all the free time and focus I have left should be about me making up for lost time and enjoying the years I have left. Not "chatting with friends" or helping family members out with their problems
The rest of my life is going to be about me and ONLY ME, because somebody has to put me first, and it isn't going to be anybody but me. To all the incels reading, you better realize that this goes for you too and start working on what you need to when it comes to your finances, because you aren't going to have even a remotely enjoyable 30's or 40's or so on without financial freedom, you are delusional if you think otherwise
A sexless life with video games, anime and porn is not something that will satisfy a man in his 30's, you can keep coping and telling yourself that it will be enough, but it won't. A lot of you guys are going to wake up trapped in a twilight zone episode. I've already spent years thinking about this shit and I can see where things are going, I will probably kill myself if I am still in my current life at the age of 30
Financial freedom is a must for unattractive males, all of our parents should have made that a focus but they didn't, so here we are, in our 20's and our lives are going nowhere with no direction except a path that leads towards wage slavery and betabuxxing a whore who gets off of the cock carousel. Things aren't looking too good for us right now
Again, statistically about 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women ages 25 to 44 aren't virgins, and most people are still getting married, so a lot of you guys reading this saying to yourself - "I would never betabuxx, I will never give up on love" is just coping, because you don't seem to realize that your obsession with "being loved" and your obsession with "female validation", IS EXACTLY WHY YOU ARE GOING TO "GIVE IN" AND END UP SETTLING FOR USED COCK CAROUSEL GOODS
You are going to experiences STANDARDS ATTRITION (more on that in the thread below):
[Hard To Swallow Edition] Ascension For Most Men Is A Matter Of Time, Not A Matter Of Effort (The Danger Of "Standards Attrition")
I have made a few threads on "ascension" before This one is my favorite, as its very detailed and shows how at every stage of your ascension you have more trials to face where if you fail you lose everything...
incels.is
This current thread you are reading is also very much related to a thread I previously made about parenting:
Modern Parenting Is Counter-Productive To Having Successful & Happy Offspring (Favoring Morality & Altruism Over Success & Advantage)
First off let me preface this so the main concepts are understood: THERE ARE BASICALLY TWO PARENTING STRATEGIES I'VE OBSERVED, AND BASICALLY 99% OF ALL HUMANS OPT FOR THE LEAST EFFECTIVE ONE (#2): 1. Raising your child to be successful and advantageous, and gambling on the possibility that...
incels.is
This section from the top of the post is very relevant:
Our parents like most parents went with strategy #2, because again, LAZY COOKIE CUTTER PARENTING - "let teens figure out all the fucked up things about reality themselves because I don't want to feel bad"
Our parents, if they were PROPER PARENTS who cared about our quality of life, should have adopted strategy #1 in our cases, because we could not afford to be raised like every other child and still have enjoyable lives, and the state of our current lives is a testament to that fact (our lives are trash and will only get worse unless we go to extremes to change it)
So yes our parents did fail us, and they will continue to fail us
Don't look to your parents for sympathy, empathy or understanding when it comes to our lives as incels
REMEMBER - THEIR MORALS AND RELIGIOUS BELIEFS COME FIRST
Its the reason why they refused to be honest with you about life, and accept the harsh truths we needed them to bestow upon us
Its also the same reason why they will ignore you trying to tell them about it and dismiss all the studies, facts, figures or personal experience you have
The only thing we can do is focus on the financial opportunities we have before us, and work on trying to climb our way out of our hell hole lives ourselves
But after I do all of that shit, I don't know about you guys, but I'm cutting all ties
No family or friend is going to become a burden to me, I won't be anyone's handout
After I struggle to get myself into financial freedom, my life becomes about me and only me
Only leisure, pleasure and pursuing my interests will matter to me at that stage of my life, everybody and everything else will be left behind in the past, and to me that is the most logical path for any incel to take at this point
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