First off let me preface this so the main concepts are understood:
THERE ARE BASICALLY TWO PARENTING STRATEGIES I'VE OBSERVED, AND BASICALLY 99% OF ALL HUMANS OPT FOR THE LEAST EFFECTIVE ONE (#2):
1. Raising your child to be successful and advantageous, and gambling on the possibility that they will gain their moral foundations later in life
2. Raising your child to be moral and altruistic, and gambling on the possibility that they will gain their success later in life
For some reason most parents (likely due to indoctrination and thinking - "this is what my parents did") go with option #2, and when you really think about it, it doesn't make any sense. Its much easier for a person who is happy and satisfied with life to "become a good person" or even "want to be good", than for an unhappy and unsatisfied person to do so. A person who has spent their entire life being "good" and being taken advantage of, and never gaining much of any happiness, is more likely going to become bitter, envious, and hateful, and success is not a guarantee so they may never see the "silver lining". Even if they do become successful, they won't be able to shake off all the habits and ways of thinking they built up through their troubled years, they'll be spiteful and childish in everything they do now with their money, and in some cases wasteful
They'll become the kind of person who rolls up to old classmates in a nice new car to try and make them feel bad, not realizing that all those people have moved on to a point in their life where they could care less, they have a foundation of success and enjoyable experiences that will just make such a person look pathetic in their eyes
Notice what I just described is the kind of shit you'll hear a lot of "nice guys" talk about (especially incels) - "Ooooh boy, one day I'll have my revenge on all these dropouts, delinquents, jocks, etc, I'll roll by in my nice car and tell them about my mansion and they'll be so jealous they didn't make the life choices I did"
That's complete BS, its a cope, you aren't even a thought in their mind, in fact they might actually be glad to see you when you show up and be glad you are doing so well, because from their perspective - "YOU NEEDED IT", you needed that "big break" in life, after all the shit you missed out on, they could never feel jealous of you, because none of the things you can buy, can make up for the experiences you missed out on, the kind of shit that cements happiness and kindness into your very being, making you a forgiving person, someone who can "move on" from adversity rather than bear grudges
While you've been thinking about those normies for years, about how you are going to "get back at them", they've likely been thinking - "I hope X gets laid" when you randomly pop into their heads on the off chance, or you come up in a conversation when they meet up years later - "Lol I wonder how that guys doing, he had it bad, I hope he's doing well now"
Parents who try to make their children moral and altruistic, rather than make them successful and advantageous, are taking a huge gamble on their children, and they don't seem to get they are making a huge mistake. You could very well create the next mass shooter with that style of parenting, while if you had gone the other route you could have raised some entrepreneurial successful business man, he'd have had the same crappy looks, but he wouldn't be as bitter, because he'd have made different decisions, poured his time and energy into different things, actually experienced sex at an age that prevented him from having a midlife crisis later in life (whether he paid for it or not). Enjoying life enough that he didn't feel cheated or like he's endlessly chasing after some feat so he can "make up for lost time"
"I may have never dated a hot young teen, but if I have a threesome that will definitely make up for not experiencing prime pussy in the prime of my youth and all those years of rejection" (no it won't, you'll still "want more", you'll still feel like "something is missing")
I can easily understand how men end up doing mass shootings, because I understand the thoughts and the mindset completely, mass shootings are a desperate last resort, its a man flailing about trying to "get back" at a world that he felt cheated him out of happiness, and truth is, nothing short of nuking the planet would ever truly satisfy him because after his rampage there will always be smiling faces, there will always be those who get to live happily in blissful ignorance, because they were lucky, or because their parents actually did GOOD PARENTING, and were honest with them about the world and how it works
IRONICALLY A MORALLY BASED PARENTING STRATEGY IS WHAT LED TO US BEING SO IMMORAL, BECAUSE ITS NOT THOUGHTS THAT MAKES SOMEONE MORAL, BUT RATHER EXPERIENCES. IF ONES EXPERIENCES DOES NOT MATCH UP WITH THE MORAL CODE THEY ARE PRESCRIBED, THEY CAN NEVER TRULY BE MORAL, THAT'S WHY IT IS MORE LOGICAL TO PARENT A CHILD TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND ERR TOWARDS POSSIBLE IMMORALITY, SO THAT THEY CAN HAVE POSITIVE LIFE EXPERIENCES, AND BE DRAWN TOWARDS MORALITY NATURALLY, RATHER THAN TRYING TO COERCE OR FORCE A CHILD INTO BEING MORAL, ONLY FOR THEM TO HAVE NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES AND END UP RESENTING THE ENTIRE CONCEPT OF MORALITY AND THEIR SOCIETY AT LARGE
SINCE MOST PARENTS OPT FOR #2 IN PARENTING STRATEGIES (MORALITY OVER SUCCESS) ALL OF OUR HAPPINESS FALLS ON TO OUR GENETIC PROWESS. WE WERE GIVEN NO TRUE GUIDANCE, WE WERE NOT MADE AWARE OF ANY LOOPHOLES, STRATEGIES, ETC. IN REALITY WE WERE NOT PARENTED AT ALL, WE WERE A FUN LITTLE "HUMANITARIAN PROJECT" FOR OUR PARENTS TO STROKE THEIR EGO'S TO
"Look at how nice my little boy is, he's going to grow up to be such a good man" - JFL think again, you fucked your sons chances up, if he isn't significantly good looking you screwed him over
I've talked about this before, but many of our parents, most parents period today, have royally screwed their children (mainly sons), by lying to them about how the world works, for the sake of "preserving their innocence" and making them into "good people"
I do not feel grateful towards my parents for doing this, I don't look back and think - "well at least I have these fond memories of great ignorance to look back on" JFL
I have huge resentment for both of them, had they just been honest with me and actually prepared me for the world, instead of basically expecting me to figure shit out on the go, I would have been at a better place in life than I am now, I remember when I was naive enough to think of my parents as "great parents", but all they really were, were "decent providers".
Being a parent and a provider are two different things, having a roof over my head, education, food, etc, I will always be grateful for that, but when it comes to the actual important part of parenting, I will always see them as my enemy for the hand that they dealt me, my hatred will always be immense for them. From the moment I finally leave my country, I am completely disconnecting from my family, I am changing my email and contact information, I am even changing my name, once I am finished wealthmaxxing I want nothing to do with anything of my past, especially my parents. Having to figure out how the world works was the greatest betrayal my parents dealt against me, so many years wasted, so many moments I'll never get back, so many advantages I was not allowed to capitalize on, etc
Think about the most basic one, the fact that women are looks obsessed and don't like "nice guys", my mother basically primed me from birth to be a "nice guy", told me all the lies, we've all heard it - "one day if you are good, you'll meet X woman and so on and so forth", but then you arrive at school, and as the years go on, you start to realize all the guys who act the exact opposite of you, treat girls like crap, use them, take advantage of them, those are the guys who are never short of women, and my mother herself had multiple children by multiple men so she falls into that category two (I am one of the children she had with the last man she married, so my household was stable), so this is the part I find unforgivable:
1. SHE KNEW FULL WELL HOW MOST WOMEN THINK AND ACT
2. SHE KNEW THAT SHE HERSELF FELL INTO THAT CATEGORY
3. SHE KNEW WHICH STRATEGY WOULD LEAD TO INCREASED ROMANTIC SUCCESS FOR HER SON (what to say, what to do, how to act, etc)
Yet for the sake of "morality", for the sake of raising a "good person", she sacrificed my happiness, my happiness was sacrificed for the sake of HER EGO
This example, is just the most common example all incels face, our mothers knowing full well that "nice guys finish last", yet not telling us that from the get go, because:
1. They don't want us to think less of them
2. They want us to be "good people"
THAT'S ALL SELFISH EGOTISTICAL BULLSHIT, THEY SACRIFICED OUR HAPPINESS FOR THEIR FUCKING IDEALS, HOW THE FUCK IS THAT "PARENTING"
AS MEN IN OUR 20'S (AND UP) WE NOW HAVE TO RE-LEARN FACTS ABOUT REALITY THAT WE SHOULD HAVE ALREADY BEEN TOLD FROM THE START, WE NOW HAVE TO TRY AND QUICKLY CLAW OUR WAY TO THE TOP JUST TO ARRIVE AT A PEAK WHERE ALL OUR PEERS HAVE ALREADY PLANTED THEIR FLAGS TO MARK THEIR PROGRESS, AND HAVE LONG SINCE ASCENDED FURTHER
Maybe one day I'll tell my parents this and let them know what I think, and understand how they failed me, in an email or something, never in person, because I am forever unable to give them what they would want from me in that moment, forgiveness
There is no forgiveness in me and there never will be, one can only forgive when they have a foundation of happiness and/or success that doesn't make forgiveness feel like a loss or sacrifice
All I can think now is THANK GOD FOR THE BLACK PILL, the concept of the black pill, was a better and more useful parent to me than my own parents ever have been or will be
THERE ARE BASICALLY TWO PARENTING STRATEGIES I'VE OBSERVED, AND BASICALLY 99% OF ALL HUMANS OPT FOR THE LEAST EFFECTIVE ONE (#2):
1. Raising your child to be successful and advantageous, and gambling on the possibility that they will gain their moral foundations later in life
2. Raising your child to be moral and altruistic, and gambling on the possibility that they will gain their success later in life
For some reason most parents (likely due to indoctrination and thinking - "this is what my parents did") go with option #2, and when you really think about it, it doesn't make any sense. Its much easier for a person who is happy and satisfied with life to "become a good person" or even "want to be good", than for an unhappy and unsatisfied person to do so. A person who has spent their entire life being "good" and being taken advantage of, and never gaining much of any happiness, is more likely going to become bitter, envious, and hateful, and success is not a guarantee so they may never see the "silver lining". Even if they do become successful, they won't be able to shake off all the habits and ways of thinking they built up through their troubled years, they'll be spiteful and childish in everything they do now with their money, and in some cases wasteful
They'll become the kind of person who rolls up to old classmates in a nice new car to try and make them feel bad, not realizing that all those people have moved on to a point in their life where they could care less, they have a foundation of success and enjoyable experiences that will just make such a person look pathetic in their eyes
Notice what I just described is the kind of shit you'll hear a lot of "nice guys" talk about (especially incels) - "Ooooh boy, one day I'll have my revenge on all these dropouts, delinquents, jocks, etc, I'll roll by in my nice car and tell them about my mansion and they'll be so jealous they didn't make the life choices I did"
That's complete BS, its a cope, you aren't even a thought in their mind, in fact they might actually be glad to see you when you show up and be glad you are doing so well, because from their perspective - "YOU NEEDED IT", you needed that "big break" in life, after all the shit you missed out on, they could never feel jealous of you, because none of the things you can buy, can make up for the experiences you missed out on, the kind of shit that cements happiness and kindness into your very being, making you a forgiving person, someone who can "move on" from adversity rather than bear grudges
While you've been thinking about those normies for years, about how you are going to "get back at them", they've likely been thinking - "I hope X gets laid" when you randomly pop into their heads on the off chance, or you come up in a conversation when they meet up years later - "Lol I wonder how that guys doing, he had it bad, I hope he's doing well now"
Parents who try to make their children moral and altruistic, rather than make them successful and advantageous, are taking a huge gamble on their children, and they don't seem to get they are making a huge mistake. You could very well create the next mass shooter with that style of parenting, while if you had gone the other route you could have raised some entrepreneurial successful business man, he'd have had the same crappy looks, but he wouldn't be as bitter, because he'd have made different decisions, poured his time and energy into different things, actually experienced sex at an age that prevented him from having a midlife crisis later in life (whether he paid for it or not). Enjoying life enough that he didn't feel cheated or like he's endlessly chasing after some feat so he can "make up for lost time"
"I may have never dated a hot young teen, but if I have a threesome that will definitely make up for not experiencing prime pussy in the prime of my youth and all those years of rejection" (no it won't, you'll still "want more", you'll still feel like "something is missing")
I can easily understand how men end up doing mass shootings, because I understand the thoughts and the mindset completely, mass shootings are a desperate last resort, its a man flailing about trying to "get back" at a world that he felt cheated him out of happiness, and truth is, nothing short of nuking the planet would ever truly satisfy him because after his rampage there will always be smiling faces, there will always be those who get to live happily in blissful ignorance, because they were lucky, or because their parents actually did GOOD PARENTING, and were honest with them about the world and how it works
IRONICALLY A MORALLY BASED PARENTING STRATEGY IS WHAT LED TO US BEING SO IMMORAL, BECAUSE ITS NOT THOUGHTS THAT MAKES SOMEONE MORAL, BUT RATHER EXPERIENCES. IF ONES EXPERIENCES DOES NOT MATCH UP WITH THE MORAL CODE THEY ARE PRESCRIBED, THEY CAN NEVER TRULY BE MORAL, THAT'S WHY IT IS MORE LOGICAL TO PARENT A CHILD TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND ERR TOWARDS POSSIBLE IMMORALITY, SO THAT THEY CAN HAVE POSITIVE LIFE EXPERIENCES, AND BE DRAWN TOWARDS MORALITY NATURALLY, RATHER THAN TRYING TO COERCE OR FORCE A CHILD INTO BEING MORAL, ONLY FOR THEM TO HAVE NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES AND END UP RESENTING THE ENTIRE CONCEPT OF MORALITY AND THEIR SOCIETY AT LARGE
SINCE MOST PARENTS OPT FOR #2 IN PARENTING STRATEGIES (MORALITY OVER SUCCESS) ALL OF OUR HAPPINESS FALLS ON TO OUR GENETIC PROWESS. WE WERE GIVEN NO TRUE GUIDANCE, WE WERE NOT MADE AWARE OF ANY LOOPHOLES, STRATEGIES, ETC. IN REALITY WE WERE NOT PARENTED AT ALL, WE WERE A FUN LITTLE "HUMANITARIAN PROJECT" FOR OUR PARENTS TO STROKE THEIR EGO'S TO
"Look at how nice my little boy is, he's going to grow up to be such a good man" - JFL think again, you fucked your sons chances up, if he isn't significantly good looking you screwed him over
I've talked about this before, but many of our parents, most parents period today, have royally screwed their children (mainly sons), by lying to them about how the world works, for the sake of "preserving their innocence" and making them into "good people"
I do not feel grateful towards my parents for doing this, I don't look back and think - "well at least I have these fond memories of great ignorance to look back on" JFL
I have huge resentment for both of them, had they just been honest with me and actually prepared me for the world, instead of basically expecting me to figure shit out on the go, I would have been at a better place in life than I am now, I remember when I was naive enough to think of my parents as "great parents", but all they really were, were "decent providers".
Being a parent and a provider are two different things, having a roof over my head, education, food, etc, I will always be grateful for that, but when it comes to the actual important part of parenting, I will always see them as my enemy for the hand that they dealt me, my hatred will always be immense for them. From the moment I finally leave my country, I am completely disconnecting from my family, I am changing my email and contact information, I am even changing my name, once I am finished wealthmaxxing I want nothing to do with anything of my past, especially my parents. Having to figure out how the world works was the greatest betrayal my parents dealt against me, so many years wasted, so many moments I'll never get back, so many advantages I was not allowed to capitalize on, etc
Think about the most basic one, the fact that women are looks obsessed and don't like "nice guys", my mother basically primed me from birth to be a "nice guy", told me all the lies, we've all heard it - "one day if you are good, you'll meet X woman and so on and so forth", but then you arrive at school, and as the years go on, you start to realize all the guys who act the exact opposite of you, treat girls like crap, use them, take advantage of them, those are the guys who are never short of women, and my mother herself had multiple children by multiple men so she falls into that category two (I am one of the children she had with the last man she married, so my household was stable), so this is the part I find unforgivable:
1. SHE KNEW FULL WELL HOW MOST WOMEN THINK AND ACT
2. SHE KNEW THAT SHE HERSELF FELL INTO THAT CATEGORY
3. SHE KNEW WHICH STRATEGY WOULD LEAD TO INCREASED ROMANTIC SUCCESS FOR HER SON (what to say, what to do, how to act, etc)
Yet for the sake of "morality", for the sake of raising a "good person", she sacrificed my happiness, my happiness was sacrificed for the sake of HER EGO
This example, is just the most common example all incels face, our mothers knowing full well that "nice guys finish last", yet not telling us that from the get go, because:
1. They don't want us to think less of them
2. They want us to be "good people"
THAT'S ALL SELFISH EGOTISTICAL BULLSHIT, THEY SACRIFICED OUR HAPPINESS FOR THEIR FUCKING IDEALS, HOW THE FUCK IS THAT "PARENTING"
AS MEN IN OUR 20'S (AND UP) WE NOW HAVE TO RE-LEARN FACTS ABOUT REALITY THAT WE SHOULD HAVE ALREADY BEEN TOLD FROM THE START, WE NOW HAVE TO TRY AND QUICKLY CLAW OUR WAY TO THE TOP JUST TO ARRIVE AT A PEAK WHERE ALL OUR PEERS HAVE ALREADY PLANTED THEIR FLAGS TO MARK THEIR PROGRESS, AND HAVE LONG SINCE ASCENDED FURTHER
Maybe one day I'll tell my parents this and let them know what I think, and understand how they failed me, in an email or something, never in person, because I am forever unable to give them what they would want from me in that moment, forgiveness
There is no forgiveness in me and there never will be, one can only forgive when they have a foundation of happiness and/or success that doesn't make forgiveness feel like a loss or sacrifice
All I can think now is THANK GOD FOR THE BLACK PILL, the concept of the black pill, was a better and more useful parent to me than my own parents ever have been or will be
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