bigantennaemay1 said:
I don't know, I'd personally rather remove all doubt. Of all the rejections I've gotten, the certain ones are the ones that were usually the easiest to take. Usually.
I lashed out once.
Because the person I messaged liked a lot of the same things I liked. You know, our interests and hobbies aligned.
So it's especially cutting when you like a lot of the same things, seem to have all the qualities they look for, but get rejected anyway (because you don't meet the looks threshold)
Like I said I once had someone who I really matched up with send one of those rejection type responses.
We were so matched, her profile picture was at the same lecture I attended. I was practically 10 feet away when the picture was taken.
The funny part is the conference was 4 years earlier, so she was using pictures 4 years out of date.... which I pointed out in my reply...