There is more to this story. A relationship requires constant effort to maintain attraction most of the time. You can't just stop taking your partner's preferences into account.
Commenter:
>I think it goes one of two ways: is this something a haircut/different clothes/ different grooming would solve? If yes, suggest those things to him like “babe I think you’d look really sexy with this whatever it is” If not - you should probably break up.
OP:
>The looks part definitely can be changed by haircut and clothing style! I have tried it before and he can actually look very handsome, but he doesn't like it when I make adjustments. Any small suggestion I make he seems to take it as if I'm trying to change him or tell him how to look, so he doesn't wanna do them. As for clothes, whenever I show him clothes that would make him look sexy he says that's "not him".
>The sexual attraction I don't think it can be changed. Maybe if he worked out at the gym, but even still, I feel like this chemistry in bed is something you either have or you don't
NGL, this guy doesn't sound like he looksmaxxes at all. We dress to cater to the preferences of our target audience, this guy doesn't want to. He doesn't adjust cut his hair/dress the way she likes. Heck, he doesn't even gym.
She's given him the answers but he doesn't want to write them down.
>whenever I show him clothes that would make him look sexy he says that's "not him".
Like honestly? What a retard.
It's okay for a guy to not want to make changes that impacts their identity, people wear what they want. But she can't be faulted for walking away after trying.
