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A single woman has detailed how 'atrocious' and 'grim' the dating scene is in Australia - and she's not the only one.
Kim, 32, claims she's constantly ghosted and gaslit soon after meeting new people and is urging men to 'do better' when it comes to dating.
The gorgeous blonde from Melbourne said she's become 'mentally drained' from getting to know new singles only for any initial spark to fizzle out.
'It's honestly such an absolute s*** show,' Kim said in a TikTok video.
'I'm 33 this year and thought by this age I would've met someone... It's honestly so, so bad out there. Last year I was ghosted by so many different men.'
Kim continued by explaining how singles eager to meet the right person need to be attentive when it comes to dating.
But meeting new potential partners can be physically and mentally draining over time.
Kim claims she's been ghosted, gaslit, manipulated and has also dealt with liars.
'I have been made to feel so bad by guys for communicating my basic needs, putting personal boundaries in place. I've had them gaslight me for doing this. I've had them then ghost me for doing this,' she continued.
'It is literally atrocious. I think people think there's so many other options out there.
'Don't get me wrong I think the dating apps and social media have definitely given that [idea] to people. It does portray that there is so many options.'
The fed-up single said she feel 'mentally drained' she is from the entire ordeal and is only left disappointed.
'I'm sick of having guys chase me, pursue me, want something, tell me all these amazing things, and make me think they're interested - and then as soon as I get close to them, slightly let my walls down and be vulnerable, they retract,' she said.
'How is this still happening at my age?? Do better guys! Please! Because I'm so so sick of this.'
After sharing the three-minute video, other women came forward and agreed with Kim by sharing their own dating stories.
'[I'm] 46 in Adelaide and it's an absolute s*** show out there. It's happening everywhere, dating apps have ruined everything!!!' one woman commented.
'And most think they're god's gift when they're barely a 2/10! They're always chasing the next best thing,' another said.
A third added: 'Options are addictive, apps give too many options.'
'I'm 43 in Melbourne. No conversation and the flaking out on dates, it does my head in,' another said.
Others added they've accepted being single rather than to continue to search for a real connection.
Holy fuck, 32? She looks 42. I tell you why they are ghosting you, foid, because you hit the WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALL. But seriously, foids will never understand. Imagine being 32, looking ten years older than you are, slut tats on your arms, and thinking men from Tinder are gonna use you for anything more than an easy lay. She probably thinks she is an 8, too. Standards are probably 6'+ with 7" dick, 6 fig salary and Hollywood star face. Listen, foid, if you wan to settle down you will drop your standards, learn to cook and clean, get those awful tatoos removed and MAYBE some decent man will take you for a wife, but at this rate? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
tl;dr walled no eggs foid wonders why chad doesn't want to put a ring on it.
A single woman has detailed how 'atrocious' and 'grim' the dating scene is in Australia - and she's not the only one.
Kim, 32, claims she's constantly ghosted and gaslit soon after meeting new people and is urging men to 'do better' when it comes to dating.
The gorgeous blonde from Melbourne said she's become 'mentally drained' from getting to know new singles only for any initial spark to fizzle out.
'It's honestly such an absolute s*** show,' Kim said in a TikTok video.
'I'm 33 this year and thought by this age I would've met someone... It's honestly so, so bad out there. Last year I was ghosted by so many different men.'
Kim continued by explaining how singles eager to meet the right person need to be attentive when it comes to dating.
But meeting new potential partners can be physically and mentally draining over time.
Kim claims she's been ghosted, gaslit, manipulated and has also dealt with liars.
'I have been made to feel so bad by guys for communicating my basic needs, putting personal boundaries in place. I've had them gaslight me for doing this. I've had them then ghost me for doing this,' she continued.
'It is literally atrocious. I think people think there's so many other options out there.
'Don't get me wrong I think the dating apps and social media have definitely given that [idea] to people. It does portray that there is so many options.'
The fed-up single said she feel 'mentally drained' she is from the entire ordeal and is only left disappointed.
'I'm sick of having guys chase me, pursue me, want something, tell me all these amazing things, and make me think they're interested - and then as soon as I get close to them, slightly let my walls down and be vulnerable, they retract,' she said.
'How is this still happening at my age?? Do better guys! Please! Because I'm so so sick of this.'
After sharing the three-minute video, other women came forward and agreed with Kim by sharing their own dating stories.
'[I'm] 46 in Adelaide and it's an absolute s*** show out there. It's happening everywhere, dating apps have ruined everything!!!' one woman commented.
'And most think they're god's gift when they're barely a 2/10! They're always chasing the next best thing,' another said.
A third added: 'Options are addictive, apps give too many options.'
'I'm 43 in Melbourne. No conversation and the flaking out on dates, it does my head in,' another said.
Others added they've accepted being single rather than to continue to search for a real connection.
Holy fuck, 32? She looks 42. I tell you why they are ghosting you, foid, because you hit the WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALL. But seriously, foids will never understand. Imagine being 32, looking ten years older than you are, slut tats on your arms, and thinking men from Tinder are gonna use you for anything more than an easy lay. She probably thinks she is an 8, too. Standards are probably 6'+ with 7" dick, 6 fig salary and Hollywood star face. Listen, foid, if you wan to settle down you will drop your standards, learn to cook and clean, get those awful tatoos removed and MAYBE some decent man will take you for a wife, but at this rate? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
tl;dr walled no eggs foid wonders why chad doesn't want to put a ring on it.