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I feel like many men don't understand what we actually find attractive in men​


When my husband and I were dating, he moved in with me. I live in a very conservative area and he was the first very liberal man i have dated. I remember thinking and saying to him that i'll have to lock him up, because girls my age are gonna love him. This was just a joke, but it has a truth to it. My husband still doesn't understand why I said that and we recently had a conversation with friends and all the men had no idea what I meant. The women on the other hand completely got it.
My husband is and always has been handsome. But if you wanna be completely technical, he has average features. He is tall, a little pale and has dark hair. But there is something about him. For one, he grew up with ONLY women arround him. Lesbian moms, only sisters, literally no male family members. Then he is kinda quiet and always calm. He's very passionate in politics and very liberal. He admits if he doesn't know something instead of immediately forming an opinion.
I met him on a vacation with friends and I saw him helping a elderly woman carrying her cup of coffee up some stairs. When he came back to the house we had rented, he didn't even mention that. He didn't know I saw him but he didn't brag about it or anything. That might be normal but.. this made me see him in a different light.
It's his compassion and his empathy that makes him such a attractive person. People notice that. Yet he and every other man we know wouldn't catch that as a thing that attracts women. They seem to have no idea.
My husband said "why would I be so attractive to people? just because i'm tall?" and then proceeds to explain he doesn't workout, got a little belly since we married and doesn't really have a desire to have children.
My dude. THIS IS WHY. You love to eat, you love what I bake and you are aware of what it would mean to raise children and aren't totally fixated on it, expecting me to do all the work. He drove a friend home last month when she wasn't feeling well, came back a little late and proceeded to show me the pictures of her kittens he just met.
EDIT: Just for some context I told him there are barely any not conservative men in this area, so if word gets out that he is not only liberal, but tall, respectful AND knows how to eat pussy, i'm gonna have to beat the ladies off with a stick or lock him up. It was a joke.

TL;DR He's tall and handsome.
Foid just couldn't help herself but mention that. It's so fucking tiresome
 
Posted it again award.
 
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Why are these roasties so blind and stupid JFLLLLLLLLLLL
 
I hope her husband beats her for using reddit
 
Jfl at this comment section
 
It took a tall and handsome liberal guy to get her to stop dating conservatives. I bet when she cheats on him, it's going to be with a groyper
 
Foids themselves don't understand what they find attractive in men, but it's so easy. Tall and handsome. Handsome and tall. These foid ramblings are but another futile attempt at comprehending this simple fact.
 
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I am going to translate this garbage a woman wrote to male language, sorry for the repitition.

"I remember thinking and saying to him that i'll have to lock him up, because girls my age are gonna love him. This was just a joke, but it has a truth to it. My husband still doesn't understand why I said that and we recently had a conversation with friends and all the men had no idea what I meant. The women on the other hand completely got it."
=He is a tall, white chad. "The women on the other hand completely got it" ofcourse they do, he is white and handsome.

"My husband is and always has been handsome.
=He is a tall, white chad.

But if you wanna be completely technical, he has average features. "He is tall, a little pale and has dark hair."
=He is a tall, white chad.


"It's his compassion and his empathy that makes him such a attractive person. People notice that."
=Below avarage and ugly people are also compassionate and very emphatic and noone notices them, they die lonely. So he is a tall, white chad.

"My husband said "why would I be so attractive to people? just because i'm tall?" and then proceeds to explain he doesn't workout, got a little belly"
=He is a tall, white chad Can someone bring the ch1nks that works out in Asian masculinity and show them this so they have to learn that gymming is just a f#cking cope?

"if word gets out that he is not only liberal, but tall, respectful AND knows how to eat pussy, i'm gonna have to beat the ladies off with a stick or lock him up. It was a joke."
=He is a tall, white chad or Meeks.
 
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>Why would I be attractive to people? Just because I'm tall?
He literally knows
 
Notice how she dropped the fact that he's tall nonchalantly.

This is what they do as to not appear shallow:

"But if you wanna be completely technical, he has average features. He is tall, a little pale and has dark hair. But there is something about him"

She gives LESS emphasis on the part that is MOST important. Although they can't help but include it.
 
Notice how she dropped the fact that he's tall nonchalantly.

This is what they do as to not appear shallow:

"But if you wanna be completely technical, he has average features. He is tall, a little pale and has dark hair. But there is something about him"

She gives LESS emphasis on the part that is MOST important. Although they can't help but include it.
She also mentioned he's handsome
 
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Why are these roasties so blind and stupid JFLLLLLLLLLLL
They have to virtue signal like this and invent or exaggerate stories where the 'gentle giant' showed the bare minimum of kindness one time.

To justify their reason for choosing chad and feel less shallow about themselves
 
Just be attractive and tall theory
 

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