How many men do you think get into relationships purely because of optics?

[INVERTER]

I have a sneaking suspicion the majority of men get into relationships now because they don't want to look "weird" because when you break it down there is NO other benefit.

Sex? Diminishes after the first year and usually the woman cheats or becomes out of shape and asexual. Plus she can claim you raped her at any time

Companionship? Most women cannot make conversation to save their life. You have to do everything.

"Muh better life outcomes". I believe this is complete nonsense. The only reason people feel lonely is because they think they should have a partner because society says so. Women create chaos and problems and feign victimhood constantly. Imagine going through that all day and wanting to kill yourself? Can't imagine a good life outcome from that.

Children? Most women abort their kids and get dogs or cats instead. You can do that by yourself

Seriously what else can you even get from a relationship? It's not like you can have the woman pay for things since they will never do that even though they make more than you for less work.

I'm convinced most people are NPCs following a script they think they should fulfill while hitting you with the "don't care what people think bro!" Nonsense despite living the opposite

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

Very true. Especially in Asia where appearing normal is everything. "You are at a certain age so you need a job with salary of X at the minimum and have to be married".

Also I heard from a HR/headhunter saying that they won't hire anyone who isn't married to a beautiful woman because it means they have no self-worth and/or are afraid of challenge.

 

[INVERTER]

Very true. Especially in Asia where appearing normal is everything. "You are at a certain age so you need a job with salary of X at the minimum and have to be married".

Also I heard from a HR/headhunter saying that they won't hire anyone who isn't married to a beautiful woman because it means they have no self-worth and/or are afraid of challenge.

Most HR reps should be sent to labor gulags in a video game. They don't know shit except how to get in the way

 

[INVERTER]

Not to mention, most people claim you need to become "independent bro" before dating anyone. Well if I don't have any needs whatsoever then WTF is the point of wasting my time with someone?

"You have to learn to just love yourself first bro". Ok but once you do that you have no need for anyone else unless you are just doing it to look good to other people: See! I have social proof!

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

loneliness must be like 100 times more important than optics

note that being in a couple and having access to couple activities including big parties with other couples is filed under 'loneliness' not 'optics'

 

[INVERTER]

loneliness must be like 100 times more important than optics

note that being in a couple and having access to couple activities including big parties with other couples is filed under 'loneliness' not 'optics'

Yeah I guess social access is a huge factor. I didn't even really consider that possibility since it is so foreign to me

 

[Orbiter]

they make you feel like a king when you have one around you. its like a trophy that you show off which also raises your smv.

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

Most women abort their kids and get dogs or cats instead

in vitro fertilization will gain popularity for this reason

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Children? Most women abort their kids and get dogs or cats instead.

: I'm focusing on my career inkie (OF), also brutal dogpill.

 

[nihilum]

loneliness must be like 100 times more important than optics

note that being in a couple and having access to couple activities including big parties with other couples is filed under 'loneliness' not 'optics'