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If you fail in one aspect in your life (e.g. relationships with women) you will also fail in others (e.g. academic/professional success; platonic relationships with males; sanity/mental-health).
1) Friendships with normalfags:
Past a certain age boys will start to become interested in girls - if you are like a repellent towards woman due to factors beyond your control (mental reasons like autism, looks) boys will not want to spend time with you because you diminish their chances of sexual success. Despite spending time with you during video games/movies/series they don't want to go with you to social conventions (like parties) because they are afraid that you could be an embarassment for them. The older you become the more the common interests diverge: While they can make formative experiences in real-life you are stuck in your genetic prison - all your attempts of socializing with others (especially with women) fail. Over time attempts of your friends to socialize with you will decrease in frequency until you don't talk to each other anymore because there is just no common ground. Even if you started out with normie friends over time you will have nothing in common anymore and they will abandon you, because you live in a completely different reality. A woman is only the catalyst for male friendships falling apart: If she doesn't like you she will prohibit meetings between her boyfriend and you or try to sabotage the relationship. And even if she doesn't so-called friends will always compare their lifes with yours and in the end normalfags will make the decisions that they don't want losers in their lifes and throw you out. Friendships with non-incels are unironically temporary at best.
2) Academic/professional success:
If you have no social success (women/friendships) academic/professional success will (most of the time) also fail (which leads to other problems worsening). You have no motivation, no drive in life and over time your performance will become worse. Furthermore, raw intelligence is nothing more than a prerequisite for success but even if you have it you need other factors (looks, neurotypicality, charisma) in order to succeed - if you don't have intelligence it's even worse because all things (studying; achievements) will become harder/impossible; intelligence is a trait someone is born with, naturally-gifted people succeed at least academically (if they put in the bare minimum) while average people work their asses off without getting results that are remotely comparable to theirs and below-average people are weeded out. But even if you manage to get a job the work is extremely exhausting; most of the people that work full-time can only tolerate that hell because they have a reason for doing so (family with kids, girlfriend, expensive hobbies) and even they suffer from feelings of alienation/exhaustion. If you have no reason for tolerating this hell you will sooner or later quit. A lack of academic/professional success will again lead to further positive feedback with other negative traits.
3) Mental health:
All those things will take a toll on your mental-health. Even if you started out as a truecel solely based on looks you will develop into a mentalcel over time because humans aren't meant to live like we do. With your mental-health deteriorating the other problems will also become worse (social/professional) which will in turn worsen your mental health and so on - it's an autocatalytic process with factors that interact and worsen each other (synergism).
1) Friendships with normalfags:
Past a certain age boys will start to become interested in girls - if you are like a repellent towards woman due to factors beyond your control (mental reasons like autism, looks) boys will not want to spend time with you because you diminish their chances of sexual success. Despite spending time with you during video games/movies/series they don't want to go with you to social conventions (like parties) because they are afraid that you could be an embarassment for them. The older you become the more the common interests diverge: While they can make formative experiences in real-life you are stuck in your genetic prison - all your attempts of socializing with others (especially with women) fail. Over time attempts of your friends to socialize with you will decrease in frequency until you don't talk to each other anymore because there is just no common ground. Even if you started out with normie friends over time you will have nothing in common anymore and they will abandon you, because you live in a completely different reality. A woman is only the catalyst for male friendships falling apart: If she doesn't like you she will prohibit meetings between her boyfriend and you or try to sabotage the relationship. And even if she doesn't so-called friends will always compare their lifes with yours and in the end normalfags will make the decisions that they don't want losers in their lifes and throw you out. Friendships with non-incels are unironically temporary at best.
2) Academic/professional success:
If you have no social success (women/friendships) academic/professional success will (most of the time) also fail (which leads to other problems worsening). You have no motivation, no drive in life and over time your performance will become worse. Furthermore, raw intelligence is nothing more than a prerequisite for success but even if you have it you need other factors (looks, neurotypicality, charisma) in order to succeed - if you don't have intelligence it's even worse because all things (studying; achievements) will become harder/impossible; intelligence is a trait someone is born with, naturally-gifted people succeed at least academically (if they put in the bare minimum) while average people work their asses off without getting results that are remotely comparable to theirs and below-average people are weeded out. But even if you manage to get a job the work is extremely exhausting; most of the people that work full-time can only tolerate that hell because they have a reason for doing so (family with kids, girlfriend, expensive hobbies) and even they suffer from feelings of alienation/exhaustion. If you have no reason for tolerating this hell you will sooner or later quit. A lack of academic/professional success will again lead to further positive feedback with other negative traits.
3) Mental health:
All those things will take a toll on your mental-health. Even if you started out as a truecel solely based on looks you will develop into a mentalcel over time because humans aren't meant to live like we do. With your mental-health deteriorating the other problems will also become worse (social/professional) which will in turn worsen your mental health and so on - it's an autocatalytic process with factors that interact and worsen each other (synergism).