Discussion Are there guys here capable of socializing?

[deadcells]

(sorry for the shitty title)

i was just curious how many people on this forum actually have friends (real life), capable of not being socially anxious whenever outside and in between strangers, maybe be able of coping to an extent, doing so.

obviously, a large majority of guys here, including me, are very reserved or completely isolated, from society casting the hand over us in exile. and there is also a maximum extent where an incel can integrate themselves.

but i was wondering if there is maybe a tiny minority here who can meet their bare social needs with ease, or even more? maybe also your reasoning perhaps for still engaging?

 

[samsara]

No

 

[ihatelife2]

I don't have friends irl

 

[EthnicSub5]

No, I might as well my ND, in fact I might be as I was in special ed classes till high school, even though by the time I was in middle school it felt like it was holding me back rather than helping.

I’ve just always been awkward.

 

[fokusin]

No

 

[SSuzumiya]

Sorta. I can socialize with coworkers or something but with strangers like at a bar or something? No. I'm introverted and quiet so I don't really speak to a lot of people.

 

[GigaL0ser]

No,
I can't even properly talk anymore to others because I've been isolated for so long

 

[luciferiancel]

As much as my face permits me, which is very little.

 

[Shitpostr]

Depends. I get all my basic social needs via my internet friends, some of which I have meet irl. But I don't have any that I've exclusively meet irl. I don't have so much social anxiety that it bothers me, but people irl can definitely tell my social inept in just a few seconds. I'm shy and very reserved around people I don't know well. But around people I am comfortable with, I'm quite different. I don't like small talk, I only speak with purpose or to make an awful joke. I hate crowds though, or being around people (I could stop there) I don't know or am comfortable with.

TL;DR find like minded people on the net, best thing to not feel completely isolated. Join Discord servers relevant to your interests and be active in them.

 

[Grodd]

No

 

[ItsOverMan]

Not me.

completely isolated, from society casting the hand over us in exile.

I'm completely isolated.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

I think a large portion of guys here wouldn't be incel if they were good at/enjoyed socializing.

 

[deadcells]

I think a large portion of guys here wouldn't be incel if they were good at/enjoyed socializing.

i guess i see your point

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

i guess i see your point

People love talking about looks (which is a very real thing), but let's face it, basically none of us are social butterflies here.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

Escortcels are socially capable because you have to be fairly low inhib to go meet a strange woman for sex.

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

I'm capable

But most of people don't let me

 

[undesiredsamsung]

(sorry for the shitty title)

i was just curious how many people on this forum actually have friends (real life), capable of not being socially anxious whenever outside and in between strangers, maybe be able of coping to an extent, doing so.

obviously, a large majority of guys here, including me, are very reserved or completely isolated, from society casting the hand over us in exile. and there is also a maximum extent where an incel can integrate themselves.

but i was wondering if there is maybe a tiny minority here who can meet their bare social needs with ease, or even more? maybe also your reasoning perhaps for still engaging?

Mogs me if they have any sort of social life

 

[undesiredsamsung]

Shit nigga I barley even speak to my parents lol

 

[razielkillerofgods]

I can't even imagine having an IRL friend.

 

[keithbauhaus]

(sorry for the shitty title)

i was just curious how many people on this forum actually have friends (real life), capable of not being socially anxious whenever outside and in between strangers, maybe be able of coping to an extent, doing so.

obviously, a large majority of guys here, including me, are very reserved or completely isolated, from society casting the hand over us in exile. and there is also a maximum extent where an incel can integrate themselves.

but i was wondering if there is maybe a tiny minority here who can meet their bare social needs with ease, or even more? maybe also your reasoning perhaps for still engaging?

I have a few close friends and am able to (mostly) socialize with my coworkers, but there are a few people (mainly women) that treat me like shit/flat out refuse to acknowledge my existence at work.

 

[PhineasSpear]

Only if someone speaks to me first

 

[WastedPotential]

Yes, but I don't enjoy it and I'm relatively speaking heavily isolated compared to my peers.

I can small talk, hold deep conversations, pick up on basic social cues.
But that all doesn't really matter when you're a manlet like me

 

[anglocelticcel]

Not really mate

 

[UndergroundHuman]

No friends for the past 6 years.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

No. Autism and decades of isolation have made me socially crippled.

 

[Mr Black]

yes if i feel like it

 

[literallyretarded]

(sorry for the shitty title)

i was just curious how many people on this forum actually have friends (real life), capable of not being socially anxious whenever outside and in between strangers, maybe be able of coping to an extent, doing so.

obviously, a large majority of guys here, including me, are very reserved or completely isolated, from society casting the hand over us in exile. and there is also a maximum extent where an incel can integrate themselves.

but i was wondering if there is maybe a tiny minority here who can meet their bare social needs with ease, or even more? maybe also your reasoning perhaps for still engaging?

no even if i could i would not want to talk with a normie