Just kidding.
Literally all of society depends on covert contracts.
Imagine you help you neighbor with a difficult task. After you finish helping him, he says "I hope your entire family dies". How would you feel? Probably angry, but why? Because there are covert contracts that govern how people should behave. All normalfags internalize and believe this.
Of course the term "covert contract" is just a negative way of saying "social expectation". During times of Chivalry, there were expectations around courtship that no longer exist because society changed their mind. Under feudalism, familes set up their children with romantic partners.
What normans do is they shift the goalposts whenever the mob of idiots has decided that covert contracts are no longer valid.
Basically it plays out like this:
SOCIETY: Incel "nice guys are bad because they have covert contracts and expectations with the opposite sex and that's wrong. Also they are not truly nice because a truly nice person would be exactly like Jesus Christ and sacrifice themselves for others for nothing in return while being mocked and ridiculed the whole time"
Me: So we should throw away all entitlements like freedom of speech, freedom from unreasonable search and seizure or freedom of travel?
SOCIETY: NO! I AM ENTITLED TO ALL OF THOSE. IT'S THAT YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES
Me: Ok but other people's bodies are required to enforce all of those things
SOCIETY: NOOO! THAT DOESN'T COUNT BECAUSE THEY ARE OVERT CONTRACTS!
Me: OK what if we created overt contracts around dating and romantic relations
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU CAN'T DO WHAT HAD BEEN DONE FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS BECAUSE IT'S CREEPY. ALSO YOU CAN'T FORCE OTHER PEOPLE TO GIVE YOU INTIMACY
Me: Ok but I can pay escorts
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU CAN'T DO THAT BECAUSE YOU ARE FORCING OTHERS TO SLEEP WITH YOU AND IT IS COERCIVE WHICH IS WRONG
Me: Ok but the person is doing it voluntarily
SOCIETY: NO THEY ARE NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE ECONOMICALLY COMPELLED TO DO IT
Me: OK so what about being an ironworker or welder which are dangerous jobs that brutalize your body for 14 hours a day?
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! THOSE DON'T COUNT BECAUSE THEY DON'T INVOLVE EXCHANGE OF BODILY FLUIDS
Me: Ok what about nurses?
SOCIETY: THAT DOESN'T COUNT BECAUSE IT'S NOT INTIMACY
Me: Why is intimacy any different?
SOCIETY: BECAUSE INTIMACY IS ONLY RESERVED FOR SPECIAL CONNECTIONS AND PEOPLE WHICH IS WHY YOU NEED TO HAVE DOZENS OF SEXUAL PARTNERS BEFORE YOU TURN 30
Me: Ok but I am literally not capable of that due to genetics/looks
SOCIETY: NOT MY PROBLEM. YOU NEED TO WORK HARDER AND APPROACH MORE PEOPLE
Me: OK I'm gonna try approaching at the gym and at my job
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! THOSE ARE INAPPROPRIATE PLACES AND YOU'RE COERCING AND HARASSING PEOPLE
Me: OK I will just retreat into my shell then
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU ARE BEING CREEPY BY LURKING BY YOURSELF
Me: OK I will go out in public then
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! YOU'RE PUTTING OUT BAD VIBES
Me: OK but I was born with disorders I can't control
SOCIETY: THAT'S YOUR OWN FAULT YOU PIECE OF LITERAL SHIT. I'M AN AUDHD LIBERAL TRANSGENDER WHO ACCEPTS ALL PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE EXCEPT FOR UGLY PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO CAN'T READ MY MIND I MEAN THE ROOM (WHICH ONLY INCLUDES ME BECAUSE I AM AN EMPATH)
Me: OK I'll try to be more understanding
SOCIETY: NOW YOU'RE BORING BECAUSE YOU'RE FOCUSING ON UNDERSTANDING INSTEAD OF HAVING AN ACTUAL PERSONALITY
Me: OK I'll try to be more edgy and interesting
SOCIETY: THAT PERSONALLY OFFENDS ME WHICH MAKES IT OBJECTIVELY WRONG. I KNEW THIS WHOLE TIME YOU WEREN'T THE NICE GUY YOU CLAIM TO BE
Me: That's because I was provoked
SOCIETY: IF YOU WERE TRULY NICE YOU WOULDN'T EVEN GET PROVOKED. SO WHAT IF I INSULTED YOU, DEGRADED YOU, SHIFTED THE GOALPOSTS 200 TIMES AND GASLIT YOU. YOU SHOULD HAVE NO BOUNDARIES OR NEEDS WHATSOEVER. YOU MUST BE ONE OF THE 200 TRILLION MEN WHO ATTENDED THE RAPE ACADEMY
Me: But that is just fake news
SOCIETY; IT DOESN'T EVEN MATTER IF IT IS FAKE. NO ONE SHOULD RAPE ANYONE. ALSO YOU ARE ONE OF THE RAPISTS BECAUSE YOU ARE FOCUSED ON DEBUNKING THE NUMBER INSTEAD OF ELIMINATING ALL RAPES EVERYWHERE
Me: OK but that is just impossible since people who commit actual rapes aren't going to listen to anyone since they are sociopaths. You are just expected me to do empty virtue signaling
SOCIETY: NOOOO! 99% OF MEN HAVE ADMITTED TO USING COERCION SO YOU HAVE TO STAND UP TO YOUR FELLOW MALES AND TELL THEM TO STOP RAPING
And so on and so forth
Literally all of society depends on covert contracts.
Imagine you help you neighbor with a difficult task. After you finish helping him, he says "I hope your entire family dies". How would you feel? Probably angry, but why? Because there are covert contracts that govern how people should behave. All normalfags internalize and believe this.
Of course the term "covert contract" is just a negative way of saying "social expectation". During times of Chivalry, there were expectations around courtship that no longer exist because society changed their mind. Under feudalism, familes set up their children with romantic partners.
What normans do is they shift the goalposts whenever the mob of idiots has decided that covert contracts are no longer valid.
Basically it plays out like this:
SOCIETY: Incel "nice guys are bad because they have covert contracts and expectations with the opposite sex and that's wrong. Also they are not truly nice because a truly nice person would be exactly like Jesus Christ and sacrifice themselves for others for nothing in return while being mocked and ridiculed the whole time"
Me: So we should throw away all entitlements like freedom of speech, freedom from unreasonable search and seizure or freedom of travel?
SOCIETY: NO! I AM ENTITLED TO ALL OF THOSE. IT'S THAT YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES
Me: Ok but other people's bodies are required to enforce all of those things
SOCIETY: NOOO! THAT DOESN'T COUNT BECAUSE THEY ARE OVERT CONTRACTS!
Me: OK what if we created overt contracts around dating and romantic relations
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU CAN'T DO WHAT HAD BEEN DONE FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS BECAUSE IT'S CREEPY. ALSO YOU CAN'T FORCE OTHER PEOPLE TO GIVE YOU INTIMACY
Me: Ok but I can pay escorts
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU CAN'T DO THAT BECAUSE YOU ARE FORCING OTHERS TO SLEEP WITH YOU AND IT IS COERCIVE WHICH IS WRONG
Me: Ok but the person is doing it voluntarily
SOCIETY: NO THEY ARE NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE ECONOMICALLY COMPELLED TO DO IT
Me: OK so what about being an ironworker or welder which are dangerous jobs that brutalize your body for 14 hours a day?
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! THOSE DON'T COUNT BECAUSE THEY DON'T INVOLVE EXCHANGE OF BODILY FLUIDS
Me: Ok what about nurses?
SOCIETY: THAT DOESN'T COUNT BECAUSE IT'S NOT INTIMACY
Me: Why is intimacy any different?
SOCIETY: BECAUSE INTIMACY IS ONLY RESERVED FOR SPECIAL CONNECTIONS AND PEOPLE WHICH IS WHY YOU NEED TO HAVE DOZENS OF SEXUAL PARTNERS BEFORE YOU TURN 30
Me: Ok but I am literally not capable of that due to genetics/looks
SOCIETY: NOT MY PROBLEM. YOU NEED TO WORK HARDER AND APPROACH MORE PEOPLE
Me: OK I'm gonna try approaching at the gym and at my job
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! THOSE ARE INAPPROPRIATE PLACES AND YOU'RE COERCING AND HARASSING PEOPLE
Me: OK I will just retreat into my shell then
SOCIETY: NOOO! YOU ARE BEING CREEPY BY LURKING BY YOURSELF
Me: OK I will go out in public then
SOCIETY: NOOOOO! YOU'RE PUTTING OUT BAD VIBES
Me: OK but I was born with disorders I can't control
SOCIETY: THAT'S YOUR OWN FAULT YOU PIECE OF LITERAL SHIT. I'M AN AUDHD LIBERAL TRANSGENDER WHO ACCEPTS ALL PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE EXCEPT FOR UGLY PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO CAN'T READ MY MIND I MEAN THE ROOM (WHICH ONLY INCLUDES ME BECAUSE I AM AN EMPATH)
Me: OK I'll try to be more understanding
SOCIETY: NOW YOU'RE BORING BECAUSE YOU'RE FOCUSING ON UNDERSTANDING INSTEAD OF HAVING AN ACTUAL PERSONALITY
Me: OK I'll try to be more edgy and interesting
SOCIETY: THAT PERSONALLY OFFENDS ME WHICH MAKES IT OBJECTIVELY WRONG. I KNEW THIS WHOLE TIME YOU WEREN'T THE NICE GUY YOU CLAIM TO BE
Me: That's because I was provoked
SOCIETY: IF YOU WERE TRULY NICE YOU WOULDN'T EVEN GET PROVOKED. SO WHAT IF I INSULTED YOU, DEGRADED YOU, SHIFTED THE GOALPOSTS 200 TIMES AND GASLIT YOU. YOU SHOULD HAVE NO BOUNDARIES OR NEEDS WHATSOEVER. YOU MUST BE ONE OF THE 200 TRILLION MEN WHO ATTENDED THE RAPE ACADEMY
Me: But that is just fake news
SOCIETY; IT DOESN'T EVEN MATTER IF IT IS FAKE. NO ONE SHOULD RAPE ANYONE. ALSO YOU ARE ONE OF THE RAPISTS BECAUSE YOU ARE FOCUSED ON DEBUNKING THE NUMBER INSTEAD OF ELIMINATING ALL RAPES EVERYWHERE
Me: OK but that is just impossible since people who commit actual rapes aren't going to listen to anyone since they are sociopaths. You are just expected me to do empty virtue signaling
SOCIETY: NOOOO! 99% OF MEN HAVE ADMITTED TO USING COERCION SO YOU HAVE TO STAND UP TO YOUR FELLOW MALES AND TELL THEM TO STOP RAPING
And so on and so forth
Was a funny read lol. you're right tho, They want us to be nice without expecting anything in return, it's fucking cucked.
