Serious You're bewildered how people can just do interviews

[Wanttotalk...imbusy]

A strong attribute of being a neurodivergent incel is being bewildered with interviews. How can one be successful in conducting an interview? If I was put on the spot, I wouldn't even know what to say. I would slur my speech or say something so controversial I'd be banned from ever speaking again.

Doubly suifuel when foreigners can speak clearer and more fluent english than you can.

How can normies speak so clearly and quickly while being put on the spot in front of many people?

 

[all this time]

they are in the present moment not overthinking i think, no fight or flight for good speakers

 

[Luganki]

In my college in the Netherlands I was forced to speak in front of my class on occasion. I am ND, I have an extremely hard time talking to people, starting and maintaining conversations, I occasionally stutter, I can't interpet social cues, and every joke I attempt to make falls flat or ends up sounding cringe. During these times I was made to speak in front of the class, I was so nervous my whole body was shaking, and I had to read a script on what I was saying word for word because otherwise I would be too nervous to find what to say, and f I looked up at the rest of my class I would be so frightened at everyone staring at me I would also lose what to say. After I would speak everyone just looked at me afterwards with an expression like "What the fuck is wrong with this guy?" That was genuinely terrifying, just typing this shit makes my heart race at the thought of it.

 

[Luganki]

Doubly suifuel when foreigners can speak clearer and more fluent english than you can

YES EXACTLY THIS. It would absolutely shock me seeing how people in my college would be able to flirt and talk to each other confidently in English and it was like their 2nd or 3rd language, meanwhile I can do none of that shit and English is the only language I know! Fucking insanity