Blackpill You Only Crave Validation because You've been a Failure all your life

[Fierycel]

I was reading a thread; just another the thread pro escort celling and anti chasing female validation

I've realized in order to chase validation, you must've been a failure in every stage of your life or you've never been at the top, like I have been

I've always been good at something way better than other people, whether it was soccer, martial arts, even studying the days I used to actually focus in school and I was top of the class

Even in video games, I'm not saying this to brag, I think I definitely have god given gifts like intelligence or desire to work hard, mental capacity at least compared to my competition and the feeling after winning and everyone just telling you how good you were, it's not that rewarding

Being completely honest in any team game I knew I was just another teammate to them and I was only praised for my contributions to the team, and even though they clapped, in individualistic sports I knew really they were jealous and would rather have it for themselves

it's common logic and although I'm not scared, I don't want enemies, they're like obstacles they only make the road harder, I'd rather reach the goal faster than fight enemies and make it hard

So being good at something, then other people telling you how good you are (being validated) really it's them using you or getting jealous of you then hiding it

The fact that a lot of you chase this leads me to believe you've been a failure at whatever you've done and you lack any god given gift that separates you or maybe you were lazy

That's exactly why you chase validation because you've never been validated before, no one ever said "good job" to you after you thought you did something

If they had, you would realize how ridiculous this goal of yours is

Either way, validation has no purpose, it's literally a have or not have, it's like if an ant is in this room, that's how much it affects me; I don't care if I don't see it, I don't miss it, I don't like it, I don't hate it, it's just there

I also have grandparents who patted me on the back from the day I was born for the simplest of things, I hated it at that point. So with that you could've also been frustrated because your parents didn't love you and that's okay, that's a good thing. At least they didn't make you believe you were "good enough" and "everything would be fine" despite seeing how ugly you were.

If you were really working hard AT LEAST ONCE in your life ANYWHERE either your teacher or professor or fellow student or friend would have validated you and stroked your ego and told you you're an amazing guy, told you in front of your parents that you're a good kid, that you're smart, disciplined etc. but because no one ever praises you, you don't realize how better off you are without it

 

[Fierycel]

Okay I'm really good at basketball and when I was younger alot of kids used to give me validation and tell me I was good however my retarded father ruined all of that by telling me I was shit and slapping me etc so once I got older it ruined my confidence and I became worse at it so I missed the free validation i used to get or something idk

If it ruined your confidence why weren't you trying twice as hard to succeed at basketball?

You never liked basketball and you never wanted to be the best in basketball, ever, if you did you would've tried your best to be the best basketball player ever

What your father said has nothing to do with you failing, the fact that you've stopped trying is what lead to you failing, not your father's words

 

[vidyacel]

What if i aspire for pizza, and pizza is the only thing that gives me validation in this fucking sewer ??
Would THAT still Apply ?

 

[Fallout]

if you understand cosmetic validation then i was a huge advocate for it when i had money, activision got a few grand from me.

 

[LesscoBlob]

Let me guess, you're a sexhaver?

 

[Fierycel]

No he would slap me after the game or yell at me during the game and I was a kid so it did play a huge effect you never touched a sport in your life so how do you know and I did try my best but if you don't have confidence or your burning passion you once had us ruined how else am I gonna be motivated especially if I'm going to get slapped for every small mistake I do Rofl

JFL at your father

but you have to admit it was your decision to quit

I won't just believe your father had faced no repercussions for yelling at you like that during the game and slapping you

How did Michael Jackson become a good dancer? His dad used to beat him whenever he was tired and stopped

Also, your father isn't that crazy a person, if he was that crazy, he would be enraged to watch you being lazy quitting basketball and throwing it out of the window

You can't just tell me you were trying your best and he slapped you, if that is true, then I imagine what he would've done to see you go from trying your best TO NOT TRYING AT ALL, just quitting the game entirely

 

[Fierycel]

What if i aspire for pizza, and pizza is the only thing that gives me validation in this fucking sewer ??
Would THAT still Apply ?

idk what pizza you're talking about but the only pizza I know is the food and food is not validation, I don't get what you're trying to say

Let me guess, you're a sexhaver?

I'm not a sex haver, I'm just saying validation itself has no value

I don't see how you would value sexual validation over intellectual validation or anything of the sort

You don't care about other people if they hate but couldn't do shit to you

If some woman hated me having sex with her just **** her but she couldn't do shit, I wouldn't care as long as I got what I want

If you think she looks better while she smiles you might as well tickle her

I don't have to be a sexhaver to understand how meaningless and boring validation is

It's literally the same with everything, same with sports, same with academics; validation has always been boring

 

[Fierycel]

And me quitting doesn't mean shit why would I keep playing if my stupid father kept beating me and belittling me for years retard I was a really good player and my father ruined it and don't forget I'm also a curry and curry parents are known for ruining their kids dream

You're not convincing me that you despite being a good player your father still told you you suck

There are objective stats of a basketball game, if that made him believe you were bad it's very easy to point at the stats and show him how good you are

Also, you're not getting that the beatings or lack of rewards were probably what made you want to quit not the lack of validation

It was because you feared his hands you quit basketball, not because of lack of validation

Plus basketball if you look at it really it serves as a game for earning validation; as kids we do a lot of things for validation and validation only; it's later we realize how meaningless and useless they are along with validation and we quit

 

[vidyacel]

idk what pizza you're talking about but the only pizza I know is the food and food is not validation, I don't get what you're trying to say

@RuudVanNistelrooy @Khanivore @Sneir @svgmn1 @Gyros_Pretcel

 

[Fierycel]

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@RuudVanNistelrooy @Khanivore @Sneir @svgmn1 @Gyros_Pretcel

no one cares when they eat meat; if they cared so much they would die or go vegan so no, you don't want validation JFL

 

[vidyacel]

no one cares when they eat meat; if they cared so much they would die or go vegan so no, you don't want validation JFL

YOU HAVE FAILED TO ASPIRE!!!


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWl_Nq7OTUI

 

[Magicmirror]

Validations me XD

 

[Khanivore]

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@RuudVanNistelrooy @Khanivore @Sneir @svgmn1 @Gyros_Pretcel

Nice pizza, and i am watching your 1-4 cop heat now

If there is a Porsche Cayenne, Porsche Cayenne (later - PC) S, PC Turbo, PC Turbo S and PC GT3, then Carrera has the same model list? You got Carrera S

 

[vidyacel]

Nice pizza, and i am watching your 1-4 cop heat now

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If there is a Porsche Cayenne, Porsche Cayenne (later - PC) S, PC Turbo, PC Turbo S and PC GT3, then Carrera has the same model list? You got Carrera S

Carrera S is pretty underrated.
Usually the most well known Porsche are either the Cayman S, 911 Turbo, and 911 GT3.
911 GT2 is also another underrated car. ( he can be found in the bonus cars from NFS Most Wanted )

 

[Khanivore]

Carrera S is pretty underrated.
Usually the most well known Porsche are either the Cayman S, 911 Turbo, and 911 GT3.
911 GT2 is also another underrated car. ( he can be found in the bonus cars from NFS Most Wanted )

Haha noob got busted by scrawny Pontiacs gto

 

[vidyacel]

Haha noob got busted by scrawny Pontiacs gto

This mod adds weight to the cops, they don´t have the vanilla values btw lol
But yeah i blame the fucking tree..

 

[Khanivore]

This mod adds weight to the cops, they don´t have the vanilla values btw lol
But yeah i blame the fucking tree..

This was quite ridiculous - you got a fair distance from them, this isnt fair

 

[Khanivore]

And rejoin chat, you scumwagon

 

[vidyacel]

This was quite ridiculous - you got a fair distance from them, this isnt fair

They also have a wider area to bust your ass.
This mod is perfection, and fair above all else.
It takes some luck yes, skill alone won´t be enough to win.
But i have a surprise for you.

Got 3 videos in my spare archive, one which i almost reached heat level 5.
Staring from the garage, in close cam.
You´ll see what i mean, hopefully tomorrow the internet doesn´t suck, i might upload them.

 

[fortniteroleplayer]

And rejoin chat, you scumwagon

ok GrAYCEL

 

[Khanivore]

This mod is perfection, and fair above all else.

Nope, it is overkill, unrealistic - what, they are like cops from GTA, how did they bust you in 10 meters away from you, maybe even 20

Minus that, and all good

Well... try to actually drive around at starter's car with those hypercops, hah, now that is scary - it is impossible to drive them off in Cobalt SS

 

[vidyacel]

Nope, it is overkill, unrealistic - what, they are like cops from GTA, how did they bust you in 10 meters away from you, maybe even 20

Minus that, and all good

Well... try to actually drive around at starter's car with those hypercops, hah, now that is scary - it is impossible to drive them off in Cobalt SS

I FUCKING LOVE CRAZY!!!
YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT BY NOW...

Spoiler: pssst..

I´ve also modded GTA San Andreas to have insane police btw..

 

[Khanivore]

 

[Khanivore]

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GTA 3 and VC work flawlessly on Win10

 

[vidyacel]

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That´s a nice suit.

 

[Khanivore]

That´s a nice suit.

Mr. Vercetti, you can get it by rejoining my chat (or conversation - i will send you screenshots there), or by buying strip club 'Pole Position' on Ocean Beach for 30k $

 

[vidyacel]

Mr. Vercetti, you can get it by rejoining my chat (or conversation - i will send you screenshots there), or by buying strip club 'Pole Position' on Ocean Beach for 30k $

Fine... I´ll start anothER one!

 

[Khanivore]

 

[LesscoBlob]

I'm not a sex haver, I'm just saying validation itself has no value

You can't prove that.

I don't see how you would value sexual validation over intellectual validation or anything of the sort

Because I already have received intellectual validation.

You don't care about other people if they hate but couldn't do shit to you

Correct.

If some woman hated me having sex with her just **** her but she couldn't do shit, I wouldn't care as long as I got what I want

Right, because women don't have social circles or anything. It's not like she'll tell every other female she knows about how much of an "asshole" you are, which will lead to complete social ostracization, making your situation even worse or something.

If you think she looks better while she smiles you might as well tickle her

You do realise that many people don't get tickled, right?

I don't have to be a sexhaver to understand how meaningless and boring validation is

Nihilism is the biggest cope on Earth. Life has meaning. Life has validation. Just not FOR YOU (or any of us).

It's literally the same with everything, same with sports, same with academics; validation has always been boring

I've thought of delusionmaxxing by becoming a nihilist. It seems that it works on so many people. Again, Life has meaning. NOT YOUR LIFE (or our lives)

 

[LesscoBlob]

If it ruined your confidence why weren't you trying twice as hard to succeed at basketball?

I'm convinced you're actually low IQ. You can't "try your way" out of such failures.

You never liked basketball and you never wanted to be the best in basketball, ever, if you did you would've tried your best to be the best basketball player ever

Bullshit. You're just too dumb to understand what having shitty parents does to people.

What your father said has nothing to do with you failing, the fact that you've stopped trying is what lead to you failing, not your father's words

Other way around dumbass.

 

[LesscoBlob]

No I missed the validation and popularity I used to have from other kids

Don't even bother responding to him. He can't understand you. I guess it's hard out there, being a dumbfuck OP.

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

If you were really working hard AT LEAST ONCE in your life ANYWHERE either your teacher or professor or fellow student or friend would have validated you and stroked your ego and told you you're an amazing guy, told you in front of your parents that you're a good kid, that you're smart, disciplined etc. but because no one ever praises you, you don't realize how better off you are without it

Yep, those who get the least water are the most thirsty.

 

[Fierycel]

Right, because women don't have social circles or anything. It's not like she'll tell every other female she knows about how much of an "asshole" you are, which will lead to complete social ostracization, making your situation even worse or something.

I've thought about this right after I wrote the thread

You only want sexual validation because you're scared of women

I think if anything a lot of you are scared of women and what the legal system can do to you, that's what it comes down to A lot of you are scared that she might escape one day and call the cops on you, so you want validation more than anything because that way there's a sense of security...

incels.is

 

[LesscoBlob]

I've thought about this right after I wrote the thread

You only want sexual validation because you're scared of women

I think if anything a lot of you are scared of women and what the legal system can do to you, that's what it comes down to A lot of you are scared that she might escape one day and call the cops on you, so you want validation more than anything because that way there's a sense of security...

incels.is

No, I want a woman to like me. I am not scared of them and I want total validation not just sexual

 

[Fierycel]

Yep, those who get the least water are the most thirsty.

sure, but it's not like you're dying without validation

and the only reason anyone wants validation is because they're scared women will file a rape case against them

You only want sexual validation because you're scared of women

I think if anything a lot of you are scared of women and what the legal system can do to you, that's what it comes down to A lot of you are scared that she might escape one day and call the cops on you, so you want validation more than anything because that way there's a sense of security...

incels.is

 

[LesscoBlob]

Thanks for having my back brother

No problem.

 

[Roidmaxxer]

I was reading a thread; just another the thread pro escort celling and anti chasing female validation

I've realized in order to chase validation, you must've been a failure in every stage of your life or you've never been at the top, like I have been

I've always been good at something way better than other people, whether it was soccer, martial arts, even studying the days I used to actually focus in school and I was top of the class

Even in video games, I'm not saying this to brag, I think I definitely have god given gifts like intelligence or desire to work hard, mental capacity at least compared to my competition and the feeling after winning and everyone just telling you how good you were, it's not that rewarding

Being completely honest in any team game I knew I was just another teammate to them and I was only praised for my contributions to the team, and even though they clapped, in individualistic sports I knew really they were jealous and would rather have it for themselves

it's common logic and although I'm not scared, I don't want enemies, they're like obstacles they only make the road harder, I'd rather reach the goal faster than fight enemies and make it hard

So being good at something, then other people telling you how good you are (being validated) really it's them using you or getting jealous of you then hiding it

The fact that a lot of you chase this leads me to believe you've been a failure at whatever you've done and you lack any god given gift that separates you or maybe you were lazy

That's exactly why you chase validation because you've never been validated before, no one ever said "good job" to you after you thought you did something

If they had, you would realize how ridiculous this goal of yours is

Either way, validation has no purpose, it's literally a have or not have, it's like if an ant is in this room, that's how much it affects me; I don't care if I don't see it, I don't miss it, I don't like it, I don't hate it, it's just there

I also have grandparents who patted me on the back from the day I was born for the simplest of things, I hated it at that point. So with that you could've also been frustrated because your parents didn't love you and that's okay, that's a good thing. At least they didn't make you believe you were "good enough" and "everything would be fine" despite seeing how ugly you were.

If you were really working hard AT LEAST ONCE in your life ANYWHERE either your teacher or professor or fellow student or friend would have validated you and stroked your ego and told you you're an amazing guy, told you in front of your parents that you're a good kid, that you're smart, disciplined etc. but because no one ever praises you, you don't realize how better off you are without it

I mog 99.9% of people in any activity i do

I dont bother unless im going to tryhard.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

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@RuudVanNistelrooy @Khanivore @Sneir @svgmn1 @Gyros_Pretcel

Is that yours? Looks like Siciliana style. Which ham is on it?

 

[wei#3959]

Ldar

 

[NorthernWind]

I had my moments in life when others said 'good job' to me.
But sex is different. Sex is not about validation. At least for me sex seem to be about fulfilled desire.
I don't want women because they can validate me ( although they can validate my masculinity). I wanted women because they look good. They can be companion for sex.

 

[Fierycel]

Don't even bother responding to him. He can't understand you. I guess it's hard out there, being a dumbfuck OP.

Basketball is not sex, it's just a game where you chase validation and validation only so it's very different

No I missed the validation and popularity I used to have from other kids

Pure rubbish

If they didn't let you play basketball I understand in that case and like I said, people only play basketball for sex, they want to get lean and have women, no one plays basketball just for validation

If you played alone I understand they would've bullied you, but you only ever want validation because you're scared they might do something to you and they hold a lot of power in their hands

I only ever take up physical fitness because of increasing my smv or getting stronger, etc. not because of validation

You're just scared they'll ruin your "rep" and I'm not saying it's a dumb thing to be concerned about, but I guarantee you you wouldn't care if you never saw them again

I made a thread about the fact that a lot of people are scared and sometimes for good reason, but you don't want validation itself out of pure self interest, it's for security you really just don't want to risk your life or your reputation

You only want sexual validation because you're scared of women

I think if anything a lot of you are scared of women and what the legal system can do to you, that's what it comes down to A lot of you are scared that she might escape one day and call the cops on you, so you want validation more than anything because that way there's a sense of security...

incels.is

 

[Insanitycel]

sewer tier thread

 

[vidyacel]

Is that yours? Looks like Siciliana style. Which ham is on it?

It´s from Buitoni. A frozen pizza medium-tier.
Slightly cheaper than Dr.Oetker but not much.

Ham is standard, pork.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Ham is standard, pork.

I don't eat pork.

 

[Michael W. Ford]

sexual gratification over intellectual validation

 

[OGcel]

Okay I'm really good at basketball and when I was younger alot of kids used to give me validation and tell me I was good however my retarded father ruined all of that by telling me I was shit and slapping me etc so once I got older it ruined my confidence and I became worse at it so I missed the free validation i used to get or something idk

u should really considering beating ur father up (in tekken 7)

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

You cant be that good or that smart, look where you've ended up you big fuckin tard. Weirdest faggot ass flex I've ever seen on this site.