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Blackpill Yaramiso - Middle Aged Virgin Men of Japan

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Yaramiso = Yaramiso (no plurals in Japan).

I originally saw this story on NHK World (Japanese public tv for foreigners in English (Aygo)).

I can't find what I originally saw but below is a western article about it, the vid I saw they actually showed the guys drawing the ricefoids but the content is the same.

https://hyperallergic.com/218164/nude-drawing-classes-are-therapy-for-middle-aged-japanese-virgins/

The Hollywood trope of the 40-year-old virgin, lampooned in Steve Carrell’s 2005 film, isn’t a joke in Japan. About one in four Japanese men in their thirties haven’t had sex, making them so common that they enjoy their own label — yaramiso. Now, a Japanese nonprofit has come up with an unusual solution for the problem: free nude art classes.
“We organize the drawing sessions to allow participants to overcome their mental block by observing and sketching the naked female form in a safe, healthy environment,” Shingo Sakatsume, founder of White Hands (an organization that provides “sexual assistance” to the disabled), wrote on Ignition. “Naturally, almost none of the men who seek our help have ever seen a naked woman in the flesh; in fact, some say that the only woman they’ve ever seen naked was their mother.”
The classes are held every other month in Tokyo, and Sakatsume said most of its members are office workers and government employees — “men with perfectly ordinary jobs, looks and personalities.”

Can you imagine this in the west? It would never happen.

Takashi Sakai, a timid 41-year-old attendee, has never had a girlfriend. He told the AFP that he doesn’t know how to approach women, but that the classes — he also participates in a course called “Virgin Breaker” — have given him a little more confidence.
“When you are young, you are afraid of rejection. I think it’s true that many people now just pretend they have no feelings about sex instead of risking outright rejection,” he said. “The first time I [came to drawing class], in autumn last year, oh … I was so amazed. Their bodies are incredibly beautiful.”

I do. That's why I'm going there.

That is good they have a "Virgin Breaker" class I wonder if that is also free like the drawing class? It is good the society cares about these men I cannot say the same for my own.

and yes they are.

Sakatsume believes stories like Sakai’s are symptomatic of Japanese society’s inability to talk about sex, which has led to bigger problems. The country’s marriage rate has declined in recent years, and last year it had only one million newborns — an all-time low. The trend parallels the economic slow-down, and Sakatsume said it has all led to men having low self-esteem and developing resentments toward women.
Despite his noble intentions, though, the drawing sessions still seem to encapsulate everything nude art classes shouldn’t be — creepy. But Sakatsume thinks such unorthodox methods are worth it. “Virginity shouldn’t be a punch line,” he said. “We have to start treating it as a social problem and something that can only be overcome with proper education and support from society.”

The United States and the west in general are countries of duality.

Duality is the satanic system that underpins the world.

With duality you have sex crazed media, sex everywhere, sex in advertisements.

But also not being able to talk about sex and issues, not being able to say there is an incel problem, not being able to say there is a hypergamy problem, not being able to say their are winners and losers in the so called sexual marketplace and that a lot of these "losers" are good people and a lot of the "winners" are awful people.

Countries in Asia that care about their people are willing to address these issues.

“Virginity shouldn’t be a punch line,”

No it shouldn't. Tinder and Instawhores should be a punch line instead.

The west is dead. Asia is the future.

See You Later

Sayonara, I've got to go work on my Japanese. This will be my last post for awhile so I decided to make it really good.

@Total Imbecile @Insomniac
 
Eh, the fact that one in four males are virgin by their mid thirties should speak volumes to the fact that there's something degenerative in their culture
 
Eh, the fact that one in four males are virgin by their mid thirties should speak volumes to the fact that there's something degenerative in their culture
Exactly. LMAO at japan-worshipping cucks. That said, i don't think japanese culture proper is behind this, but (((western influenced))) jap culture.
 
It is good the society cares about these men I cannot say the same for my own.
We have to start treating it as a social problem and something that can only be overcome with proper education and support from society.”
Agree 100% Fuck, it really hurts to read this..... :feels::feels::feels::feels:
Japan as a society is not yet completely corrupted by Western feminist misandry. But their foids are even worse than western ones. Just realize that there is not a virgin problem amongst japanese foids, only males. Jap foids dont mind joining harems

Anyway, thanks for sharing. I really dont know how the fuck you find hope in the fact that millions of japanese males are virgins when youre trying to lose your virginity and get a gf precisely in Japan but.... who cares i guess. Good luck.
 
"Naturally, almost none of the men who seek our help have ever seen a naked woman in the flesh"

This is so brutal and relatable. Except porn Ive never seen a girl naked, cant imagine how soft they are tbh

Its over, its very likely Ill actually become on of these guys
 
Can you imagine this in the west? It would never happen.
In Europe there are nude life drawing everywhere. Most models are old and unfit. But there are stacies too and under 18 nude life drawing modelling is legal. :feelsbaton::feelstrash:
 
Do you think they ever drank vanilla lattes back then?
 
Not having plural forms is actually very smart. You don't really need plural forms if you think about it.

I ate an apple.

I ate 20 apple.

That's one thing I liked a lot about Japanese while studying it. Too bad they have to stick to moon runes instead of just adopting normal alphabet already.
 
I dont get how this helps tbh. If they really want less virgins just give them hookers or sex ed ?
 
[QUOTE="IsolationHurts, post:

Anyway, thanks for sharing. I really dont know how the fuck you find hope in the fact that millions of japanese males are virgins when youre trying to lose your virginity and get a gf precisely in Japan but.... who cares i guess. Good luck.[/QUOTE]

This is what i was thinking. If loads of Japanese men can't get near a women, then what's your chances of finding your waifu. if your only there a few weeks and speaking in broken japanese. It'll be interesting to hear how you get on. I wish you the best of luck but i don't think reality wil meet your expectations.
 
Agree 100% Fuck, it really hurts to read this..... :feels::feels::feels::feels:
Japan as a society is not yet completely corrupted by Western feminist misandry. But their foids are even worse than western ones. Just realize that there is not a virgin problem amongst japanese foids, only males. Jap foids dont mind joining harems

Anyway, thanks for sharing. I really dont know how the fuck you find hope in the fact that millions of japanese males are virgins when youre trying to lose your virginity and get a gf precisely in Japan but.... who cares i guess. Good luck.
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@IsolationHurts @Marquis de Sade

I wrote the answer in this thread.

It's very simple and one we all know already.

https://incels.is/threads/all-races-and-every-woman-are-the-same.83499/
 
Sayonara, I've got to go work on my Japanese. This will be my last post for awhile so I decided to make it really good.
I am learning Japanese through AJATT, I can't recommend it enough. Interesting article, I haven't heard about Yaramiso.
 
I am learning Japanese through AJATT, I can't recommend it enough. Interesting article, I haven't heard about Yaramiso.

@katsuna

Join this Japanese Discord learning server I run with Façade. It's pretty active with a bunch of weebs from here.

We call it the Dojo.

https://discord.gg/unrADy5

I'm starting a class the 29th and will be using Genki.

I also have a link to Pimsleur Japanese Audio CDs I've used that work well in the server.
 
dude yet youre a japan coper... youre saying that 1 in 4 men are virgins later then you... you actually think that youre going to just go in there and start fucking? jfl
 
What the fuck am I reading. Is this seriously what people think of virgins. Most ugly males have like at least a terabyte of torrented and downloaded porn from streaming sites. They seriously think we don't even know what a vagina and tits look like.
 
What the fuck am I reading. Is this seriously what people think of virgins. Most ugly males have like at least a terabyte of torrented and downloaded porn from streaming sites. They seriously think we don't even know what a vagina and tits look like.

*in the flesh

They've never seen a naked women in front of them before.

This is a form of therapy for them.
 
*in the flesh

They've never seen a naked women in front of them before.

This is a form of therapy for them.
I know they're making sketches of naked women. I don't know how in the fuck it's supposed to help though.
 
I know they're making sketches of naked women. I don't know how in the fuck it's supposed to help though.

Better than nothing imo.

I think they're trying to bring them out of their comfort zone so they can start talking to women.
There was an interesting article I read yesterday on hikikomori here: https://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/15/magazine/shutting-themselves-in.html

Obviously from a cucked, blue pilled source.

@itsogrecel

I've actually already read it.

Pretty cool article.
 
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Eh, the fact that one in four males are virgin by their mid thirties should speak volumes to the fact that there's something degenerative in their culture
You're right. People worship Japan and as a East Asian i can say for certainly the grass is greener on the other side.

Most Japanese men are stressed out and are incels. Those who were otherwise fuckable were working so much that they never have time to have a girlfriend.

Many Japanese men are going hikkomori, a NEET and MGTOW.

Jfl at bluepillers thinking Japan (and East Asia) is the pussy paradise. It is the same across the world.

Lol at waifucels.

AWALT
 
In Europe under 18 nude life drawing modelling is legal. :feelsbaton::feelstrash:

Interesting....
I planned to go to Japan before I die but now I may change my mind.
Interesting indeed...
 
Eh, the fact that one in four males are virgin by their mid thirties should speak volumes to the fact that there's something degenerative in their culture
pretty sure this all means their women dont want them, thats not good lol, only good for normal/good looking white men that love rice
 

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