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Theory Would you change as a person if you lose your virginity?

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Would you suddenly have all the confidence and have more communication skills?

Or dated this girl for short or had a short relationship. Or just had 1 sex night. Not escorts
 
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brb losing my virgnity to find out
 
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Being truly wanted and loved definitely improves your self-confidence, I think.
 
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Would you suddenly have all the confidence and have more communication skills?

Or dated this girl for short or had a short relationship. Or just had 1 sex night. Not escorts
It does not change anything if you are not loved by the girl.
 
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If some girl suddenly showed affection toward me i would think she lost her mind.
 
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If some girl suddenly showed affection toward me i would think she lost her mind.
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Would you suddenly have all the confidence and have more communication skills?

Or dated this girl for short or had a short relationship. Or just had 1 sex night. Not escorts
The only people that think the "first time" matters are the people who have never had their first time

Just like with hunger, the only time that matters is "the next time"

The yearning never goes away, you're always going to want more sex and with different women too

Stop romanticizing sex in your mind as some kind of special magical experience, that's disney fairy tale shit, sex is just a natural part of the biological process of reproduction, just like defecation is a natural part of the biological process of digestion, you don't speak about taking a shit like its special now do you? :feelskek:

Was your first shit life changing? :feelskek::feelskek:

Every normie guy I've talked to speaks about their first time like it was "just something that happened", it isn't some special magical thing, in fact a lot of them are kind of embarrased about it because you don't know what you're doing and you cum pretty fast, its usually a disappointment
 
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Being truly wanted and loved definitely improves your self-confidence, I think.
100%. It tells you that you have worth through the most important means - other people
Every normie guy I've talked to speaks about their first time like it was "just something that happened"
yeah, that's because normies have never gone through long amounts of time during/post puberty without it. The first time is a big deal for us because it is us breaking a barrier that was imposed upon us and joining the ranks of normies after a lifetime of failure
 
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yeah, that's because normies have never gone through long amounts of time during/post puberty without it. The first time is a big deal for us because it is us breaking a barrier that was imposed upon us and joining the ranks of normies after a lifetime of failure
Yeah, that's kinda my point:
The only people that think the "first time" matters are the people who have never had their first time

Just like with hunger, the only time that matters is "the next time"

The yearning never goes away, you're always going to want more sex and with different women too

The only thing that's going to matter to you after your first time, is the next time, it isn't special, and I think incels need to stop overhyping it as some "magical" thing

It just makes us looks childish, and were supposed to be the "realists" since we keep telling normies they are "blue pilled" and they don't know how life really works
 
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no,but may change if I tied a girl and put her into a jutebag
 
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it would be beautiful, also with a deformed woman, i just want love :cryfeels::cryfeels:
 
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I haven't noticed any meaningful impact on my behavior.
 
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i have no idea, never experienced any of those.
 

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