Why don't parents understand, like for real?

[trrrrrsarescary]

Whenever I talk to my parents about how I've tried to put myself out there and be more social in the past but I just get horrible reception from people and that makes me give up they just don't get it, they say I'm not trying or I haven't met the right people or i look miserable, they literally cannot comprehend at all that people just reject socialising with me because of my fucking autistic demeanour and my appearance

Like I don't understand why they can't understand, are they actually genuinely dense? Do they actually know but can't admit it? Do they actually genuinely see the world in that rose tinted way? I just don't understand, I shuffle between thinking they're genuinely dense and thinking that they actually know about my dire situation but can't admit it

 

[Xul]

Most of them have absorbed a lot of lead, they used to put that shit in gas nigga

 

[Elfcel]

I think it’s because they never had the same experiences before, so they can’t fully comprehend it

 

[trrrrrsarescary]

I think it’s because they never had the same experiences before, so they can’t fully comprehend it

So basically all humans are dense as fuck and can only understand something if they've experienced it?

 

[SupremeFroggy]

They can't admit your failure, because it's theirs by proxy.

 

[Elfcel]

So basically all humans are dense as fuck and can only understand something if they've experienced it?

I give you an example, if you see someone starving hungry and you never experienced that before than you can’t fully 100% feel his pain if you never been in his situation your entire life, but if you ever been through same situation than you can feel his pain fully, same thing with being ugly, autistic etc…, if someone is never been treated like shit due to those factors he can not fully understand the pain that someone living with it, so it’s not that they don’t want to help you, it’s just that they can’t comprehend it fully, if you know what I mean

 

[ihatelife2]

They sound very dense if you have told them you did try talking but people didn't like you. It sounds very frustrating to deal with them.

 

[Skeptik]

Whenever I talk to my parents about how I've tried to put myself out there and be more social in the past but I just get horrible reception from people and that makes me give up they just don't get it, they say I'm not trying or I haven't met the right people or i look miserable, they literally cannot comprehend at all that people just reject socialising with me because of my fucking autistic demeanour and my appearance

Like I don't understand why they can't understand, are they actually genuinely dense? Do they actually know but can't admit it? Do they actually genuinely see the world in that rose tinted way? I just don't understand, I shuffle between thinking they're genuinely dense and thinking that they actually know about my dire situation but can't admit it

Nice pfp

 

[Itsoverm8]

They can't admit your failure, because it's theirs by proxy.

 

[xek000000kk]

Because their group tells them to, and it’s also partly instinct.

 

[VanGobbel]

Most parents are bluepilled by default

 

[RXblackpill]

Most parents are bluepilled by default

 

[RXblackpill]

Because they had the advantage of traditional values in the 1960s-80s where monogamy was standard. They have no idea that these days, Chads can take multiple women.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

They can never understand, and the same goes for your peers who haven't lived the exact same difficulties you did.

 

[Sportacus]

The first mistake was trying to explain your struggles to your blue-pilled parents. Logic usually doesn’t work when you’re arguing with your parents.

From their perspective, you’re still a kid who’s making mistakes, which is also one reason there are fewer and fewer family-operated businesses.