Theory When your social life is quiet, events like Christmas and your birthday "flip"

[Hoppipolla]

Like... they go from being better than other days to being worse.

Like... there is a temptation to just hide and wait it out.

I was interested in hearing other people's thoughts on this

 

[Hoodpreet]

100% agreed. Other people spend their birthdays partying, drinking, having sex, while I just try to forget about mine and let it pass

 

[Med Anime]

I was interested in hearing other people's thoughts on this

can relate
every holiday or special event is just a pain in the ass since i will need to call my relatives and family and check on them and even go visit them sometimes. i don't like it and seeing relatives couples in these events is literal suifuel.
also people are happier and more joyful in holidays and event, that's a bad for my introverted life

 

[Hoodpreet]

every holiday or special event is just a pain in the ass since i will need to call my relatives and family and check on them and even go visit them sometimes. i don't like it and seeing relatives couples in these events is literal suifuel.

Is your family toxic/abusive?

 

[Med Anime]

toxic

yes

abusive

yes
they're a bunch of religious fruit cakes who wanted me to spend my whole life studying

 

[Hoodpreet]

yes

yes
they're a bunch of religious fruit cakes who wanted me to spend my whole life studying

Do you live alone? And if so are you financially independent from them? If the answer to both those questions is yes, I would go no contact if I were you

 

[Hoodpreet]

they're a bunch of religious fruit cakes who wanted me to spend my whole life studying

Yeah same shit here, can’t ever catch a break from my heenducel curry parents

 

[Med Anime]

Do you live alone?

yes i live alone

And if so are you financially independent from them?

no, i have a job and they never gave me money after i left college

 

[Hoodpreet]

no, i have a job and they never gave me money after i left college

So you are independent. What’s stopping you from cutting them off then? I wish I could just get my roach curry family out of my life

 

[Med Anime]

curry parents

curry parents are always known to be shitty fucked up parents, they never care about their kids and always care about college and grades alone.
my parents are sand tho

 

[Hoodpreet]

curry parents are always known to be shitty fucked up parents, they never care about their kids and always care about college and grades alone.
my parents are sand tho

Exactly, there is literally no silver lining to curry existence whatsoever. Curry parents are arguably the worst parents of any race

 

[Med Anime]

So you are independent. What’s stopping you from cutting them off then?

if i do my mother will call me in the phone and start crying why i do not come and visit her. i don't want that.

 

[Hoodpreet]

if i do my mother will call me in the phone and start crying why i do not come and visit her. i don't want that.

Empatheticcel

My family has tortured me too much to get any sort of goodwill from me

 

[Isaac Newton]

Anyone over 16 who celebrates their birthday is pathetic. I remember, in high school, a couple of foids would come to school in tiaras on their birthday. They were always ugly bitches who never knew how to shut the fuck up. Just thinking about them is actually getting me pissed off

 

[Hoodpreet]

Anyone over 16 who celebrates their birthday is pathetic. I remember, in high school, a couple of foids would come to school in tiaras on their birthday. They were always ugly bitches who never knew how to shut the fuck up. Just thinking about them is actually getting me pissed off

And my guess is those obnoxious ugly foids had more social acceptance than you

I fucking hate how bitches can do whatever they want and still have the ground they walk on licked

Fucking gynocentric ass society

 

[Isaac Newton]

And my guess is those obnoxious ugly foids had more social acceptance than you

You already know.

They were the type of girls constantly involved in retarded high school drama with people they pretended to be friends with.

Usually fighting over some Chad who used them all as cumdumps.

 

[Hoodpreet]

You already know.

They were the type of girls constantly involved in retarded high school drama with people they pretended to be friends with.

Usually fighting over some Chad who used them all as cumdumps.

JFL. Yeah that was literally all the “popular” girls at my high school

 

[Hoppipolla]

if i do my mother will call me in the phone and start crying why i do not come and visit her. i don't want that.

I get fed up at my dad but I don't think I'd ever cut him out of my life completely.

I think the key word here is "boundaries"!