Here are women's rules for what they seek in a boyfriend:
1# Don't be short ----The most important rule of all is "don't be short". Height makes up more for lack of face than face does for lack of height. I would define short as 5'7" or shorter. Almost all heterosexual guys 5'7" or shorter are either single, or they have a girlfriend that is ugly and/or fat.
2# Be handsome ---- Once a guy is 5'8" or taller, face becomes more important than height to most women. One of the prettiest women I've ever seen in my life has a husband that is 5'8". I've seen hot girls pick handsome 5'9" guys over an average face or ugly 6'2"+ guys countless times in my life.
3# Be tall ---- Having a tall boyfriend gives a woman major bragging rights among women. How do I know this? Women with 6'0"+ tall boyfriends/husbands like to brag about their boyfriends'/husbands' tall heights approximately once every five minutes. If I said "It sure is a beautiful day today" to a woman with a 6'4" tall husband, she would respond "Well, my six feet four inch tall husband like a beautiful weather day". LOL----
The old cliche of what women seek in men is "Tall, dark, and handsome". A minority of women are so height obsessed that they would prefer an ugly 6'0+ guy over a handsome 5'8" guy. These women will sometimes write in dating ads "Looks don't matter, must be 6'0"+ tall"---
4# Have a V-shaped torso with a slim waist and broad shoulders ---- This is the body shape that women like. I've seen bloggers and journalists report that having a V-shaped torso is the most important physical trait to women on a man. They're wrong. I used to have a 30 inch waist, and I had enormously broad shoulders like a gorilla. No woman would touch me with a ten feet long pole because I am 5'1" and hideously ugly. That's why this is #4 on the list instead of number #1.
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Why do I put "don't be short" ahead of "Be handsome"? The vast majority of women would rather date an ugly 5'10" guy (medium height) than a handsome 5'5" guy. As I said earlier in this post, some women's dating ads say "looks don't matter, must be 6'0"+". It is UNHEARD OF for any women's dating ads to say "Height does not matter, must be handsome". I mean, there is not one woman on the face of the Earth that would write that.
To women, the worst thing that a guy could be is be short. Any woman of any race would rather date an ugly guy, a guy who stinks, a physically abusive guy, an ethnic guy, or anything else than a short man. Yes, a 6'0" Indian/Paki guy will have more women interested in dating him than a 5'1" white guy like me.
1# Don't be short ----The most important rule of all is "don't be short". Height makes up more for lack of face than face does for lack of height. I would define short as 5'7" or shorter. Almost all heterosexual guys 5'7" or shorter are either single, or they have a girlfriend that is ugly and/or fat.
2# Be handsome ---- Once a guy is 5'8" or taller, face becomes more important than height to most women. One of the prettiest women I've ever seen in my life has a husband that is 5'8". I've seen hot girls pick handsome 5'9" guys over an average face or ugly 6'2"+ guys countless times in my life.
3# Be tall ---- Having a tall boyfriend gives a woman major bragging rights among women. How do I know this? Women with 6'0"+ tall boyfriends/husbands like to brag about their boyfriends'/husbands' tall heights approximately once every five minutes. If I said "It sure is a beautiful day today" to a woman with a 6'4" tall husband, she would respond "Well, my six feet four inch tall husband like a beautiful weather day". LOL----
The old cliche of what women seek in men is "Tall, dark, and handsome". A minority of women are so height obsessed that they would prefer an ugly 6'0+ guy over a handsome 5'8" guy. These women will sometimes write in dating ads "Looks don't matter, must be 6'0"+ tall"---
4# Have a V-shaped torso with a slim waist and broad shoulders ---- This is the body shape that women like. I've seen bloggers and journalists report that having a V-shaped torso is the most important physical trait to women on a man. They're wrong. I used to have a 30 inch waist, and I had enormously broad shoulders like a gorilla. No woman would touch me with a ten feet long pole because I am 5'1" and hideously ugly. That's why this is #4 on the list instead of number #1.
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Why do I put "don't be short" ahead of "Be handsome"? The vast majority of women would rather date an ugly 5'10" guy (medium height) than a handsome 5'5" guy. As I said earlier in this post, some women's dating ads say "looks don't matter, must be 6'0"+". It is UNHEARD OF for any women's dating ads to say "Height does not matter, must be handsome". I mean, there is not one woman on the face of the Earth that would write that.
To women, the worst thing that a guy could be is be short. Any woman of any race would rather date an ugly guy, a guy who stinks, a physically abusive guy, an ethnic guy, or anything else than a short man. Yes, a 6'0" Indian/Paki guy will have more women interested in dating him than a 5'1" white guy like me.
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