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So many men are obsessed with their one-itis, and one day I realized something — I never had one.

There are countless foids I’ve lusted in the past and present, but I never felt that any particular bitch was supposed to be the one or my soulmate. Even back in secondary school, I realized there would be countless women who I wanted to fuck. But not one I wanted to marry.

I never really loved anybody in an emotional, romantic sense.

So enlighten me — what’s it like to have one-itis?
 
It's when you are biologically hard-wired to pair with 1 foid only, for the survival of your offspring(s) or something like this

In layman's term it's loyalty i guess

I've had a couple of oneitises and it's brutal when they don't love you back. Just got rejected by one :cryfeels: :cryfeels: :cryfeels:
 
It's when you are biologically hard-wired to pair with 1 foid only, for the survival of your offspring(s) or something like this

In layman's term it's loyalty i guess

I've had a couple of oneitises and it's brutal when they don't love you back. Just got rejected by one :cryfeels: :cryfeels: :cryfeels:

rejected by one how? what happened?
 
Hell on earth.

Remember Tantalus from Greek mythology? That’s what it’s like. To have something dangled before you like a carrot on a stick to a horse, forever out of reach.
 
Its like... being obsessed with an idea in your head.. then you attach it to an attractive vessel. So perfection pretty much
 
Its like... being obsessed with an idea in your head.. then you attach it to an attractive vessel. So perfection pretty much
And you can't stop thinking of her
 
It's torture.
 
Probably cucked
 
It's not like you can just walk away from simping whenever you want to
Which is why I haven't had a one-itis in a long time. It's pointless to have one-itis.
 
You think about one woman every day, and you daydream about "what if" scenarios quite often.

And if you don't get rid of this shit quickly, you'll be scarred for life and condemned to have a foid invading your thoughts for the rest of your life as a consequence of daydreaming for too long.
 
So many men are obsessed with their one-itis, and one day I realized something — I never had one.

There are countless foids I’ve lusted in the past and present, but I never felt that any particular bitch was supposed to be the one or my soulmate. Even back in secondary school, I realized there would be countless women who I wanted to fuck. But not one I wanted to marry.

I never really loved anybody in an emotional, romantic sense.

So enlighten me — what’s it like to have one-itis?
feel yourself lucky. Having a onetis as a incel is worse
 
I used to get oneitis mostly in my teens.
it stopped after I tried lots of cold and warm approaches only to get rejected,
and I got blackpilled.
 
It's when you are biologically hard-wired to pair with 1 foid only, for the survival of your offspring(s) or something like this

In layman's term it's loyalty i guess
:yes:
 
Feel free to dm @ChindianEugenicist .

I have too much to say
 
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You think about one woman every day, and you daydream about "what if" scenarios quite often.

And if you don't get rid of this shit quickly, you'll be scarred for life and condemned to have a foid invading your thoughts for the rest of your life as a consequence of daydreaming for too long.
As soon as you feel you start to think about someone too much or it starts to clash with the completion of everyday tasks, that’s when you have to put your foot down.

I wish I knew about this sooner. Already a year too late.
 
As soon as you feel you start to think about someone too much or it starts to clash with the completion of everyday tasks, that’s when you have to put your foot down.

I wish I knew about this sooner. Already a year too late.
That's the kind of shit we learn by experience :incel:
 
I only had a oneitis because she was the only toilet that was nice to me
Literal marin kitagawa moment lmfao

You work your ass off by looksmaxxing and redpill coping to become as attractive as my genetics would allow me in the hopes of her becoming your gf especially since this was hs



Only for her to be taken by a 5’8 Chadlet

I wasn’t even in a relationship with her yet I felt so cucked and defeated when I saw her with that fucking manlet

Ig she also pretty much amplified my short girl fetish

She was 4”11 and had big boobs very big
Neotenous face but in a pretty way similar to prime Selena Gomez

Thick brown hair and amber eyes
 
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Feel free to dm @ChindianEugenicist .

I have too much to say
Just say it here and make it public knowledge. I'm not a therapist. Or a patient.
 
I don't have an "oneitis" anymore per se, that was over 10 years ago in high school but now, a particular girl I just want to be my gf. I only "know" her from instagram. She doesn't know I exist, so not really an oneitis.
She isn't a 10/10 exactly, but she is cute and (likely) slightly shorter than my 5'4".
Funny thing -- I never jerk off to her, but instead to other attractive girls who I don't have that strong desire to be my gf. I don't jerk off to her, because it makes me sad. It's 10,000x more likely I'll win millions in the lottery than her ever being my gf. Those odds are ZERO, for all intents and purposes. I don't know her real name or where she lives, and most obviously, she wouldn't want me. I can't help how I feel!
 
I've never had one because I move around too much, only one I can think of was when I was 12 and she was 11, but my 14 year old tall friend stole her from me before I could ask her out.
 

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