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Brutal What I Learned from being Catfished

The_Scapegoat

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Be warned, this wall of text has a purpose.

I know that many of you have short attention spans and don't like reading or trying to understand human nature. Just hear me out. This is for your own good, as I don't want anyone to go through what I did. Laugh and call me names all you want. I Just hope that this helps those who want to listen and may learn from this.

Before I came here, I was one of those fools who thought he had a chance with women, despite a lifetime of rejection, abuse, and hate from the so-called fairer sex. You could say I was blue-pilled, or delusional, however you want to describe it. I was a moron who wanted to try and was too proud to accept the fact that I was an incel, and the true nature of foids.

So, in my conceit I gave online dating a try. I eventually learned some unpleasant things that had I known I would have never made the attempt.


Fake Online Dating Profiles

Almost all female online profiles are fake, in that none are real women genuinely looking for real men. Well, not men that look like you or me. Most women seem to get upset and violent if a non-chad even casually glances at them, but most of you already knew that.

Of these fake profiles, some are scripts or robots wanting you to spend money to keep using the dating sites, as all these dating sites charge money to text. Others may be, surprise, “underage”, or at least pretend to be. I’ve never run across this, but others have and had their lives ruined, regardless of whether this “underage” profile was real.

The rest of these fake profiles are scammers, extortionists, i.e., catfish. Some are real women, but some are men in a cubicle office in the Philippines or elsewhere working for an illegal company set up specifically to target, exploit, rob, blackmail, and extort gullible and desperate people.
  • The employees of these extortion companies are trained to follow a preselected profile of a “girl” that almost always has the following attributes:
  • The fake profile pics are beautiful, but fake, as a simple reverse image search can reveal that they’re not this “girl” you’re talking to.
  • “She” is working as a cam girl/escort/model and hating it.
  • “She” is only doing it because of a sick relative or personal debt.
  • Not only does “she” want to only keep talking to you off that site but wants you to delete your profile on that site.
  • “She” will want you to send money to help them out, and in return “she” will promise to meet you.
  • Accuses you of “not being a man” if you don't comply, threatening you with extortion by sending the pics you sent “her” to everyone you’ve ever known, or even send you pics of “her” committing suicide and blaming you for it.

Why They Exist

This racket exists because it works, and it works by exploiting your emotional vulnerability.

The idea is that you're either too shy, too scared, or too intimidated by real women, yet pride won’t let you accept your status as an incel, and the blue bill has you not understanding the truth about how foids really are and think. You've been lonely for so long that you are desperate, and ecstatic that you have this “woman’s” attention. You don’t want to be that looser who can’t get a woman. Blinded by hubris and lust, you give in and do stupid things that no sane person with a rational mind would ever do, like send thousands of dollars overseas to someone you don't know.

At first you do it because you're gullible. Then, you keep doing it in desperation hoping that one final payment will make the pain end. And it will eventually end, either by you finally having the courage to stop it, or by your financial ruin.

None of this is helped by the strangely accepted social norm that ugly and unattractive men must pay for the possibility of having the attention of a woman, because such men are not entitled to love, or something. I hope lurkers who may be reading this understand and realize that giving entitled, spoiled, privileged, and selfish women such validation is a big reason why this society is falling apart.


How It is Done

How you are ensnared is done in any of the following ways:
  • A “woman” acts interested in wanting to text you by promising to trade pics, sends you fake nudes of a fake woman, and you send pics in return.
  • Some of them will ask you to send a small amount of money for a “fee” to someone overseas. Realizing this is an “escort”, you may try to balk and refuse. Only, they have your pics, and can look up your personal information online, because of course they can immediately look you up because it isn't creepy, and Google Is Evil. This “escort” or her pimp will then threaten to release your pics to your relatives, friends, neighbors, and local police unless you do what they want. You're supposed to be so embarrassed by now that you cave in and send money over, starting a vicious cycle that will escalate. Unless, of course, you call the “escort's” bluff, as extortion is a crime that the police take more seriously than pics from an “escort”.
  • A “cam girl” is less hostile, but more manipulative. You are ensnared by offers to see her “show” if you buy and use pre-paid cards to be used for various “free adult verification” sites. (The smarter ones among you are probably screaming “Credit cards don't work that way!”, and you're right.) However, these sites are nothing more than other adult dating sites and giving them that card means you are giving them money, because of course nothing is ever “free” on the internet. And of course, the “girl” will tell you that you need to use several cards to verify your age, just to make sure “she” is safe.
  • When you stop buying these cards the “cam girl” then offers to have you wire money overseas to someone instead, again with promises that you can see her if you do this. Eventually you will balk, either before or after you've run out of money.
  • The “girl” will then either guilt you by not being “man enough” or threaten to commit suicide or worse. You'll get the pics of her cutting herself and messages from people at hospitals who are notnurses or doctors because you aren't “man enough” to send this “cam girl” more money or something.

What I Experienced, Lost, and Learned

Sadly, I've had some experience with most of these.

I ignored the “escorts” as soon as they demanded money sent to their pimps, so nothing ever came of them other than threats. Although, from time to time I succumb to the urge to check local arrest warrant lists, just to be sure. I now get nervous whenever I pass a patrol car. There are even some nights where I struggle to get to sleep. No one should live under such a dark and emotionally damaging cloud just because you wanted to talk to someone who presented herself as a woman wanting to text, only to find out you may have been duped into doing something that may result in your life being ruined.

In terms of financial and emotional damage, the “cam girls” were the worst. There is something mentally and emotionally wrong with foids who strip naked on camera for money. They excuse it as empowering or that they should be free to use their bodies.

Meanwhile, we're the monsters for thinking that we're “entitled” to an emotional bond with someone we find attractive. We’re called perverts for wanting to see a beautiful girl, yet the “girl” is an innocent victim of society for choosing to do cam shows or sell nudes online instead of doing manual work like the rest of us unattractive people.

As for how much I've lost, there is the financial aspect. I took out loans that I am struggling to pay back. I eventually will, but it will take time.

However, there are the emotional losses that I've suffered. It is painful to accept the realization that you were never really loved, and that you're emotional vulnerability was used by some selfish inhuman monster. There is no recourse, no means of getting justice or satisfaction, and no sympathy from a society that treats loveless men as losers who must be mocked and shunned, or monsters who may snap and must be locked away.

I suppose some would say we should grow up and move on, but it is hard to “move on” when there was nothing to move on from. It’s hard to understand want when you've never been without. Those who have always had a life where there is food, shelter, and love cannot fathom a life without such things, and naturally take them for granted.

My heart was broken. I was never loved by anyone before and I was vulnerable because I thought I had finally had love. But since then I have accepted that I will never be loved by anyone. I did not choose to be an incel, but I am one, and I must live with it. I did not make myself unattractive, I did not make people hate me, or foids want to ruin me. I have no control over the choices other people make, especially how they choose to treat me.

What I learned besides that is the sick and twisted nature of mankind. And yes, women are included. Women are not special or entitled to respect just because they are women. They can lie, cheat, steal, abuse, and hurt people a lot worse than a man ever could yet continue to be treated as special victims who must be coddled and pampered.

But the ultimate lesson is this: don't go online to dating sites under the delusion that someone wants to meet you and be with you. All you’ll meet are catfish, and catfish are scum-sucking bottom dwellers in the pool of life.
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Kamikaze

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Sorry to hear you got cucked this much. Where are you from?
 
Pixycel

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As for how much I've lost, there is the financial aspect. I took out loans that I am struggling to pay back. I eventually will, but it will take time.
god damn, you fucked yourself over that hard? how much money did you spend?
 
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Babica Yaga

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Lmfao, sorry but how retarded can you be by sending money to these whores you've never ever seen irl? If they make up bullshit excuses about not being able to meet irl you should have ended the convo right there and then.
 
The_Scapegoat

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Were you baited by some noodlewhore from Malasyia?
No, the Philippines
Lmfao, sorry but how retarded can you be by sending money to these whores you've never ever seen irl? If they make up bullshit excuses about not being able to meet irl you should have ended the convo right there and then.
The blue pill made me stupid
 
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Just don't use online dating if you're not a Chad.

Just don't click your pictures if you're not good looking.

I can't understand how users here click their selfies and use dating apps with hopes of finding a girl. That's peak bluepill. I haven't clicked a single selfie in months because everytime I click one it reminds me of my flaws, my shit fat distribution and abysmal asymmetry.

Can't you guys notice your flaws? Can't you see you are not a good looking man in those selfies? How delusional do you have to be

Sorry for your loss OP you got cucked by some local ricecel. Just learn from your mistakes and never repeat them again.
 
shii410

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Someone tag @BlkPillPres he wrote a longpost about this exact shit but he has me blocked
 
Reddit_is_for_cucks

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Stacyfish seems to be more lucrative since there are so many cucks willing to throw money at hoes

Chadfishing is for the blackpill tho:dab:


Nobody is safe in the online dating
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you never know when you might run into them :feelsaww:
 
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Only dating is my last hope though, how else will I meet women?
 
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Online dating was created only for women to boost their egos.. If you want to find simps and orbiters thats the right place to search on. As for catfishing, what are u trying to explain is ALREADY BASE KNOWLEDGE FOR MAJORITY, ONLY IF U ARE NOT BLUE PILLED... Man.. And for the love of gods don't spend money on "fantasies" online..

Edit:I didn't read your post, is too long, and u just bore me.. sorry man, I took no value from this one
 
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Man, this was sad to read.
I suppose some would say we should grow up and move on, but it is hard to “move on” when there was nothing to move on from.

And when there's nothing to move on to.
 
incelredditor

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Our only hope would be realistic looking sex dolls, either physical or virtual. Right now that looks a century away.
 
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Our only hope would be realistic looking sex dolls, either physical or virtual. Right now that looks a century away.
Chemical castration would make much more sense. Some of us have tried to get the prescriptions, in most cases the bluepill docs have just prescribed worthless antidepressants without ofc forgetting to kindly advise us finding a psychologist "so as to improve social skills", still others have managed to get the desired pills/shots and try out living without the unnecessary urges that can never be satisfied. If I could find suitable meds the effectiveness of which would be highly promising and a medicus who'd show human decency and prescribe me such stuff, I'd do it in order to live the rest of my life with as little contacts with females as possible. And this would not be cuck behaviour, it would be a stoic, manly act, an MGTOW thing that actually is it. When you lose, do so with dignity. Simping as well as using surrogates for the real marriage/sex life: paying for camwhores and cumwhores, or buying foids' used underwear, nay, even letting the escorts make money out of our misery is NOT losing with dignity.:blackpill:
 

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