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I was thinking many times that best way would be to live alone in some forest, the problem is nowadays it is fantasy as governments use heat cameras to observe wild animals and they would detect and arrest me for squatting, also winters are harsh so it’s hard to survive winter in the forest, also hunting any animals or theft would end up in jail, is there any way to opt out of society totally without rope? I don’t want to live and contribute to society, I hate all humans, I hate foids the most, how can I find middle ground between rope and forcing myself to endure living in society?

You can’t even be de facto homeless nowadays, you gotta have your ID and exist as person, if not they will find you missing and search for you to force you to be part of society or medicate you forcibly if you don’t want to be part of the circus.

You can’t even join monastery like in old days because you need mental evaluation and a bit of money and you need to really have faith and papers confirming you are Catholic, why? It’s not their business that I am not Christian if I just want to hide from fucking evil humans.


What is your advice
 
home garden max.
 
Get on disability, then you are actively hurting society in addition to not participating in it.
 
Get on disability, then you are actively hurting society in addition to not participating in it.
But they may force mind altering drugs on me or force me to live with foid caretaker that would abuse or murder me
 
I have to get rich and get a big ass house with the biggest garden and rot there where I wont be bothered. My dream
 
There's no way that I know of. I wanted to do it in the past. Not now though.

Anyway, there's a forum which consist on doing an approximate thing to what you say.

Early Retirement extreme

There's "The stranger in the woods" book. Which is about the last true hermit, who was it for 28yrs. To sum you up the book it said that he survived by stealing in places which were usually occupied in summer but not in winter

That's all I know. Overall I think it's not actually possible though. Unless you have the money
 
Find some cabin in the middle of nowhere and live off the land. No unwanted human contact for the most part
 
There's no way that I know of. I wanted to do it in the past. Not now though.

Anyway, there's a forum which consist on doing an approximate thing to what you say.

Early Retirement extreme

There's "The stranger in the woods" book. Which is about the last true hermit, who was it for 28yrs. To sum you up the book it said that he survived by stealing in places which were usually occupied in summer but not in winter

That's all I know. Overall I think it's not actually possible though. Unless you have the money
Thanks I will check
 
Stockpile money in your youth and retire early
 
you cannot anymore. Maybe up to 100 years ago maybe. But not anymore.
 
you cannot anymore. Maybe up to 100 years ago maybe. But not anymore.
This is against any human rights, if I am born I have right to choose if I want to be forced to be part of society or not, I am antisocial and it’s better for me and them if I am not part of society
 
Ask for a book about "self-sufficency" If you're an incel you're not cut out for it physically or emotionally.

I got no parents
It's a hard road you tread.
 
Ask for a book about "self-sufficency" If you're an incel you're not cut out for it physically or emotionally.


It's a hard road you tread.
But also I got nothing to lose, I rationally expect to die within next 5 years, whether from poverty, rope, illness or other problems, so basically I am looking for a way to survive without living in totally soul-draining society doing bluecollar slave job while foids get manager jobs
 
so basically I am looking for a way to survive without living in totally soul-draining society doing bluecollar slave job while foids get manager jobs
It will involve owning your own cottage and land. You can't escape things like bank accounts.

Having no parents means no inheritance. You have no vagnia to hypergamise into a family with estate. Your socioeconomic mobility is nil. I am very sorry that you are caught in the deep blue seas of wage slavery.
 
It will involve owning your own cottage and land. You can't escape things like bank accounts.

Having no parents means no inheritance. You have no vagnia to hypergamise into a family with estate. Your socioeconomic mobility is nil. I am very sorry that you are caught in the deep blue seas of wage slavery.
I am not because I will not work because I got too much survival instinct, I would rather eat from trash cans or die out of hunger than go back to work where I am constantly bullied and earn less than foids
 
It will involve owning your own cottage and land. You can't escape things like bank accounts.

Having no parents means no inheritance. You have no vagnia to hypergamise into a family with estate. Your socioeconomic mobility is nil. I am very sorry that you are caught in the deep blue seas of wage slavery.
owning cottage and land isn’t what I mean, I want to stop being person at all, to burn my passport, burn my ID, to be totally no one, unknown, outside social contract
 
owning cottage and land isn’t what I mean, I want to stop being person at all, to burn my passport, burn my ID, to be totally no one, unknown, outside social contract
If you need to eat food, this is impossible. Unless you become a thief, in which case you'll be given a name and number in prison. If all you want to do is eat, then commit a crime to go to prison.

We are trapped. Wage slavery is a word for a reason.
 
It will involve owning your own cottage and land. You can't escape things like bank accounts.

Having no parents means no inheritance. You have no vagnia to hypergamise into a family with estate. Your socioeconomic mobility is nil. I am very sorry that you are caught in the deep blue seas of wage slavery.
Feminists got sororities, secret societies, farms, organized cells, we men only got bathtub and a damn toaster
 
If you need to eat food, this is impossible. Unless you become a thief, in which case you'll be given a name and number in prison. If all you want to do is eat, then commit a crime to go to prison.

We are trapped. Wage slavery is a word for a reason.
What you all are saying is true I just cannot find logic and justice in that, even tho it is truth about this world.
 
That's because there is none. It's over.
I want to choose path that takes minimum effort, rope takes maximum effort therefore it’s not over, however I wish to just lay down and wait if fate changes by itself
 
I want to choose path that takes minimum effort, rope takes maximum effort therefore it’s not over, however I wish to just lay down and wait if fate changes by itself
Are you ESL?
 
I was thinking many times that best way would be to live alone in some forest, the problem is nowadays it is fantasy as governments use heat cameras to observe wild animals and they would detect and arrest me for squatting, also winters are harsh so it’s hard to survive winter in the forest, also hunting any animals or theft would end up in jail, is there any way to opt out of society totally without rope? I don’t want to live and contribute to society, I hate all humans, I hate foids the most, how can I find middle ground between rope and forcing myself to endure living in society?

You can’t even be de facto homeless nowadays, you gotta have your ID and exist as person, if not they will find you missing and search for you to force you to be part of society or medicate you forcibly if you don’t want to be part of the circus.

You can’t even join monastery like in old days because you need mental evaluation and a bit of money and you need to really have faith and papers confirming you are Catholic, why? It’s not their business that I am not Christian if I just want to hide from fucking evil humans.


What is your advice

You are very much right that it is not practical to go hack it out in the woods somewhere. If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want. What you would perhaps prefer is to leave *mainstream* society behind for some more idyllic way of modern, communal living.

That is something worth pursuing, but you will have to slow down and take the pursuit of this goal rather seriously. Otherwise, this is more of a sh*tpost, right?

You may want to start by acknowledging that you've picked up a bit of a habit of thinking in terms of "black and white", or in other words, thinking in terms of excessive extremes. This is normal, especially when you are younger, but requires remediation nonetheless.

Consider your desire to leave society and the options that are realistically available to you. As you mentioned, in the past, joining a monastery would have been a more accessible goal. But it is not simply accessibility that you need to do this, but rather, the correct mentality and orientation toward monastic life, which is no joke and not simply meant as an escape from the evils of human society.

Rather than jumping full into monastacism, perhaps you can begin to explore the idea of monastic "renunciation" more seriously, and try to see if you can begin to understand the reasons why monks of all religious persuasions (I prefer Buddhism myself, though remain irreligious) choose to renounce mainstream society and materialistic lifestyles alltogether. If you do so, you will find that there is an exceedingly sophisticated world view that monks have in regards to the social mainstream, as well as the many supporting concepts which regard our world as being a " false" and "fallen" world, rather than a world operating in its proper function. These are old ideas man, the monks were black pill long before it was "cool"!

Aside from monasticism, there are other types of communities which are becoming increasingly popular nowadays called "breakaway societies", or "intentional communities", where people who have a shared belief system attempt to create a community of their own where they can live apart from the mainstream in accordance with their own unique value system. Eco living, for example, is popular in these spaces, but only a small representation of what is more widely desirable of an alternative life. There are even people gathering to live amongst others of the same race, believing that their own race has its own set of necessary values that are worth organizing their entire lifestyles around to preserve.

But in order to do anything like what I've mentioned so far, you will need to take the time out first to "mind max", because what we are talking about here is a rather serious commitment which will require you to be ALL IN. As you continue to learn about your options, you will become more intellectually prepared, as well as emotionally stable-- traits that you will need to develop properly in order to make this sort of drastic transition.

I myself have little interest in continuing on in mainstream society and am committed to realizing some sort of a break away future for myself, regardless of what it may take to get there. Indeed, I see little future for the black pill ideology if it does not soon begin to mature into something with more serious communal force and intention behind it. People who are different, need to live differently, and I do not see the capacity to go on pretending like we don't already have the answers on how to have better relationships. We really just need to separate our selves and put in the work to make our vision of the world come true. Easier said than done, but it is inevitable that we will have to do this at some point, so we might as well make the efforts to get started today.

Long rant, but serious topic, so good luck with this man. Happy to discuss more if interested.
 
You are very much right that it is not practical to go hack it out in the woods somewhere. If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want. What you would perhaps prefer is to leave *mainstream* society behind for some more idyllic way of modern, communal living.

That is something worth pursuing, but you will have to slow down and take the pursuit of this goal rather seriously. Otherwise, this is more of a sh*tpost, right?

You may want to start by acknowledging that you've picked up a bit of a habit of thinking in terms of "black and white", or in other words, thinking in terms of excessive extremes. This is normal, especially when you are younger, but requires remediation nonetheless.

Consider your desire to leave society and the options that are realistically available to you. As you mentioned, in the past, joining a monastery would have been a more accessible goal. But it is not simply accessibility that you need to do this, but rather, the correct mentality and orientation toward monastic life, which is no joke and not simply meant as an escape from the evils of human society.

Rather than jumping full into monastacism, perhaps you can begin to explore the idea of monastic "renunciation" more seriously, and try to see if you can begin to understand the reasons why monks of all religious persuasions (I prefer Buddhism myself, though remain irreligious) choose to renounce mainstream society and materialistic lifestyles alltogether. If you do so, you will find that there is an exceedingly sophisticated world view that monks have in regards to the social mainstream, as well as the many supporting concepts which regard our world as being a " false" and "fallen" world, rather than a world operating in its proper function. These are old ideas man, the monks were black pill long before it was "cool"!

Aside from monasticism, there are other types of communities which are becoming increasingly popular nowadays called "breakaway societies", or "intentional communities", where people who have a shared belief system attempt to create a community of their own where they can live apart from the mainstream in accordance with their own unique value system. Eco living, for example, is popular in these spaces, but only a small representation of what is more widely desirable of an alternative life. There are even people gathering to live amongst others of the same race, believing that their own race has its own set of necessary values that are worth organizing their entire lifestyles around to preserve.

But in order to do anything like what I've mentioned so far, you will need to take the time out first to "mind max", because what we are talking about here is a rather serious commitment which will require you to be ALL IN. As you continue to learn about your options, you will become more intellectually prepared, as well as emotionally stable-- traits that you will need to develop properly in order to make this sort of drastic transition.

I myself have little interest in continuing on in mainstream society and am committed to realizing some sort of a break away future for myself, regardless of what it may take to get there. Indeed, I see little future for the black pill ideology if it does not soon begin to mature into something with more serious communal force and intention behind it. People who are different, need to live differently, and I do not see the capacity to go on pretending like we don't already have the answers on how to have better relationships. We really just need to separate our selves and put in the work to make our vision of the world come true. Easier said than done, but it is inevitable that we will have to do this at some point, so we might as well make the efforts to get started today.

Long rant, but serious topic, so good luck with this man. Happy to discuss more if interested.
I agree but all of these require money, skills and other things that depend on already existing mainstream system in which I am lost, this is why escape into forest seems like fair option and more realistic than finding parallel society.

I ensure you I am not shitposting, my style of writing is by using provocative parabolic language in order to highlight underlying problems, I move overtone window trough my black and white language, provoking people like you to answer in a way that is moderate and helpful, I think we can exchange few words on this topic? On the topic of finding escape from mainstream society in case of person like me that doesn’t really have much to lose.
 
I understand, society rejects us but insists we contribute; it is evil. This is a good thread idea, we should keep it going and even if we can't come up with ways to break completely with society, we may be able to generate some ideas on making things better for ourselves.
 
I understand, society rejects us but insists we contribute; it is evil. This is a good thread idea, we should keep it going and even if we can't come up with ways to break completely with society, we may be able to generate some ideas on making things better for ourselves.
Why can’t we just build small brotherhood in seclude area, it makes me wonder, in fact we would solve many of our problems if we just teamed up.

Desired equity outcome of society is to make us die, it’s sad many here prefer rope to cope
 
You are very much right that it is not practical to go hack it out in the woods somewhere. If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want. What you would perhaps prefer is to leave *mainstream* society behind for some more idyllic way of modern, communal living.

That is something worth pursuing, but you will have to slow down and take the pursuit of this goal rather seriously. Otherwise, this is more of a sh*tpost, right?

You may want to start by acknowledging that you've picked up a bit of a habit of thinking in terms of "black and white", or in other words, thinking in terms of excessive extremes. This is normal, especially when you are younger, but requires remediation nonetheless.

Consider your desire to leave society and the options that are realistically available to you. As you mentioned, in the past, joining a monastery would have been a more accessible goal. But it is not simply accessibility that you need to do this, but rather, the correct mentality and orientation toward monastic life, which is no joke and not simply meant as an escape from the evils of human society.

Rather than jumping full into monastacism, perhaps you can begin to explore the idea of monastic "renunciation" more seriously, and try to see if you can begin to understand the reasons why monks of all religious persuasions (I prefer Buddhism myself, though remain irreligious) choose to renounce mainstream society and materialistic lifestyles alltogether. If you do so, you will find that there is an exceedingly sophisticated world view that monks have in regards to the social mainstream, as well as the many supporting concepts which regard our world as being a " false" and "fallen" world, rather than a world operating in its proper function. These are old ideas man, the monks were black pill long before it was "cool"!

Aside from monasticism, there are other types of communities which are becoming increasingly popular nowadays called "breakaway societies", or "intentional communities", where people who have a shared belief system attempt to create a community of their own where they can live apart from the mainstream in accordance with their own unique value system. Eco living, for example, is popular in these spaces, but only a small representation of what is more widely desirable of an alternative life. There are even people gathering to live amongst others of the same race, believing that their own race has its own set of necessary values that are worth organizing their entire lifestyles around to preserve.

But in order to do anything like what I've mentioned so far, you will need to take the time out first to "mind max", because what we are talking about here is a rather serious commitment which will require you to be ALL IN. As you continue to learn about your options, you will become more intellectually prepared, as well as emotionally stable-- traits that you will need to develop properly in order to make this sort of drastic transition.

I myself have little interest in continuing on in mainstream society and am committed to realizing some sort of a break away future for myself, regardless of what it may take to get there. Indeed, I see little future for the black pill ideology if it does not soon begin to mature into something with more serious communal force and intention behind it. People who are different, need to live differently, and I do not see the capacity to go on pretending like we don't already have the answers on how to have better relationships. We really just need to separate our selves and put in the work to make our vision of the world come true. Easier said than done, but it is inevitable that we will have to do this at some point, so we might as well make the efforts to get started today.

Long rant, but serious topic, so good luck with this man. Happy to discuss more if interested.
Can we team up then? Why women could? Why blacks could? Why gays could? But never us, never non-chad ugly men, always we are cursed, we are abused both by men and women and everyone wants us dead, maybe we should for once go somewhere to the countryside and have damn wheat fields, no ID, no bank accounts
 
“If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want.“ I want muscle, natural 1000ng/dl testosterone, 130IQ, 20cm penis, 190cm height, blond hair and blue eyes and Big Mac and fries as well
 
“If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want.“ I want muscle, natural 1000ng/dl testosterone, 130IQ, 20cm penis, 190cm height, blond hair and blue eyes and Big Mac and fries as well
To say shortly, there is no scenario that would satisfy be but there may be scenario that won’t make me eternally suffer
 
I agree but all of these require money, skills and other things that depend on already existing mainstream system in which I am lost, this is why escape into forest seems like fair option and more realistic than finding parallel society.
I ensure you I am not shitposting, my style of writing is by using provocative parabolic language in order to highlight underlying problems, I move overtone window trough my black and white language, provoking people like you to answer in a way that is moderate and helpful, I think we can exchange few words on this topic? On the topic of finding escape from mainstream society in case of person like me that doesn’t really have much to lose.

Haha of course I understand your hyperbole. Yet still I urge you to approach this very complex topic slowly and with care for the nuance. It takes time.

On the issue of requiring skill and money, that is precisely the point of taking a communal approach. These problems, addressed honestly, require a collection of skills that no individual could possibly harness all on their own. The whole purpose of a break away *society*, would be to connect with like minded individuals who could help organize an entire sandbox society of their own. That means a need for medical expertise, spiritual expertise, entrepreneurial expertise, legal expertise, wildlife expertise, etc. Literally everything needed to survive.

Look, we are adapted to modern convenience and interdependence, and as much as we may see separation as preferable *socially*, the survival burden needs to be examined honestly, as it would wear heavily on anyone wishing to live apart from the mainstream. In an ideal break away society, we don't want to be severed from human contact, we just want to be connected to people who understand us and why we are all choosing to live differently.

Can we team up then? Why women could? Why blacks could? Why gays could? But never us, never non-chad ugly men, always we are cursed, we are abused both by men and women and everyone wants us dead, maybe we should for once go somewhere to the countryside and have damn wheat fields, no ID, no bank accounts

This is the hard problem of the incel predicament. We have loads of wonderful countercultural ideas, and lots of fervor for the cause, but are ultimately still rather amateurish in our approach. This community is diabolicaly marred by the hard times we have each experienced, which engenders a kind of pathologically low self worth, as well as the popularizing of rather counter productive coping mechanisms. Our appetite for self deprecation, for example, resembles in actuality, something more like abject self degradation. Its too much.

There have been a number of noteworthy, but unfortunately casually minded, influencers who have emerged from this space. However, very few competent leaders have come from the black pill. To make this next step, we will need superior leadership.

“If you are honest with yourself however, you will also be able to acknowledge that that isn't really what you want.“ I want muscle, natural 1000ng/dl testosterone, 130IQ, 20cm penis, 190cm height, blond hair and blue eyes and Big Mac and fries as well

Again I know you are being hyperbolic, but take a minute to remind yourself that you don't actually want any of those things. The holy grail for any human being to achieve from a relationship is simply to be accepted fully for you really are, much akin to the way that a child receives *relatively* unconditional love from their parent.

It does not matter *one bit* that this may seem more difficult to achieve as a sub 5, for it is still absolutely, and *necessarily* the goal to pursue.

We sometimes have to get out of the mind set of being "realistic", in favor of being aspirational.

To say shortly, there is no scenario that would satisfy be but there may be scenario that won’t make me eternally suffer

I myself am continuing to mind maxx this whole break away society concept, as well as my own personal fitness to attempt to realize it.

I would suggest that you acknowledge that there is no immediate solution to this very complex problem. Rather, it is a dream that requires the commitment of such a radical dreamer. Developing your knowledge base as well as your emotional wherewithal are both very real aspects to this "mind maxxing". That, after all is why monastic types, for example, take their journeys through life so slowly and with such consideration. Allow yourself to dream a little and open up your imagination and let the ideas cultivate into something to aspire too.

When the time becomes ripe, I am sure that a community will continue to foster around this very real desire to abandon the corrupt society we were all born into for something more promising.

Lets continue to be in touch and share ideas.
 
much akin to the way that a child receives *relatively* unconditional love from their parent.
I didn’t.
On the issue of requiring skill and money, that is precisely the point of taking a communal approach. These problems, addressed honestly, require a collection of skills that no individual could possibly harness all on their own.
I am willing to meet people that want similar life but there are no such people, everyone likes to be enslaved by foids that believe killing men is good and necessary as per sociological theory of conflict, I have never yet met one single man that would disagree and take communal approach with other men.

Please listen my friend: I have one friend in real life that works hard and tries to study but he is abused and discriminated against and fired from many jobs and changed studies subject many times, I opened his eyes few years ago and now he sees societal problems, I told him why not rent or squat some house in the middle of nowhere and live there safely with other men away from society - he said “I don’t want to talk about this topic”


You said leader is needed and I disagree, leader in vacuum is just fallen angel.
Yet still I urge you to approach this very complex topic slowly and with care for the nuance. It takes time.
I got no time, I predict my death’s probability in next 5 years as 90%
 
I didn’t.

Neither did I, so the reference is to an ideal, with varying degrees along a spectrum.

Remember, the trick is to be aspirational. After all, if you enter Into a relationship with your present mindset, you would risk simply perpetuating the cycle of deficient love and perhaps even abuse with your partner. You have to be willing to transcend the level your parents started you out on, and to be willing to imagine what that might actually look like while chasing after it. This is something you achieve the ability to *offer* someone, before getting involved with another person whom you might hope will return it.

Your parents may very well have still provided basic housing, nourishment and supplies. And while this is no adequate substitution for more rounded and authentic loving behavior, in the case of genuinely deficient parents, such as those with personality disorders, it may simply be the best that they could manage, given their own limitations. That's not an excuse, just a window for your wider consideration.

At the same time you have babies who are tossed into a dumpster and receive none of that. The world is a very harsh place.

I am willing to meet people that want similar life but there are no such people, everyone likes to be enslaved by foids that believe killing men is good and necessary as per sociological theory of conflict, I have never yet met one single man that would disagree and take communal approach with other men.

You are again spiralling into the black and white pattern of thinking. The mere fact that I exist and showed up to comment on your post is proof of the opposite. On the other hand, we've talked about the monks. Well, a monastery is a place for celibate men to gather and practice *peaceful*, communal living. The nuns, after all, are made to go to the convent!

So while we may be quiet about our preferences, that does not mean that we do not exist. Sometimes you just have to smoke the quiet ones out, and as we should all be aware of on here, men are notoriously quiet about their personal challenges and desires when operating publicly. But again, that does not mean that they aren't all out there silently lurking.

You said leader is needed and I disagree, leader in vacuum is just fallen angel.

Again, it may look a vacuum to you right now, but if the leader emerges, will the following not also emerge in due time? You have to smoke them out, and you have to believe.

I got no time, I predict my death’s probability in next 5 years as 90%

Well with that you are speaking out of both sides of your mouth. On the one hand, you appear rather excited by the possibility of generating a serious community of break away minded people. On the other hand, you are declaring that you will be dead in 5 years. Well you can't do both my friend! You have to choose. Either you are actually committed to breaking away (and again, it will take time to mull this over properly), or you are here merely sh*t posting after all!

You have to choose.

For what its worth, any serious break away endeavor would simply start as an online community of interested people. There is no need to rush into the mountains.
 
Neither did I, so the reference is to an ideal, with varying degrees along a spectrum.

Remember, the trick is to be aspirational. After all, if you enter Into a relationship with your present mindset, you would risk simply perpetuating the cycle of deficient love and perhaps even abuse with your partner. You have to be willing to transcend the level your parents started you out on, and to be willing to imagine what that might actually look like while chasing after it. This is something you achieve the ability to *offer* someone, before getting involved with another person whom you might hope will return it.

Your parents may very well have still provided basic housing, nourishment and supplies. And while this is no adequate substitution for more rounded and authentic loving behavior, in the case of genuinely deficient parents, such as those with personality disorders, it may simply be the best that they could manage, given their own limitations. That's not an excuse, just a window for your wider consideration.

At the same time you have babies who are tossed into a dumpster and receive none of that. The world is a very harsh place.



You are again spiralling into the black and white pattern of thinking. The mere fact that I exist and showed up to comment on your post is proof of the opposite. On the other hand, we've talked about the monks. Well, a monastery is a place for celibate men to gather and practice *peaceful*, communal living. The nuns, after all, are made to go to the convent!

So while we may be quiet about our preferences, that does not mean that we do not exist. Sometimes you just have to smoke the quiet ones out, and as we should all be aware of on here, men are notoriously quiet about their personal challenges and desires when operating publicly. But again, that does not mean that they aren't all out there silently lurking.



Again, it may look a vacuum to you right now, but if the leader emerges, will the following not also emerge in due time? You have to smoke them out, and you have to believe.



Well with that you are speaking out of both sides of your mouth. On the one hand, you appear rather excited by the possibility of generating a serious community of break away minded people. On the other hand, you are declaring that you will be dead in 5 years. Well you can't do both my friend! You have to choose. Either you are actually committed to breaking away (and again, it will take time to mull this over properly), or you are here merely sh*t posting after all!

You have to choose.

For what its worth, any serious break away endeavor would simply start as an online community of interested people. There is no need to rush into the mountains.
I think I must have expressed my mind very poorly and unclearly then and for that forgive me
 
Neither did I, so the reference is to an ideal, with varying degrees along a spectrum.

Remember, the trick is to be aspirational. After all, if you enter Into a relationship with your present mindset, you would risk simply perpetuating the cycle of deficient love and perhaps even abuse with your partner. You have to be willing to transcend the level your parents started you out on, and to be willing to imagine what that might actually look like while chasing after it. This is something you achieve the ability to *offer* someone, before getting involved with another person whom you might hope will return it.

Your parents may very well have still provided basic housing, nourishment and supplies. And while this is no adequate substitution for more rounded and authentic loving behavior, in the case of genuinely deficient parents, such as those with personality disorders, it may simply be the best that they could manage, given their own limitations. That's not an excuse, just a window for your wider consideration.

At the same time you have babies who are tossed into a dumpster and receive none of that. The world is a very harsh place.



You are again spiralling into the black and white pattern of thinking. The mere fact that I exist and showed up to comment on your post is proof of the opposite. On the other hand, we've talked about the monks. Well, a monastery is a place for celibate men to gather and practice *peaceful*, communal living. The nuns, after all, are made to go to the convent!

So while we may be quiet about our preferences, that does not mean that we do not exist. Sometimes you just have to smoke the quiet ones out, and as we should all be aware of on here, men are notoriously quiet about their personal challenges and desires when operating publicly. But again, that does not mean that they aren't all out there silently lurking.



Again, it may look a vacuum to you right now, but if the leader emerges, will the following not also emerge in due time? You have to smoke them out, and you have to believe.



Well with that you are speaking out of both sides of your mouth. On the one hand, you appear rather excited by the possibility of generating a serious community of break away minded people. On the other hand, you are declaring that you will be dead in 5 years. Well you can't do both my friend! You have to choose. Either you are actually committed to breaking away (and again, it will take time to mull this over properly), or you are here merely sh*t posting after all!

You have to choose.

For what it’s worth, any serious break away endeavor would simply start as an online community of interested people. There is no need to rush into the mountains.
So when can we start planning parallel society?
 
So when can we start planning parallel society?
More research. Both the individual and the concept itself still need to be mind maxxed.

For you, I'd personally recommend Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art", and perhaps "Turning Pro".

This is a dream worth pursuing and taking seriously. His books will help to demonstrate what that actually entails.

If the books strike a chord, let me know your thoughts. ✌️
 
More research. Both the individual and the concept itself still need to be mind maxxed.

For you, I'd personally recommend Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art", and perhaps "Turning Pro".

This is a dream worth pursuing and taking seriously. His books will help to demonstrate what that actually entails.

If the books strike a chord, let me know your thoughts. ✌️
I will be homeless and money-less in a month, I guess if I ever reincarnate as rich Chad I will certainly read it so I appreciate this recommendation
 
More research. Both the individual and the concept itself still need to be mind maxxed.

For you, I'd personally recommend Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art", and perhaps "Turning Pro".

This is a dream worth pursuing and taking seriously. His books will help to demonstrate what that actually entails.

If the books strike a chord, let me know your thoughts. ✌️
Alright, it’s not that I don’t understand you, if your style of planning is absolute realism and risk-minimizing then your approach is valid method of vetting potential brotherhood in this plan, BUT it’s not that we got a lot to lose here either, we may just act and take all risks necessary just to kinda figure it out, and that’s how nations were made
 
More research. Both the individual and the concept itself still need to be mind maxxed.

For you, I'd personally recommend Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art", and perhaps "Turning Pro".

This is a dream worth pursuing and taking seriously. His books will help to demonstrate what that actually entails.

If the books strike a chord, let me know your thoughts. ✌️
And excuse my cynicism please, I am 22 year old, so I am a kidcel category mentally
 
More research. Both the individual and the concept itself still need to be mind maxxed.

For you, I'd personally recommend Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art", and perhaps "Turning Pro".

This is a dream worth pursuing and taking seriously. His books will help to demonstrate what that actually entails.

If the books strike a chord, let me know your thoughts
But fine, I will read it, give me a month, 🤝?
 

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