Discussion What do you struggle with? How do you cope?

[The Enforcer]

I struggle with everything since I was born.I wish inceldom was my only problem but it's not like this.You know,after you pass a certain age you accept yourself as a failure and you just cope a little bit until the rope comes to collect.

Maybe if I had a father,if I hadn't had been bullied and beaten up by others,if I hadn't been living in poor 3rd world country in a village,if I hadn't had to take care of my family because I'm the only one they can rely on things would have been different.But I'm not here to just cry for myself,things will be better in a few years (not romantically speaking though),if my diseases or the next car on the street don't kill me.

Other people live far more miserable lives than us but never complain about anything.

Tbh, it seems that most incels struggle with a lot more than inceldom itself. Often a lot of issues come almost hand-in-hand with being an incel, either as a contributing cause, or as a symptom. Or just a parallel issue that has similar causes. It's no good. It's good however that things can get better for you though. Hopefully those few years pass fast so you can get where you need to be, within reason of course.

Certainly there are some people in the world in worse positions than many of us. But don't let that invalidate your own issues. Nothing worse than normies trying to gaslight you into believing that your problems don't matter or dont exist just because some people have it worse. Especially when those same people live far less miserable lives than us, enviable lives full of positivity, yet they complain about everything non-stop. Those people are trash.

 

[The Enforcer]

I try not to think about it. I thought it would be funnier if I turned that in to 'try to forget about it'. So yeah it's a pun. I've had a lot of time to work with.

That's based tbh. But still shit. Any idea what causes it?

 

[zephyr]

That's based tbh. But still shit. Any idea what causes it?

I had a blood test. Found nothing. I had an MRI scan. Found nothing.

Possibly low VitaminB12.

I'm not interested in Vitamin B12 tablets, I haven't needed them.

 

[Postmaxxercel50k]

Any idea what caused it?

Genetic risk factors and environmental risk factors such as the fact my mom drank and took a lot of Tylenol while pregnant with me could be the cause.

 

[The Enforcer]

I had a blood test. Found nothing. I had an MRI scan. Found nothing.

Possibly low VitaminB12.

I'm not interested in Vitamin B12 tablets, I haven't needed them.

Ahh so something fixable? I may suggest getting a CO2 monitor too. Try getting good ventilation in the spaces that you often inhabit. It's not something I personally care for but I do know from having read about it that high CO2 environments can impair cognitive ability and memory. A hell of a lot of people's rooms are well above an acceptable CO2 range for optimal cognitive function. This may be a big contributor that most people are simply unaware of.

 

[The Enforcer]

Genetic risk factors and environmental risk factors such as the fact my mom drank and took a lot of Tylenol while pregnant with me could be the cause.

Ahh the gestationpill. Another overlooked issue. I'm pretty sure i'm in a similar boat. My mother wasn't exactly shy to tell me that she smoked and drank while pregnant with me. Even told me that's probably why I look so retarded. I envy my miscarried siblings

 

[zephyr]

Ahh so something fixable? I may suggest getting a CO2 monitor too. Try getting good ventilation in the spaces that you often inhabit. It's not something I personally care for but I do know from having read about it that high CO2 environments can impair cognitive ability and memory. A hell of a lot of people's rooms are well above an acceptable CO2 range for optimal cognitive function. This may be a big contributor that most people are simply unaware of.

Cool.

Christmass is coming up. Something for the whole house to enjoy.

 

[The Enforcer]

Cool.

Christmass is coming up. Something for the whole house to enjoy.

Based if you can get one that early. I have no idea how much they cost tbh. I dont think they regulate the air either, but maybe some will? Just something that can help you keep an eye on the levels in your surroundings. Some people i've known keep CO monitors in their houses due to some scares years ago about it on the news. But CO2 never seems to be bought up. Despite plenty of evidence out there to demonstrate its ability to impair people.

Ever wonder why people often seem to be more productive in a "working environment"? In some places atleast. It might not be because they're bored, or have nothing else to do, or the environment fits it. Even though they likely do play some part. But it seems some of those places have pretty well regulated air flow. Ironically, covid has probably made those spaces even better with air regulation investments jfl.

I'm sure i've read somewhere before that they saw higher productivity in buildings with cleaner air. So fuck it, I cant imagine they'd be expensive. Worst case, you all just know when to try open some windows to make your air cleaner. Best case, it helps you retain more short term memory and improves productivity.

 

[zephyr]

Based if you can get one that early. I have no idea how much they cost tbh. I dont think they regulate the air either, but maybe some will? Just something that can help you keep an eye on the levels in your surroundings. Some people i've known keep CO monitors in their houses due to some scares years ago about it on the news. But CO2 never seems to be bought up. Despite plenty of evidence out there to demonstrate its ability to impair people.

Ever wonder why people often seem to be more productive in a "working environment"? In some places atleast. It might not be because they're bored, or have nothing else to do, or the environment fits it. Even though they likely do play some part. But it seems some of those places have pretty well regulated air flow. Ironically, covid has probably made those spaces even better with air regulation investments jfl.

I'm sure i've read somewhere before that they saw higher productivity in buildings with cleaner air. So fuck it, I cant imagine they'd be expensive. Worst case, you all just know when to try open some windows to make your air cleaner. Best case, it helps you retain more short term memory and improves productivity.

I have no plants in my room. They seem like too much of a foreboding sign for my future. At least when I had pets they were full of life.

 

[N-Digger]

It's the loneliness and boredom that are the most brutal. I'm a NEET so I don't get to talk to anyone that often and trying to find things to distract myself during the day doesn't always work. I smoke weed to cope as that makes things more enjoyable and takes my mind off of darker subjects.

 

[The Enforcer]

It's the loneliness and boredom that are the most brutal. I'm a NEET so I don't get to talk to anyone that often and trying to find things to distract myself during the day doesn't always work. I smoke weed to cope as that makes things more enjoyable and takes my mind off of darker subjects.

Drug copes do often do the job. Distancing one's self from reality. Have you any experience with not being NEET though? I'd always say that's not good to default too. Only good when you're out of options and if you have clear evidence that you are not accepted as a living, breathing, feeling, person.

 

[Ihatemylife123]

Its going alright, I lost over 10 pounds which is a good sign

tbh, normies seem to enjoy bringing people down. They're cruel

 

[Klouzi]

Mainly finances right now, weed is cope but simultaneously a burden.

 

[Scerus]

It's the loneliness and boredom that are the most brutal. I'm a NEET so I don't get to talk to anyone that often and trying to find things to distract myself during the day doesn't always work. I smoke weed to cope as that makes things more enjoyable and takes my mind off of darker subjects.

I identify with this a lot, I am, for all intents and purposes, a NEET now. I still go to work but very rarely as it is a voluntary thing (don't @me I'm trying to build friendships, and failing) but I sometimes found myself going a bit insane confined inside by myself.

I don't smoke weed, but I do eat too much and my weight swings between pudgy / clinically obese to thin. It sucks. The modern world sucks.

 

[Scerus]

In fact, there is a work meetup tomorrow and everyone is expected to go and help put together a BBQ in another city. They will be going around town socialising with each other, hitting bars and the like.

I lied about not being able to go, one because my mother controls my finances and probably won't withdraw money for me and two, I doubt I will be missed. Either way, I feel like shit. I have lied to my boss, who incidentally is a great guy, twice now - the first was a pretty unforgivable lie.

 

[The Enforcer]

Its going alright, I lost over 10 pounds which is a good sign

Keep it up ngltbh

 

[The Enforcer]

Mainly finances right now, weed is cope but simultaneously a burden.

Moneys a bitch tbh. Rejects should get tax rebates tbh

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Occasionally my wizard powers falter momentarily, and seeing people who have the whole life (loving partner, children, home and belonging) will suddenly really hit home.

I'm pretty good now at avoiding known triggers, like town on Friday night, or popular beaches in summer.

And I'm just reasonably well at peace now with the reality that I'm not going to have all of that.

But every once in a while the feels leap up out of nowhere and get you...

 

[The Enforcer]

Occasionally my wizard powers falter momentarily, and seeing people who have the whole life (loving partner, children, home and belonging) will suddenly really hit home.

I'm pretty good now at avoiding known triggers, like town on Friday night, or popular beaches in summer.

And I'm just reasonably well at peace now with the reality that I'm not going to have all of that.

But every once in a while the feels leap up out of nowhere and get you...

IT always does hit home yeah. Realising that i've missed out on a real life. Better to avoid those triggers tbh because they're suifuel

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Im gonna repeat everything I always repeat on every thread:

I STRUGGLE WITH NOT HAVING HAD TEEN SEX OR ANY SEX FOR THAT MATTER

I CONSTANTLY JUST WANT TO FUCK, DO DRUGS, AND STRANGLE PEOPLE

I DONT CARE ABOUT LIFE OR HAVE GOALS OR HAVE RELATIONS I JUST WANT TO SIT ALONE IN MY ROOM AND FEEL PLEASURE CONSTANTLY

I HATE BEING A CHINK AND SHORT I CONSTANTLY WISH I WERE A WHITE RACIST ABUSIVE SEX ADDICT

Cope??? HAHAHAHAHA I float to misery like a moth to a flame

 

[The Enforcer]

Im gonna repeat everything I always repeat on every threat:

I STRUGGLE WITH NOT HAVING HAD TEEN SEX OR ANY SEX FOR THAT MATTER

I CONSTANTLY JUST WANT TO FUCK, DO DRUGS, AND STRANGLE PEOPLE

I DONT CARE ABOUT LIFE OR HAVE GOALS OR HAVE RELATIONS I JUST WANT TO SIT ALONE IN MY ROOM AND FEEL PLEASURE CONSTANTLY

I HATE BEING A CHINK AND SHORT

Missing out sucks tbh. I've lost more than the first 3 decades of my life to shit tbh. I cant make up for them regardless. I'll never experience true youth, freedom and carefree happiness. I'm welcoming my early death at this age. And it cant come sooner tbh

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Missing out sucks tbh. I've lost more than the first 3 decades of my life to shit tbh. I cant make up for them regardless. I'll never experience true youth, freedom and carefree happiness. I'm welcoming my early death at this age. And it cant come sooner tbh

This is why therapy is gay and has no point, imagine me saying what I told you to a therapist, and them not feeling incredibly threatened or that I am fundamentally a bad and unfixable person

 

[The Enforcer]

This is why therapy is gay and has no point, imagine me saying what I told you to a therapist, and them not feeling incredibly threatened or that I am fundamentally a bad and unfixable person

Therapy has little to no positive effect when it comes to inceldom. The main issues being that inceldom is a continuing issue, not a past one that's ended that just needs to be gotten over. Not only that but therapists don't understand inceldom. Data shows that therapy has dogshit tier effectiveness when it comes to inceldom when compared to the general population

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Therapy has little to no positive effect when it comes to inceldom. The main issues being that inceldom is a continuing issue, not a past one that's ended that just needs to be gotten over. Not only that but therapists don't understand inceldom. Data shows that therapy has dogshit tier effectiveness when it comes to inceldom when compared to the general population

therapy was made for faggots and white women NOT GROWN ASS MEN that a SUPPOSED to SUFFER

 

[CountBleck]

I struggle with reaching my weight goal, my goal is to weigh 120 pounds

how tall are you? that weight only makes sense if you're around 5'3

 

[Scerus]

Occasionally my wizard powers falter momentarily, and seeing people who have the whole life (loving partner, children, home and belonging) will suddenly really hit home.

It really does hurt, I know people who are 18 or 19 and have families already. The fact I've never had sex, never felt affection from another female, also underlines this for me personally.

Living in a state of perpetual existential crisis sucks, so I totally understand.

 

[The Enforcer]

therapy was made for faggots and white women NOT GROWN ASS MEN that a SUPPOSED to SUFFER

There's only a few kinds of therapy that would fix my life. Facial reconstructive "therapy". Euthanasia therapy, or relationship therapy jfl

 

[timmy]

i struggle with ur mom, bitch is needy af for the dick

 

[The Enforcer]

i struggle with ur mom, bitch is needy af for the dick

brutal

 

[Klouzi]

Rejects should get tax rebates tbh

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

I have ASD and struggle with negative thoughts.

My webcam project is partially complete.

 

[The Enforcer]

I have ASD and struggle with negative thoughts.

My webcam project is partially complete.

people treat autistics like shit tbh, seems brutal.

Webcam project? Sounds based

 

[BasedStalin]

I don't even struggle with the fact i look like shit anymore, i accepted i'm an ugly ass old fart and no foid wants me, idc anymore.
What keeps trigger me hard everyday is that i have to prove my hard earned skills and knowledge just because i'm ugly, like it has something to do with my exteriority (it doesn't in my field, i'm an anthropologist. I could understand if i were like a public speaker with stummering issues).
It's fucking hard. It's hard to not commit murder when you are asked about a topic you studied for 10 years and get called "homo cicatrix" (anthropologist slur, don't mind it. It is bad tho, trust me) by a low-iq laughing foid while answering, knowing that she's benifitting of your same position because she's a 7 and good at suckin dicks.

I cope with wageslaving and saving money for homeless around the block or abandoned children growing alone in the same center i grew up back in the years, people that might be hobos and rejects but damn... they have eachothers and i respect them, they are the only grateful people i know and never got treated bad by them. It's not much and probably some of them, if not every of them, keep me tight because i'm convenient to them but hey... better than betabuxxing for an ungrateful slut.

 

[The Enforcer]

I don't even struggle with the fact i look like shit anymore, i accepted i'm an ugly ass old fart and no foid wants me, idc anymore.
What keeps trigger me hard everyday is that i have to prove my hard earned skills and knowledge just because i'm ugly, like it has something to do with my exteriority (it doesn't in my field, i'm an anthropologist. I could understand if i were like a public speaker with stummering issues).
It's fucking hard. It's hard to not commit murder when you are asked about a topic you studied for 10 years and get called "homo cicatrix" (anthropologist slur, don't mind it. It is bad tho, trust me) by a low-iq laughing foid while answering, knowing that she's benifitting of your same position because she's a 7 and good at suckin dicks.

I cope with wageslaving and saving money for homeless around the block or abandoned children growing alone in the same center i grew up back in the years, people that might be hobos and rejects but damn... they have eachothers and i respect them, they are the only grateful people i know and never got treated bad by them. It's not much and probably some of them, if not every of them, keep me tight because i'm convenient to them but hey... better than betabuxxing for an ungrateful slut.

It is indeed true tbh. Ugly people have to constantly prove themselves. And it will always be up uphill battle for the most part because people tend not to respect nor care about ugly rejects. One has to work hard as fuck to be worth even half a shit and you have to keep that up forever really. Its a shame.

Those are some nice copes though. Incelophobes wont touch that jfl. Dismantles everything they believe. It is ironic that the people who honestly treat ugly people/rejects the best are those who are disaffected. And not just some bullshit "i had a bad day" type of shit. Convicts, really old people, the homeless. All have better moral compasses and empathy than the general population when it comes to how they treat reject males. Sad state of the world

 

[gamer]

I just play video games

 

[The Enforcer]

I just play video games

Vidya good cope

 

[erenyeager]

Do you know why? That seems very late for a circumcision. Circumcision sounds brutal though tbh. Seems like it would really put a downer on things. Especially when fapping is a good cope, for someone who's alone it should be the best it can be because it's all they have. I always used to wonder when i was a kid though, how circumcised guys could even function. I wondered how it didn't hurt but years later found out about the desensitization. Hopefully though you can achieve what you're setting out to do. That would be based.

A 3 sounds brutal honestly. Literally neutered as you say. The restoration stuff, what does it entail? Im assuming its a fairly retarded procedure?

I'm cut and I seem to be still functional as I'm always horny and the orgasms are great. I woke up with morning wood and made a mess under the covers

 

[honorarycurry]

I’m mentally challenged and always make a fool of myself when attempting to speak in a group or make higher effort small talk. Its not about not being NT because it also happens online. If I try to point out something I believe I found out myself I always get shamed for it having been obvious or me completely getting everything wrong. For example I called it “hybrid picking” the way I strum two strings at least one string apart at the same time on guitar in a guitar server only for people to reply me that the term refers only to picking the strings with both a pick and a finger at the same time. That method of picking two strings apart with the hand, fingerstyle, didn’t even have a name as it was something obvious. After people pointed that out, instead of getting it immediately I wrongly assume that they meant something different so I go on and explain to them one more time what I meant until I finally realised that they had already said the same thing

 

[The Enforcer]

I'm cut and I seem to be still functional as I'm always horny and the orgasms are great. I woke up with morning wood and made a mess under the covers

Mogs most then. I always hear bad stories about being cut

 

[The Enforcer]

I’m mentally challenged and always make a fool of myself when attempting to speak in a group or make higher effort small talk. Its not about not being NT because it also happens online. If I try to point out something I believe I found out myself I always get shamed for it having been obvious or me completely getting everything wrong. For example I called it “hybrid picking” the way I strum two strings at least one string apart at the same time on guitar in a guitar server only for people to reply me that the term refers only to picking the strings with both a pick and a finger at the same time. That method of picking two strings apart with the hand, fingerstyle, didn’t even have a name as it was something obvious. After people pointed that out, instead of getting it immediately I wrongly assume that they meant something different so I go on and explain to them one more time what I meant until I finally realised that they had already said the same thing

Normies are disgusting. They expect everyone to follow a specific status quo

 

[Caesercel]

Wasted youth
Unsatisfactory career
no opportunities ahead
Self image issues due to hair loss
Reclusivity and social anxiety
ED
existential dread

How do I cope?
Distracting myself from reality on my phone.

 

[The Enforcer]

Wasted youth
Unsatisfactory career
no opportunities ahead
Self image issues due to hair loss
Reclusivity and social anxiety
ED
existential dread

How do I cope?
Distracting myself from reality on my phone.

Relatablepill tbh. Especially the realization of wasted time. It's brutal. The screen is a good cope.

 

[Caesercel]

Relatablepill tbh. Especially the realization of wasted time. It's brutal. The screen is a good cope.

Change is needed though. I'm coming to the realisation that I still have 30 or so years of life left. i can't go on like this for another 30. But I wish I could go back to make things better.

 

[The Enforcer]

Change is needed though. I'm coming to the realisation that I still have 30 or so years of life left. i can't go on like this for another 30. But I wish I could go back to make things better.

I would never want to live that long tbh. I'm glad I wont make it to 40

 

[wei#3959]

being low iq

 

[The Enforcer]

being low iq

you had test?

 

[wei#3959]

you had test?

no

 

[The Enforcer]

no

get one, im sure you'll put your mind at ease a bit

 

[CopeLeadsToRope]

I'm just really tired bros Not sure how to cope anymore

 

[The Enforcer]

I'm just really tired bros Not sure how to cope anymore

Theres probably some ways. Whatever you can find really. Just something to ease things