idk why incels here hate romance so much. romance is real and has it's purpose. foids use romance to manipulate men but just because the romance is not reciprocated doesn't mean that romance is a lie. romance isn't some enemy that is completely bad. the purpose of romance is so that if you had a wife and kids you would put in the energy to take care of them. without romance and love you would never put in that energy. if anything romantic feelings should be cultivated, stamping out romance is self destructive. and most important of all is as men we are supposed to be romantic towards our life and work every day. we used to call ships, nations, weapons of war and instruments of science as 'her' and now every mention of love is called foid worship.