Blackpill "WEIRD PROBLEM : MY BOYFRIEND IS TOO GOOD-LOOKING"

[FaceIsLife]

Weird Problem: My boyfriend is TOO good-looking!? - The Student Room

This sounds arrogant, but it's not. I am desperately insecure about this!

Initially, landing myself an absolutely gorgeous man was something I couldn't even get my head around. He has been cheated on in the past and, although it sounds terrible, I think it is because of this that he doesn't realise how hot he is - and was happy to settle for me! I'm not ugly, just not exactly stunning. Put it in this horribly superficial way: if he's a 9.5/10, I'm a 6.

I would never call myself a jealous person until now. In my previous relationship I was with a guy who was absolutely devoted to me, but not necessarily 'classically handsome'. We started off as friends, and I grew to love him and feel attracted to him, but since this physical attraction was not there for me from the start, it fizzled out and I saw him too much as a friend again.

I will sound like an ********, but I have only been in this previous relationship before my current boyfriend, and am un-used to the feeling of being the 'less better looking' of the two. Of course, I do not go into relationships with this awful tactic in mind, but it's only now that I am the significantly less attractive person in my relationship that I have noticed it!

I feel jealous, insecure, and overly clingy just for hugging him around others. We are at drama school, and there are MANY gay guys who would just die to get their hands on him...one in particular that we are both good friends with, but it is so painfully obvious that our mutual friend fancies my boyfriend badly. They hang out a lot and my boyfriend is pretty oblivious to it...but not me. I want to punch the **** out of our friend when I catch him gazing at my boyfriend - which is horrible! There is no way my boyfriend is gay, or would even dream of cheating on me, but the jealousy is starting to drive me quietly insane. I feel embarrassed, as if people are looking at us and thinking "Jesus, he settled for less...".

I sound like a crazy, Glenn Close Bunny Boiling Nutjob...but in truth I have only opened up about this until...now!

Any advice for how to get round this? I NEED to sort out my self-esteem issues as they are really starting to effect my life and relationships (as you can probably tell..!)

Thank you so much for any response. Ag, hating life.

 

[FinnCel]

She's just bragging
She belongs in jail

 

[Deleted member 18214]

You need to be a 10/10 and cater to the foids needs now to have a steady relationship

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Then take me

 

[OwlGod]

She's just bragging

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

I hope she dies in a fire.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

If he is a 9.5 he is really a 6 and if she's a 6 she's really a 4.

 

[nihility]

She's just bragging
She belongs in jail

 

[Animecel2D]

What a obvious brag, there is no way in hell she is worried about gays taking her chad and jfl at her betabux relationship. Guy must’ve been orbiting her for months until she took him as a “boyfriend”

 

[HappilySingle]

2020 looksmatch

 

[Irredeemable]

She's just bragging
She belongs in jail

She belongs in an unmarked grave*
FTFY

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

Only a foid can land their dream boyfriend and somehow still make it sound like they are suffering because of it. They turn everything into a pity party for themselves. If they get something good they feel like they don't deserve it, but if they get something bad they claim that they are being treated unfairly.

EVERYTHING foids say or do is a virtue signaling and/or self victimization routine

 

[Joker]

You need to be a 10/10 and cater to the foids needs now to have a steady relationship

Even a 10/10 wont satisfy foids
Foids can never be satisfied. They always want more.
Even when they're with Chad they want giga-chad
If she was with a giga-chad she would want a tera-chad
There's no fucking winning with them.

 

[Izayacel]

What a obvious brag, there is no way in hell she is worried about gays taking her chad and jfl at her betabux relationship. Guy must’ve been orbiting her for months until she took him as a “boyfriend”

 

[Hate_my_life]

I can't even be bothered to get angry any more.

It's just tiresome.

 

[Deleted member 21173]

Tbf, if hes a gigachad as she states and shes honestly a 6, gl coz this chad will be fucking foids daily

 

[Haywire]

I hope she dies in a fire.

 

[Honeypot]

If he is a 9.5 he is really a 6 and if she's a 6 she's really a 4.

 

[Deleted member 21227]

I feel tired after reading this.

 

[FinnCel]

I feel tired after reading this.

Go ER to wake up

 

[Deleted member 21227]

Go ER to wake up

 

[FinnCel]

Don't go ER

 

[SuperPerfectCel]

Even if Becky gets Chad, and he's not a douchebag taking advantage, she still won't be happy.

People have a subconscious sense of their SMV. -matched relationships are supposed to work best because of this.

Problem is social media and the like distorted this instinct, and now foids literally won't realize this shit until after they are dating Chad, at which point it's beyond too late (nobody else can satisfy her once she's had Chad).

 

[Deleted member 21227]

Don't go ER

 

[oldcel75]

Foids will never be happy.

 

[The Incel Decade]

Only a foid can land their dream boyfriend and somehow still make it sound like they are suffering because of it. They turn everything into a pity party for themselves. If they get something good they feel like they don't deserve it, but if they get something bad they claim that they are being treated unfairly.

EVERYTHING foids say or do is a virtue signaling and/or self victimization routine

 

[Deleted member 1430]

Foids will never be happy.

 

[FukFeminism]

She’s just worried chad is cheating on her. And he is.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Water is wet. friendzone=uglyzone.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

Tbf, if hes a gigachad as she states and shes honestly a 6, gl coz this chad will be fucking foids daily

She's probably got a good hunch -- she's likely getting cheated on if said Chad isn't a beta cuck. He probably cucks her for giga-Stacies.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Either a brag or a lie.

 

[Deleted member 21768]

I like this one reply: "I don't reckon this is fair to judge, One persons beautiful is another persons ugly
So in all due respect, he may not be that great looking."

But at the same time I'm thinking that if that's the case, there's plenty out there that isn't "too good looking" she can pick from.
I will assume she's not that good looking herself though.

 

[zangano1]

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

sounds fake as fuck tbh, why would she be worried about fags hitting on her boyfriend if she knows he isn't gay? she should be worried about stacies stealing her chad, which she doesn't mention at all

probably some 4/10 chubby LARPing to feed her ego

 

[Bane of Arthropods]

if he's a 9.5/10, I'm a 6.

Chad can only get 6s in 2020

 

[Saber]

0th world problem

 

[Robtical]

So she's more worried about fags than other foids? He must not really be a chad.

 

[Frenchnibba]

''I would never call myself a jealous person until now. In my previous relationship I was with a guy who was absolutely devoted to me, but not necessarily 'classically handsome'. We started off as friends, and I grew to love him and feel attracted to him, but since this physical attraction was not there for me from the start, it fizzled out and I saw him too much as a friend again. ''
Even when you ascend, sometimes you descend just as hard.

 

[Bane of Arthropods]

0th world problem

 

[bait____]

Even a 10/10 wont satisfy foids
Foids can never be satisfied. They always want more.
Even when they're with Chad they want giga-chad
If she was with a giga-chad she would want a tera-chad
There's no fucking winning with them.

Peta-Chad in 2030

 

[Deleted member 18193]

Peta-Chad in 2030

Hypergamy is following the curve of Moore's Law

 

[Neggr]

She's just bragging
She belongs in jail

 

[ThePlagueDoctor]

Then take me

Hypergamy is following the curve of Moore's Law

Coulomb’s constant IQ while I have Planck’s constant IQ

 

[Iwanttolive]

If he is a 9.5 he is really a 6 and if she's a 6 she's really a 4.