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It's Over What CRUSHED your hope?

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What broke mine was when I first found my old crush. She was secretly making out with her boyfriend right as I was looking for her in order to confess to her. They didn't notice me but I ran away crying. Ever since then I have never been the same.

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I haven't had any interactions with females for my hope to have been crushed in one big moment like you but its been a death by a thousand paper cuts.
 
having no friends by the time I finished high school, and the realization that I am mentally different from most people
 
What broke mine was when I first found my old crush. She was secretly making out with her boyfriend right as I was looking for her in order to confess to her. They didn't notice me but I ran away crying. Ever since then I have never been the same.

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I was at the store with my cousin who heightmogs me and even though I was paying for everything and brought the items to the counter she spoke to him and maintained eye contact with him only
 
My mother. She crushed whatever wish for love or belonging i had to the world. When you can't even love your own mother, you lose the capacity to care for any other human
 
When I realised that no girl is ever going to have sex with me and that I’m going to die a virgin.
 
What broke mine was when I first found my old crush. She was secretly making out with her boyfriend right as I was looking for her in order to confess to her. They didn't notice me but I ran away crying. Ever since then I have never been the same.

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My mother. She crushed whatever wish for love or belonging i had to the world. When you can't even love your own mother, you lose the capacity to care for any other human
Maternal treatment has a MASSIVE impact on a child's development. Traits in the mother shape what many females look for in friends, and what many males look for in mates, for example. I'd be willing to bet the majority of incels had abusive mothers, or at the very least lacked proper maternal nourishment, shaping our views of foids.
 
When I realized my little brother who barely exercised and sat on the computer all day still mogged me in everything, made me realize I was just a sub 3 cursed by genetics
 
Life is not a bon Jovi song
 
Not one event, my hope got crushed slowly, one rejection after another. First I couldn't make friends, then I couldn't get a girlfriend, then I couldn't get a job. At some point you start to accept that you are unwanted in the world.
 
My bad luck was what finally crushed any hope and pushed me from the redpill into the blackpill.
 
I lost hope the moment where my last friend, who was like a brother to me betrayed me in a most brutal way.
 
Chad fishing as zyzz in 2011 on Craigslist personals
 
Leaving college never having had a gf or pussy was probably when I realised how gigafucked I was.
 
the day i realized the way i wanted to see myself didn't match AT ALL the way i really was and how others percieved me. No one would like me, and no one likes me today
 

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