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Some guy on r/AmIUgly asks What's the point if you are ugly?
The replies are fucking unbelievable
What? Is this guy living in the 19th century
Original thread https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/6zrdtq/meta_whats_the_point_if_youre_ugly/
I'm abhorrently ugly. Not gonna bother posting publicly on here because I'll just get laughed at. I have a gross, unmasculine face and I'm short, and no girl has ever liked me romantically or sexually for as long as I can remember (which is destroying my self-esteem). I only ever got one match on Tinder or OKCupid, and when I suggested a date she ghosted me immediately. Other dating apps and going to the gym haven't worked either. Since things won't get better and I can't change how I look from a genetic standpoint, should I just off myself? Seems like that would get the whole "dying alone" thing out of the way faster. Has anyone else felt this way before? How did you make it through?
The replies are fucking unbelievable
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Several reasons:[/font]
- When people choose partners, physical appearance is only one thing they look at. Plenty of ugly people get married and have families. Especially for males, attractiveness is not at the top of the list. Ever wonder why there are no (or very few) male beauty pageants, or strip clubs where men dance for women? It's because compared to men, women don't care about appearance very much.
- Confidence is key. If you are ugly, that's not really a big deal due to reason 1, but if this ugliness causes you to lose confidence, that will hurt your chances more than the ugliness itself. A LOT of guys get no matches on Tinder, because that app has something like 3-4 guys for every girl. Most dating sites have a similar ratio. Don't let this get your spirits down.
- Women have different preferences. Not all women are into muscular hunks, contrary to what the media tells you. If you are not conventionally attractive, then many women won't be attracted to you, but some will. It will just be harder to find them.
- You never know what the future holds. I know a guy who had his first date at the age of 34. He now has a long-term girlfriend and will probably marry her. I had a lot of nerdy friends in college, and kept in touch with many of them. Many of them did not date until mid/late 20s. Don't judge yourself by what others do.
What? Is this guy living in the 19th century
Yeah bitch, we know what cunts like you want.I agree with an earlier poster: as a guy, you don't have to be very attractive to be noticed by girls. Be cleanly and smile. That's honestly all I need to notice a guy and start hanging out with them, as a girl. Don't take your appearance too seriously. Join some clubs, at school if you're in school, and start doing thing to distract yourself from this, in addition to therapy if you really are this depressed in general. Funnily enough, finding a girlfriend is much easier when you don't think about it and just try to enjoy life and make some friends.
Lel, mothefucka Incels do existI would actually bet on the fact that this guy is average-looking.
If I find this mothefucka I will assrape him or her[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]why does your entire life have to revolve around a relationship/sex?[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Even if you cannot get a date or have sex... there is more to life. that sucks of course. but suicide seems extreme. but i am very sorry that you feel this way.[/font]
Fuck off man[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]First off: You should probably get some help. You're depressed - not "sad" but rather you dont care. It's an issue that can be helped.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Second: You're probably not as ugly as you think. Bear in mind, even if you are, dating apps are shallow. I rarely use them because I want a vibe off the persons personality. Not to mention, some people suck at taking photos.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Third: Be optimistic. I know it seems pointless etc, but honestly it is necessary. An average looking guy gains plus points if he smiles. If he is scowling, I dont have time for him. Being sullen and moody helps nobody, and if it comes across as though you are a negative person, you'll get nowhere.[/font]
Original thread https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/6zrdtq/meta_whats_the_point_if_youre_ugly/