Dont got any hobbies or nun so im looking for stuff to get into that i can have conversations to people about got no clue where to start tho. Do yall have any idea what might make me seem more social?
Either you are normal or you're not you can't fake it.
Just wear a mask and fool everyone i do it all the time.
Just wear a mask and fool everyone i do it all the time.
I Know but even if i wanted to act like it i have absolutely nothing to talk to people about which has become quite a problem since i would actually like to make friends and such
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Bro legit even I can't fit in with people cause i have nothing to talk about.
Normies gobbleup mainstream media and talk about it all day.
After getting blackpilled on such extents i can't be normal anymore.
Its geniunenly hell, thing is my looks arent even whats holding me back im not ugly or short but i dont leave my house have no friends and cant talk to people and its even worse bc i dont know how to change that. You can looksmaxx anyday but if you dont fit in it wont matter
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I'm in a very similar situation to you.
I mostly rot in my house all day have no friends.
I go out to jog or wander.
Yeah i mean looks obviously very important but even if ur above average social skills are necessary
Not social skills but the mask of being normal.
idk tbh, theres temp nt fixes but long term youd prob need constant positive reinforcement + constant exposure to social situations to be more social. having hobbies that ur actually passionate abt prob works too if u can not be high inhib when speaking abt them, as well as findinf someone who is as passionate abt it as u(if ur too much they will jus see u as autistic)
Yeah man i mean i cant even do that
Appreciate it, you know any hobbies that arent hard to get into or to maintain? Im sadly not particulary good at anything but ill try most hobbies aslong as it gets me into some sort of social circle and gives me something to talk abt. And the positive reinforcement sadly doesnt work when you dont know if people are making fun of you or not
its dependent on u as a person tbh…. what did u enjoy growing up? that could b a start to reconnecting to stuff, what do u like to do in ur free time ?Appreciate it, you know any hobbies that arent hard to get into or to maintain? Im sadly not particulary good at anything but ill try most hobbies aslong as it gets me into some sort of social circle and gives me something to talk abt. And the positive reinforcement sadly doesnt work when you dont know if people are making fun of you or not
well yea tbh ntmaxxing is heavily dependent on status or looks lolthe positive reinforcement sadly doesnt work when you dont know if people are making fun of you or not
Thats the thing, i never rlly had hobbies or anything like that. Growing up i spent my time playing games on my nintendo ds now im spending it playing games on my pc. I mean i get home from school and get in my room. Im not really athletic or nun and im nothing special intelligence wise aswell. I used to have friends to play the games with which was nice but i never hear from them nowadays. So yeah im kind of fucked.
Ik ik and even if i get compliments on my looks, even if i look maybe slightly above average theres rlly no use to it when ur in a situation like mine
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