I don't know. I'm going to call bullshit and cope on this part. There are plenty of places on the internet with people in similar situations that are far more amicable. Being a dickwad and insulting people/telling them to rope when venting seems like a fakecel trait. There's that fakecel @lll who has many, many alts and in all of them he is always lookshaming, incel shaming, and telling people to go rope out of nowhere.
Honestly, I don't frequent other incel spaces. This is literally the only site I post on as a cope, so this is my only reference point. You have a broader perspective on this than me here, but I'm speaking from my point of view which is here. If it turns out that this truly is the only site where people truly are bitter fucks to each other, then there may be other variables we're not considering. It might be that in other places the rules on forum use are not so strict, so you might have more normies hanging out who are not as beaten down and stressed from their inceldom since being a teen (failed normies who had high school or college girlfriends, for example). Looksmax is a good example. From what I know, you have literal chadlites and high-tier normies who post there, so you probably won't see a whole lot of bitterness relative to here. (I don't know if this is fact, because I hardly ever lurk that site or anywhere tbh, so what I'm saying is purely conjecture.)
You never see any such users ever even talk about their inceldom. It's always about how based and high T they are or so forth for being a genuine psychopath. At the very least they're at the point where I don't think they can even cite how society treats them as an excuse because these same users actually are very vehement and vocal they don't even care how they are treated by society.
This could just be posturing for status tbh. You know as well as I do that dominance hierarchies play out in any and all domains. It could be incels trying to show off how BASED they are, or it could be normies larping as what they think incels would approve of, so as to raise their own statuses in the incel hierarchy, or it could be a bit of both, which becomes harder to differentiate. Eventually, their true colors show, though, as was the case with mylifeistrash.
Quite frankly it's the opposite. Ugly men are conditioned to be high inhib, meek, and to follow the rules/play nice. That's why frankly I'm not surprised when the incel purity is far greater in other spaces than here.
Interesting counter-point. What you're saying has a lot merit. There's definitely that element where ugly men are likely to be higher inhibition, due to the negative feedback they've received from their environments for being bold and taking risks. Chad takes the same risks and he's rewarded because he's chad, yet mistakenly attributes his rewards to his boldness and risk-taking. Chad can go his whole life being happy, assertive and confident, while being completely blue pilled, hence why they frequently tend to spout blue pilled platitudes and think it's genuine, helpful advice.
However, anger that can't be expressed in a healthy way does build up ("pent-up anger") and eventually has to vent out somewhere, sometime, somehow. Abused children are, in turn, abusive to others. They might even be cruel to animals. The same goes for incels who grew up bullied and humiliated. They will do so in return out of a sense of vengeance and catharsis. To them, it will feel good in a way.
What you see as greater "incel purity" (I'm assuming this means the ratio of actual incels to fakecels and larpers?) could very well be the effect of content normies who haven't gotten to the anger stage of grief and are still in their red pill coping phase, thinking that the black pill will help them in their red pill quest somehow.
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