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Shoutout to @The Notorious SLAV for inspiring this thread with his observation:
Wild that in just a couple of years we've seen redpill and PUA stuff decline and almost die, only to return with a vengeance (at least the former), and then start dying again like this:feelshaha:. It really is just a cycle of new, desperate young men coming in and falling for the same stuff before getting shown the light.

A lot of people don't understand this, but the redpill of old (early-to-mid 2010s) was a lot different from what Tate, Scamza, and co have been pushing in the 2020s. It was arguably closer to us in some ways than it was to them, as it framed hypergamy as negative and acknowledged AWALT and foid nature being evil. When the OG RP community shrunk, it didn't completely die out but instead met a forking path. A dissident branch that was disillusioned with PUAs, game, etc. created PSL (PuaHate, Sluthate, Lookism) culture, which eventually evolved into the blackpill, while the rest of the RP community was absorbed and/or marginalized by the "improove bro" centric, trad-washed "influencer redpill" (which became mainstream).

The same thing that happened to redpill years ago is now happening to us. Over the past 2 and 1/2 years we've seen the rise of "influencer blackpill," which is effectively blackpill removed from its manosphere roots. It's the BP stripped down to looks fatalism, Chad/Stacy worship, and "it's over bro" memes, completely absent of the broader genetic determinism and critique of foids/soyciety that once characterized this community's identity. Just like influencer redpill, influencer blackpill is also improovement focused, which is the main reason it's reached such a large audience.

Some people don't seem to fully get this, but we are a small minority of this community and have been for a while. Blackpillers aren't just on .is and .org, they're on TikTok, they're on IG, they're on X, and they're in your schools, cucklleges, and workplaces. Master's forums and their userbases are a mere drop in the bucket now, and are currently undergoing a great replacement themselves. Looksmax is already mostly underage teens at this point, and though the transformation has been slower for .is (due to the high turnover rate of GrAYs), it's still happening.

The decline of this forum is getting impossible to ignore. Users are getting more brainrotted, post/thread quality has dropped, high-effort content gets no replies, and the userbase has been de-facto segregated into entire cliques/segments that do not interact with each other. Just as the blackpill was originally born out of a dying redpill, I think we also need to reinvent ourselves if we want to survive. Not just into a new forum but a new community entirely, probably dropping the "inceldom" label and focus altogether. The same aspects of systemic and female nature critique that the looksmaxxing grifters dropped is what we need to double down on, and our focus should be on structural male disadvantage (wherever it applies, dating market or elsewhere) through a blackpilled lens and male supremacist framework. Basically think of an entire forum centered around @The Notorious SLAV/@GeckoBus/@wereq type content (same focus, not necessarily as high-effort) instead of "I saw a couple outside, day ruined."

Venting and off-topic content would of course still be allowed in this hypothetical community, but betabuxx/oofy-doofy glorification ("ascension by any means necessary," "volcel if you wouldn't *x*"), performative edgelord shit, and irony-poisoning would have to go. I think the Sewers/Sewer culture would have to go as well, as that's the easiest infiltration point – any brainrotted zoomer can shitpost 6 gorillion times and LARP as an established user. What we need is an ideological purification and a restructuring from the ground up.

Ultimately I'm in no position to create a new forum, so this is equal parts a call to urgency and mere mental masturbation, but I feel it's important to say regardless. We don't have much time left, and if we want our ideas and ethos to survive, we need to evolve
 
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Shoutout to @The Notorious SLAV for inspiring this thread with his observation:


A lot of people don't understand this, but the redpill of old (early-to-mid 2010s) was a lot different from what Tate, Scamza, and co have been pushing in the 2020s. It was arguably closer to us in some ways than it was to them, as it framed hypergamy as negative and acknowledged AWALT and foid nature being evil. When the OG RP community shrunk, it didn't completely die out but instead met a forking path. A dissident branch that was disillusioned with PUAs, game, etc. created PSL (PuaHate, Sluthate, Lookism) culture, which eventually evolved into the blackpill, while the rest of the RP community was absorbed and/or marginalized by the "improove bro" centric, trad-washed "influencer redpill" (which became mainstream).

The same thing that happened to redpill years ago is now happening to us. Over the past 2 and 1/2 years we've seen the rise of "influencer blackpill," which is effectively blackpill removed from its manosphere roots. It's the BP stripped down to looks fatalism, Chad/Stacy worship, and "it's over bro" memes, completely absent of the broader genetic determinism and critique of foids/soyciety that once characterized this community's identity. Just like influencer redpill, influencer blackpill is also improovement focused, which is the main reason it's reached such a large audience.

Some people don't seem to fully get this, but we are a small minority of this community and have been for a while. Blackpillers aren't just on .is and .org, they're on TikTok, they're on IG, they're on X, and they're in your schools, cucklleges, and workplaces. Master's forums and their userbases are a mere drop in the bucket now, and are currently undergoing a great replacement themselves. Looksmax is already mostly underage teens at this point, and though the transformation has been slower for .is (due to the high turnover rate of GrAYs), it's still happening.

The decline of this forum is getting impossible to ignore. Users are getting more brainrotted, post/thread quality has dropped, high-effort content gets no replies, and the userbase has been de-facto segregated into entire cliques/segments that do not interact with each other. Just as the blackpill was originally born out of a dying redpill, I think we also need to reinvent ourselves if we want to survive. Not just into a new forum but a new community entirely, probably dropping the "inceldom" label and focus altogether. The same aspects of systemic and female nature critique that the looksmaxxing grifters dropped is what we need to double down on, and our focus should be on structural male disadvantage (wherever it applies, dating market or elsewhere) through a blackpilled lens and male supremacist framework. Basically think of an entire forum centered around @The Notorious SLAV/@GeckoBus/@wereq type content (same focus, not necessarily as high-effort) instead of "I saw a couple outside, day ruined."

Venting and off-topic content would of course still be allowed in this hypothetical community, but betabuxx/oofy-doofy glorification ("ascension by any means necessary," "volcel if you wouldn't *x*"), performative edgelord shit, and irony-poisoning would have to go. I think the Sewers/Sewer culture would have to go as well, as that's the easiest infiltration point – any brainrotted zoomer can shitpost 6 gorillion times and LARP as an established user). What we need is an ideological purification and a restructuring from the ground up.

Ultimately I'm in no position to create a new forum, so this is equal parts a call to urgency and mere mental masturbation, but I feel it's important to say regardless. We don't have much time left, and if we want our ideas and ethos to survive, we need to evolve
Systems absolve their critques into themselves, rendering the critque without any substance or base. That is how it survives.
 
all things die out
 
Every Empire will fall, and out of its remnants a new one will rise.

Same logic is here at play, though it's up to us to steer the new "Empire" into a direction of our liking and not let it steer freely into the Abyss of brainrot and nonsense.

While larpers and brainrotters are eating up the former BP, we evolved and wandered to the next which we form to our liking.

Until then it's another few years and the former will eventually tag up and consume the next.

It's a ever on going cycle of destruction and rebirth.
 
Yea, not only do high effort posts get very little replies but the replies themselves are also often very low effort which is why I quit being super active on this forum. I don't think it's worth it to appeal to normalfags to keep this forum alive the people who the most brainrotted users here are likely normalfags themselves so imagine that but even worse than it is now.
 
Good
It needs to die faster
 
I don't think it's worth it to appeal to normalfags to keep this forum alive the people who the most brainrotted users here are likely normalfags themselves so imagine that but even worse than it is now.
I didn't suggest appealing to normalfags, I suggested becoming more radical. The normalfag-appealing content is all over Tiktok, IG, Kick, etc., and it's bringing normalfags here. What we need is to differentiate ourselves entirely
 
Every Empire will fall, and out of its remnants a new one will rise.

Same logic is here at play, though it's up to us to steer the new "Empire" into a direction of our liking and not let it steer freely into the Abyss of brainrot and nonsense.
:blackpill: :blackpill: :blackpill: :yes: :yes: :yes:
 
Things are much slower, the good users are slowly dying out, but I think it might live for another couple of years. Just not a enough to talk about without it being repeated.
 
The incelosphere as a whole is cooked, beyond saving, and must be allowed to die. We need a new space
 
Things are much slower, the good users are slowly dying out, but I think it might live for another couple of years. Just not a enough to talk about without it being repeated.
It won't live in any recognizable form. At least half the userbase at this point are brainrotted zoomers, and there are likely gen A niggas lurking and LARPing here too
 
I didn't suggest appealing to normalfags, I suggested becoming more radical. The normalfag-appealing content is all over Tiktok, IG, Kick, etc., and it's bringing normalfags here. What we need is to differentiate ourselves entirely
You suggested we need to bring in more blackpillers by dropping the inceldom label, so would that not be sexhaving normalfags who just so happen to hold blackpilled beliefs about women?
 
How come?
Idk what he was thinking when he wrote that, but if he meant this forum and the incelosphere are beyond saving, he's right. That said, if he wants this space to die and not be replaced by a new one, he's an idiot
 
You suggested we need to bring in more blackpillers by dropping the inceldom label, so would that not be sexhaving normalfags who just so happen to hold blackpilled beliefs about women?
Centralizing the space around inceldom paints us into a corner. The brutal truth is most incels are simps, and the majority of young sexless men also become buxxers/oofy-doofies one day and move on.

Like I said, we should focus on the aspects of the BP that the grifters have cast aside. That being the criticism of female nature/toxic femininity and the way soyciety is geared against sub-Chad men specifically (not just ugly people as a whole). Think of MGTOW, but without the cope. MSTOW more or less
 
It won't live in any recognizable form. At least half the userbase at this point are brainrotted zoomers, and there are likely gen A niggas lurking and LARPing here too
Genuinely how can you tell which ones are larpers?
 
Genuinely how can you tell which ones are larpers?
They give themselves away. Low attention span, overuse of slang, trying too hard to fit in, lowkey soy
 
Centralizing the space around inceldom paints us into a corner. The brutal truth is most incels are simps, and the majority of young sexless men also become buxxers/oofy-doofies one day and move on.

Like I said, we should focus on the aspects of the BP that the grifters have cast aside. That being the criticism of female nature/toxic femininity and the way soyciety is geared against sub-Chad men specifically (not just ugly people as a whole). Think of MGTOW, but without the cope. MSTOW more or less
This kind of forum would probably just be org 2.0
 
What is this?
Men Sent Their Own Way. It's an acknowledgement of the fact that we were forced into this predicament and didn't choose it, but it's also a conscious attempt to opt out of the rigged system instead of making it a goal to reassimilate into it
 
This kind of forum would probably just be org 2.0
.org doesn't talk about any of the shit I mentioned though?? They almost exclusively talk about looks improvement, bragging about sex, or race wars.

Obviously a hypothetical MSTOW forum would ban braggart behavior and foid/Chad worship
 
Men Sent Their Own Way. It's an acknowledgement of the fact that we were forced into this predicament and didn't choose it, but it's also a conscious attempt to opt out of the rigged system entirely instead of making it a goal to reassimilate into it
This makes sense. And I guess I’ve been doing this as I’ve already given up.
 
You suggested we need to bring in more blackpillers by dropping the inceldom label, so would that not be sexhaving normalfags who just so happen to hold blackpilled beliefs about women?
What is this?
A male equivalent to radfems is another way to conceptualize what I'm suggesting
 
The thing is, despite the forum seemingly dying, my posts continue to get a lot of engagement and discussion. :feelsautistic: :feelsautistic: :feelsEhh::feelsEhh:
 
I think the Sewers/Sewer culture would have to go as well, as that's the easiest infiltration point – any brainrotted zoomer can shitpost 6 gorillion times and LARP as an established user.
Good point. Postmaxxing in the sewers shouldn't count, because it's all low effort shit no one reads. This also means that reaching paragon isn't as special now, which is a bad thing.
 
There's no saving .is. Think about it this way – the country is beyond saving, but the demographic core can be preserved and proliferated by moving elsewhere
 
Good point. Postmaxxing in the sewers shouldn't count, because it's all low effort shit no one reads. This also means that reaching paragon isn't as special now, which is a bad thing.
There's also the fact that Sewercels have become their own "clique" now that self-isolates, and that any random shitposter can assimilate into. Any irony-poisoned Tiktok normiefag can join up and become a Sewercel immediately so long as he's careful enough to not let his real views slip (which isn't hard considering they just shitpost over there and don't have any real discussion)
 
Change is always bound to happen, and I don't think that it's worth denying. You're definitely correct, at least for the most part. I'm not entirely stupid and ignorant, I know that the BP has become mainstream and more and more guys are clicking into the idea of it. The ideology is going to become more and more diluted with time, until it inevitably loses its original meaning entirely.

People end up joining so fast and reaching tens of thousands of posts before I feel like I've even had the chance to know them in the slightest. It makes me feel strange.

But, honestly, I don't know where else to go. I really don't want to sound corny, but .is honestly is like a home to me—I don't even know what I'd do without it. I never anticipated how much this place would mean to me.
 
Change is always bound to happen, and I don't think that it's worth denying. You're definitely correct, at least for the most part. I'm not entirely stupid and ignorant, I know that the BP has become mainstream and more and more guys are clicking into the idea of it. The ideology is going to become more and more diluted with time, until it inevitably loses its original meaning entirely.

People end up joining so fast and reaching tens of thousands of posts before I feel like I've even had the chance to know them in the slightest. It makes me feel strange.

But, honestly, I don't know where else to go. I really don't want to sound corny, but .is honestly is like a home to me—I don't even know what I'd do without it. I never anticipated how much this place would mean to me.
I don't advocate .is dying out without a successor. Just as the blackpill was born out of a dying redpill, I believe we could have a real male equivalent to the radfem movement born out of the dying incelosphere
 
The thing is, despite the forum seemingly dying, my posts continue to get a lot of engagement and discussion. :feelsautistic: :feelsautistic: :feelsEhh::feelsEhh:
Tap Dance GIF
 
There's also the fact that Sewercels have become their own "clique" now that self-isolates, and that any random shitposter can assimilate into. Any irony-poisoned Tiktok normiefag can join up and become a Sewercel immediately so long as he's careful enough to not let his real views slip (which isn't hard considering they just shitpost over there and don't have any real discussion)
More erenyeagers stat
 
Yea, not only do high effort posts get very little replies but the replies themselves are also often very low effort which is why I quit being super active on this forum. I don't think it's worth it to appeal to normalfags to keep this forum alive the people who the most brainrotted users here are likely normalfags themselves so imagine that but even worse than it is now.
I don't want to sound rude or disrespectful when I say this, because that's really not my intention, but what else do you do then...? I try my hardest to put as much effort as I can into my posts here, including my replies to threads, even despite my low-IQ making it rather difficult for me to do so. But, even though I know that not many people will end up caring for it, I continue doing it because I literally am incapable of envisioning myself doing literally anything else.

Yeah, sure, I could stop posting to this forum tomorrow, but I'd just end up being miserable as I'm left with nothing else to do. I unironically can not comprehend what an incel is meant to do other than rot alone or post stuff on an incel forum—or, at least, I can't see myself doing anything else I suppose. I'm an extrovert, I really want to socialize and talk with people about things. But, my inceldom prevents me from doing that anywhere but here (not that I'd want to have it anywhere else, anyway).

Everything else I do distills itself from the identity that this forum helped me build up. I suppose that's what I mean when I say that I can't comprehend my life without .is.
 
encourage the fucking high IQ high effort threads.

Stop shitting on people who want to contribute.
 
They'll stay contained in .org, hopefully
 
encourage the fucking high IQ high effort threads.
How many of those do we really need now? This forum has existed for practically a decade. The blackpill has been discussed over and over again that it's common sense now. Just go to the must read section if you wanna see high IQ threads
 
How many of those do we really need now? This forum has existed for practically a decade. The blackpill has been discussed over and over again that it's common sense now. Just go to the must read section if you wanna see high IQ threads
You're acting as if attraction theories are the only material we have to talk about. There's so much to be said regarding structural issues affecting men (both de jure and de facto) and the blackpill logic behind them.

This is why I said in the thread that we need a new space that removes the focus from inceldom and ascension. We've painted ourselves into a corner by centering this topic
 
How many of those do we really need now?
This is the worst talking point ever in this community ever. You’re acting like this forum is a library of all human knowledge.

There are so many different conversations to be had, and this closed mindedness is what killed the forum. Congrats
 
This is the worst talking point ever in this community ever. You’re acting like this forum is a library of all human knowledge.

There are so many different conversations to be had, and this closed mindedness is what killed the forum. Congrats
Sorry, I worded that terribly. I think we should encourage high IQ threads.
However, what I meant to say is that you can't expect high IQ threads to be pushed out like hot cakes.
 
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and this closed mindedness is what killed the forum
It could be argued that he's right in a sense. Attraction theories have pretty much all been dug into at this point. What we need is more focus on systemic male disadvantage, critiquing other aspects of female nature that aren't hypergamy, and pro-patriarchy topics – approached from a blackpill perspective of course. A radfem equivalent but for men.

To an extent I'm starting to feel like the incelosphere in and of itself was a mistake. Imagine if, after the blackpill was compiled, we saw one looksmaxxing side of the community and one MSTOW side. Part of the reason it's easy for looksfaggers to integrate into .is is because the motivation of the communities is the same. They want sex and relationships above all, we want sex and relationships above all, they're just more fixated on discussing how to get it while we're more fixated on discussing the experience of not having it. Imagine if we had a forum that was free of foid worship altogether
 
You're acting as if attraction theories are the only material we have to talk about. There's so much to be said regarding structural issues affecting men (both de jure and de facto) and the blackpill logic behind them.

This is why I said in the thread that we need a new space that removes the focus from inceldom and ascension. We've painted ourselves into a corner by centering this topic
The fucked up part is, I see incel users making high effort, great points on Reddit. These are the types you’d see on this forum.

But one thing people here don’t like to talk about is how much this forum has unnecessary hostility towards people. It’s excessive, users see it, and rather express themselves elsewhere
 
The fucked up part is, I see incel users making high effort, great points on Reddit. These are the types you’d see on this forum.

But one thing people here don’t like to talk about is how much this forum has unnecessary hostility towards people. It’s excessive, users see it, and rather express themselves elsewhere
You're talking about users on BP-adjacent subs (shortguys, etc.) or users on MRA subs? If you mean the latter, maybe the gatekeep-y culture is part of what kept posters like that from .is, but I feel like the marginalization of the blackpill (up until recently) probably had more to do with it. The majority of Men's Rights and pro-male spaces are unfortunately redpilled
 
You're talking about users on BP-adjacent subs (shortguys, etc.) or users on MRA subs? If you mean the latter, maybe the gatekeep-y culture is part of what kept posters like that from .is, but I feel like the marginalization of the blackpill (up until recently) probably had more to do with it. The majority of Men's Rights and pro-male spaces are unfortunately redpilled
r/sikeorpsyche even r/clavicular

It’s sad to see
 
r/sikeorpsyche even r/clavicular

It’s sad to see
Are they actually talking about deeper-level shit like what TNS and GeckoBus post on here? Or just the same "looks are everything when dating as a man" topic that we've beaten to death?
 
Are they actually talking about deeper-level shit like what TNS and GeckoBus post on here? Or just the same "looks are everything when dating as a man" topic that we've beaten to death?
I’m saying I see a tiny amount of users there post high effort useful explanations to things. Including looks.

It also feels like the avg IQ of people on sikeorpsyche is higher than on this forum
 
I’m saying I see a tiny amount of users there post high effort useful explanations to things. Including looks.

It also feels like the avg IQ of people on sikeorpsyche is higher than on this forum
I just looked through that subcuckit and there was one or two insightful posts among a sea of surface-level BP stuff. The comments were also no more thought provoking than what you'd find on an average thread here, the only difference was the occasional-to-semi-frequent male feminist simp in the comments who tbh should have their heads ripped off and their neckholes fucked by elephant dicks
 
Infiltrate, undermine, divide, and conquer like the Jews.
 

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