remember folks, sex doesnt mean much!
At 39 I never worked out or ate healthy, luckily I have a somewhat active life but 5'8 270 isn't exactly an ideal body. I've always enjoyed the more adventurous side of sex but felt something was lacking. That was until I met someone involved in the bdsm community, all the sudden it was like I was shown a world I knew existed but could never reach before. I found myself being dominant and created a list of what I believe it takes to be dominant in this manner. She broke things off with me but that barely mattered as for the first time in my life I saw a future for myself. The main point I now follow is "I must discipline myself before I can discipline another" I'm walking an hour almost every day, I went from barely doing 10 wall pushups to 50 and will soon transition to regular pushups. I'm eating substantially better and counting calories. It doesn't feel like torture to do this now that I have something to live for. My weight is slowly coming down but I'm not rushing it and I found someone new interested in the lifestyle!! But I can truly say, for the first time, I'm doing this for me.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/1cblk5x/story_i_found_my_motivation_in_the_bedroom/
At 39 I never worked out or ate healthy, luckily I have a somewhat active life but 5'8 270 isn't exactly an ideal body. I've always enjoyed the more adventurous side of sex but felt something was lacking. That was until I met someone involved in the bdsm community, all the sudden it was like I was shown a world I knew existed but could never reach before. I found myself being dominant and created a list of what I believe it takes to be dominant in this manner. She broke things off with me but that barely mattered as for the first time in my life I saw a future for myself. The main point I now follow is "I must discipline myself before I can discipline another" I'm walking an hour almost every day, I went from barely doing 10 wall pushups to 50 and will soon transition to regular pushups. I'm eating substantially better and counting calories. It doesn't feel like torture to do this now that I have something to live for. My weight is slowly coming down but I'm not rushing it and I found someone new interested in the lifestyle!! But I can truly say, for the first time, I'm doing this for me.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/1cblk5x/story_i_found_my_motivation_in_the_bedroom/
