Don’t sacrifice your peace of mind and worry too much about how things will be perceived. You’re already sub-5, you will be hated and seen as creepy regardless of ANYTHING you do. So don’t worry about it, brocel.
If you think you have to: 1. Go unreasonably way out of your way to do something (e.g., worry about your gaze being misinterpreted as staring at her even though you’re looking at something past her head) or, 2., worry too much, you shouldn’t worry about it!
Obviously, don’t be grossly negligent (please don’t stand too physically close to women, look at women lustfully, or be alone with women, etc.)
No matter what happens (foids think you’re creepy or, worst-case, you get an FRA) don’t worry about it from the perspective of it being due to something you “did.” You’re not at fault as long as you’re not grossly negligent, like I said.
A great example of this is Michael Jackson. He wanted to live out his missed childhood, but was low-IQ enough to have kids at his ranch alone with him. In that case, it was partially his fault that he didn’t take reasonable precautions to defend against possible FRAs.
I know this is tough to figure out for ND guys and for some of us who were never allowed to develop our social skills, but please save yourself some peace of mind and don’t over- or under- do your “reputation management” and FRA-prevention skills.
If you think you have to: 1. Go unreasonably way out of your way to do something (e.g., worry about your gaze being misinterpreted as staring at her even though you’re looking at something past her head) or, 2., worry too much, you shouldn’t worry about it!
Obviously, don’t be grossly negligent (please don’t stand too physically close to women, look at women lustfully, or be alone with women, etc.)
No matter what happens (foids think you’re creepy or, worst-case, you get an FRA) don’t worry about it from the perspective of it being due to something you “did.” You’re not at fault as long as you’re not grossly negligent, like I said.
A great example of this is Michael Jackson. He wanted to live out his missed childhood, but was low-IQ enough to have kids at his ranch alone with him. In that case, it was partially his fault that he didn’t take reasonable precautions to defend against possible FRAs.
I know this is tough to figure out for ND guys and for some of us who were never allowed to develop our social skills, but please save yourself some peace of mind and don’t over- or under- do your “reputation management” and FRA-prevention skills.
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