spending my teens and early adulthood alone

[kingvincent1]

ive always been the blacksheep of my family and none my parents really cared about me spending time alone but for the last weeks of 2025 and past weeks they have been disturbing me and telling me to leave my room telling me that my classmates from highschool are going to uni and getting married whilst im sitting in my room all alone doing nothing with my life and i don't know how to respond to them.

 

[Itsoverm8]

Been my life since I left high school in 2017 it dosent get better

 

[elltom]

for me i am wasting my life behind a screen

 

[kingvincent1]

Been my life since I left high school in 2017 it dosent get better

seeing my siblings achieving their dreams whilst im stuck in the past

 

[autisticsoy]

Dont expect much change once a certain age is past its nearly unfixable

 

[kingvincent1]

Dont expect much change once a certain age is past its nearly unfixable

i tried fixing myself when i was 18 and now im 20 its over

 

[autisticsoy]

i tried fixing myself when i was 18 and now im 20 its over

Not yet till you past 25 is when you can considered it over. You still got some time though join a community college or trading school something that is guaranteed access with people near your age. Be active and try to build a social there is your best chance.

 

[Krad]

ive always been the blacksheep of my family and none my parents really cared about me spending time alone but for the last weeks of 2025 and past weeks they have been disturbing me and telling me to leave my room telling me that my classmates from highschool are going to uni and getting married whilst im sitting in my room all alone doing nothing with my life and i don't know how to respond to them.

I have gave up my life to be a Christian in perhaps a radical sense.

My only desire is to bring others to Hope Of Hopes and help others to be Close To God.

I did not enter a university/faculty nor anything else, because of two reasons:

1. It's a scam

2. I will not sell my soul to repeat the same thing everyone else does, and not lose my time with something that has no meaning after my death.

I understand you, i get most of my time in my room, on internet, my parents also asks the same thing, either about job or to drink more water or whatever or just appear more to talk to people.

May Jesus Christ give you strength, for you not be ashamed by the pressure of others for things that are vanity won't get anywhere, but those who Seek God's Kingdom First, will be awarded infinite times higher In Heaven than those who already got their rewards in this earth.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Dont expect much change once a certain age is past its nearly unfixable

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

That's how it goes for sub5 incels

 

[kingvincent1]

I have gave up my life to be a Christian in perhaps a radical sense.

My only desire is to bring others to Hope Of Hopes and help others to be Close To God.

I did not enter a university/faculty nor anything else, because of two reasons:

1. It's a scam

2. I will not sell my soul to repeat the same thing everyone else does, and not lose my time with something that has no meaning after my death.

I understand you, i get most of my time in my room, on internet, my parents also asks the same thing, either about job or to drink more water or whatever or just appear more to talk to people.

May Jesus Christ give you strength, for you not be ashamed by the pressure of others for things that are vanity won't get anywhere, but those who Seek God's Kingdom First, will be awarded infinite times higher In Heaven than those who already got their rewards in this earth.

i agree uni is a fucking scam and just a debt trap for idiots who take worthless courses when ai will replace them in a couple years you might aswell stay at home and save some money

 

[kingvincent1]

Not yet till you past 25 is when you can considered it over. You still got some time though join a community college or trading school something that is guaranteed access with people near your age. Be active and try to build a social there is your best chance.

ill try

 

[goy]

I never seemed, to make friends ever since, I changed school, late 2019's. I was getting bullied for my appearance, until recently now I've gotten treated like a human being. But i can't seem to make any friends, i need tips

 

[kingvincent1]

I never seemed, to make friends ever since, I changed school, late 2019's. I was getting bullied for my appearance, until recently now I've gotten treated like a human being. But i can't seem to make any friends, i need tips

i lack social skills myself and don't speak in public settings even with family i find an empty spot and stand around

 

[goy]

i lack social skills myself and don't speak in public settings even with family i find an empty spot and stand around

lmao same problem here bro

 

[thechosenorder]

Same. I’ve wasted so many years just laying in a dark room alone on the internet.