It's Over Someone invite this deluded oldcel here please (42M)

[VanGobbel]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1umhc1v/42m_never_been_in_a_relationship_i_feel_so_tired/

I don’t know where to turn, I have scheduled an appointment with a therapist next week hoping I can get some help with this feeling of complete worthlessness.

Stable job, work out 2-3 times a week, own my own apartment, savings to last me to live comfortably for two-three years,no debt except mortgage, go to dance class weekly, hang out with friends two—three times a week, organise DnD groups, learning how to play piano, plan events and trips both with friends and jobrelated social parties.

I don’t smoke, drink ocassionally, dress smart casual most days, well groomed, proper shirt, tie and pants on important evenings.

I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

Yet despite all of this I have never met someone who would want to be romantically involved. I don’t know what else to do. last time I ever was on a date of some sort was two years ago and before then almost ten years ago.

I am always the one to initiate, to seek contact, to show interest. While almost always kindly rejected I am feeling so exhausted, hurt, unloveable. Never having heard that someone loves me, romantically cares for me, or misses me. Always the greatest friend, boyfriend/husband material but not for the one in front of me. That I am sure I will meet someone that will make everyone else jealous because I am such a wonderful person.

I am so so tired. 42 years, single, friends with everyone, boyfriend with no one. Father for no one.

What is wrong with me?

 

[theanty]

@SCAT PACK @Sewer Crab @Shark horse?

 

[PhineasSpear]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

 

[Dolls & Gor]

"Always the greatest friend, boyfriend/husband material but not for the one in front of me."

'Narcissistic Personality Disorder!'

 

[fukurou]

reads like george sodini

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

Notice how out of all the things he said he's been described as, he never mentioned "good-looking". Brutal. He's either manlet or has bad facial bones, or BOTH.

 

[pleksus]

They are poor souls. İ hope he gets blackpilled soon

 

[SCAT PACK]

@SCAT PACK @Sewer Crab @Shark horse?

Collect the horse

 

[SmhChan]

They are poor souls. İ hope he gets blackpilled soon

If a man by 40 isn't blackpilled, he is undoubtedly a foid-worshipper. So, no sympathies.

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

He'll probably say "I'm not an incel111!! Maybe you are, but I'm not!!!1"

 

[Methuselah]

>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.

 

[Izayacel]

Man I wish i could inject some of my brain into his .

Does everything by the book " and still gets gatekept forever ( looks ) . Clown gynocentric society

@TooSomething @AtrociousCitizen @GeckoBus @VersoffenerAssi @Skoga @Lonly ghost @Emba @Pikacel @St3v3Cel @Initium @Grodd @SlayerSlayer @Ryo_Hazuki

 

[SmhChan]

This nigga thinks foids actually give a fuck about a man's (larping) hobbies or his socialization skills? LMFAO. Dating gurus, planted by the state, came up with this dating advice to keep men occupied in this goose-chasing rather than letting them contemplate in silence the true nature of foid.

 

[Pikacel]

Has anyone dmed him

 

[poorenglishcel]

Him only posting his face and height can explain everything much better than the wall of text he wrote

 

[itsovER99]

His choice to join or not

 

[darkpilledsoldier]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

 

[nihilum]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

didnt mention his looks

 

[TooSomething]

>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.

But never described as hot. xD

 

[darkpilledsoldier]

>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.

Right on!

 

[Aspiegamercel]

It's absolutely over for him past 40.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

How do you get to that age and still be bluepilled? I remember reaching 22 and realizing that the problem must be my looks.

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

"Always the greatest friend, boyfriend/husband material but not for the one in front of me."

As is tradition.

Notice how out of all the things he said he's been described as, he never mentioned "good-looking". Brutal. He's either manlet or has bad facial bones, or BOTH.

 

[kapri]

I love the comments saying "nothing is wrong with you, you are just fine".
JFL they don't even do the persoynality card, they just hit you with delusionmaxxing

 

[SoloLeveling]

At this age I'm honestly shocked by the naivety. I think he knows damn well why girls aren't going out with him (he's ugly) but he's looking for some validation.

 

[SnakeCel]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

He is a redditfag. Probably already bluepilled to the core.

 

[St3v3Cel]

Man I wish i could inject some of my brain into his .

Does everything by the book " and still gets gatekept forever ( looks ) . Clown gynocentric society

@TooSomething @AtrociousCitizen @GeckoBus @VersoffenerAssi @Skoga @Lonly ghost @Emba @Pikacel @St3v3Cel @Initium @Grodd @SlayerSlayer @Ryo_Hazuki

"I am so so tired. 42 years, single, friends with everyone, boyfriend with no one. Father for no one". Brutal .

Him only posting his face and height can explain everything much better than the wall of text he wrote

Indeed. That is all it would take to explain his situation.

It's comical how his username is "InLoveWithLogic". If he would allow himself to use logic around women he would already know the answer.

I love the comments saying "nothing is wrong with you, you are just fine".
JFL they don't even do the persoynality card, they just hit you with delusionmaxxing

The comments are just dreadful. Especially this one:

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ManufacturerNo1478
14h ago
God, I feel this in my bones. I don't know what to tell you, but I am in the same place and am 53.

Maybe ask some women in your life about this, but not your mother or sisters. Maybe ask female friends already in a committed relationship, make it clear you aren't asking them on a date, and try to get some tips.

53 year old fellow incel and tells this guy to ask some women in his life for advice.

A fate like this is too cruel. Men this bluepilled would have been better off with a lethal chamber than they lives they went on to live. This is why the bluepill is far crueler than the blackpill:

If you can come to truly believe that the bluepill is true you will end up in the loony bin.

Genuinely believing that all you need to succed in life is a good "pERsonality" and still not suceeding will eat you up inside. Because by bluepill logic, that means that you genuinely are an appalling and horrible person.

Living life believing in the bluepill with no success is a far more cruel existence than believing in the blackpill with no success.

The blackpill is far preferable to the hell that is genuinely believing in the bluepill. Accepting the blackpill as true is the only way to maintain your sanity.

 

[VanGobbel]

How do you get to that age and still be bluepilled? I remember reaching 22 and realizing that the problem must be my looks.

low iq + bluepilled/foid only parenting

 

[VanGobbel]

I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

Just Travel Well Bro

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

Somebody save that low IQ wizard please.

 

[VanGobbel]

Stable job, work out 2-3 times a week, own my own apartment, savings to last me to live comfortably for two-three years,no debt except mortgage, go to dance class weekly, hang out with friends two—three times a week, organise DnD groups, learning how to play piano, plan events and trips both with friends and jobrelated social parties.

This has to be peak oofy doofy jfc

 

[Ghost]

Aww dont worry the right woman will someday show herself to you and youll be together forever like starcrossed soulmates...

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

Aww dont worry the right woman will someday show herself to you and youll be together forever like starcrossed soulmates...

Tale from 1990s

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

If a man by 40 isn't blackpilled, he is undoubtedly a foid-worshipper. So, no sympathies.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

He lists everything he does, what he owns, and so on. The thing is, no foid gives a damn about that if you repulse them because you're unattractive.
Chad could live on the street, sell drugs, and beat up little kids every day, and he’d still find countless foids wanting to "save" him.
Aside from that, I absolutely cannot take a 42-year-old man seriously who still believes therapy helps (especially with this issue).
If he understands English reasonably well, he should get an account here. But we "evil misogynists" would probably scare him off.

 

[Rampagecel]

reads like george sodini

 

[Rapistcel]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

 

[Rapistcel]

He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.

If he voluntarily goes to therapy he is already bluepilled

 

[PhineasSpear]

If he voluntarily goes to therapy he is already bluepilled

Never too late to undo the damage.

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

He's gonna get fucking mauled on that subreddit.