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It's Over Someone invite this deluded oldcel here please (42M)

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I don’t know where to turn, I have scheduled an appointment with a therapist next week hoping I can get some help with this feeling of complete worthlessness.

Stable job, work out 2-3 times a week, own my own apartment, savings to last me to live comfortably for two-three years,no debt except mortgage, go to dance class weekly, hang out with friends two—three times a week, organise DnD groups, learning how to play piano, plan events and trips both with friends and jobrelated social parties.

I don’t smoke, drink ocassionally, dress smart casual most days, well groomed, proper shirt, tie and pants on important evenings.

I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

Yet despite all of this I have never met someone who would want to be romantically involved. I don’t know what else to do. last time I ever was on a date of some sort was two years ago and before then almost ten years ago.

I am always the one to initiate, to seek contact, to show interest. While almost always kindly rejected I am feeling so exhausted, hurt, unloveable. Never having heard that someone loves me, romantically cares for me, or misses me. Always the greatest friend, boyfriend/husband material but not for the one in front of me. That I am sure I will meet someone that will make everyone else jealous because I am such a wonderful person.

I am so so tired. 42 years, single, friends with everyone, boyfriend with no one. Father for no one.

What is wrong with me?

:soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy:
 
@SCAT PACK @Sewer Crab @Shark horse?
 
He needs to join ASAP before he gets bluepilled.
 
"Always the greatest friend, boyfriend/husband material but not for the one in front of me."

:foidSoy: 'Narcissistic Personality Disorder!'
 
reads like george sodini
 
Notice how out of all the things he said he's been described as, he never mentioned "good-looking". Brutal. He's either manlet or has bad facial bones, or BOTH.
 
They are poor souls. İ hope he gets blackpilled soon
 
They are poor souls. İ hope he gets blackpilled soon
If a man by 40 isn't blackpilled, he is undoubtedly a foid-worshipper. So, no sympathies.
 
He'll probably say "I'm not an incel111!! Maybe you are, but I'm not!!!1"
 
>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.
 
Man I wish i could inject some of my brain into his .

Does everything by the book " and still gets gatekept forever ( looks ) . Clown gynocentric society :feelsclown:

@TooSomething @AtrociousCitizen @GeckoBus @VersoffenerAssi @Skoga @Lonly ghost @Emba @Pikacel @St3v3Cel @Initium @Grodd @SlayerSlayer @Ryo_Hazuki
 
This nigga thinks foids actually give a fuck about a man's (larping) hobbies or his socialization skills? LMFAO. Dating gurus, planted by the state, came up with this dating advice to keep men occupied in this goose-chasing rather than letting them contemplate in silence the true nature of foid.
 
Has anyone dmed him
 
Him only posting his face and height can explain everything much better than the wall of text he wrote
 
His choice to join or not
 
didnt mention his looks :feelstastyman: :feelstastyman:
 
>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.
But never described as hot. xD
 
>I have been described as charming, smart, trustworthy, funny, kind, generous, well travelled, experienced.

LoL

>What is wrong with me?

Your face.
:yes: Right on!
 
It's absolutely over for him past 40.
 

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