Blackpill Social skills don't exist, rule 1

[Balding Subhuman]

"Social skills" are not even a thing. Its not a skill. Either you like socialising because people like to be around you, or you avoid it because its not rewarding. Therefore its not a "skill."

Unless you were abandoned as a child and you were raised by a pack of wolves, you don't have "poor social skills." Everyone has a basic understanding of how socialising works and you can talk to other people just fine. Its just that you have recognised that social interactions are pointless for you, because socialising with others isn't rewarding for you.

If you were attractive, people would give you positive affirmations that you are attractive, important and liked. It would cause a positive feedback loop resulting in you becoming more and more confident and becoming more and more social. Attractive people don't need to avoid social situations, because they don't get negative feedback from it. Ugly people do though.

Why would an ugly guy keep socialising, when its not rewarding at all but rather makes you feel even worse inside? Even a dog gives up eventually if it can't get the treat inside of a glass box.

 

[nice_try]

You clearly didn't look into social skills at all.
As someone who did, I know very well that they are in fact a skill.

 

[nice_try]

or you avoid it because its not rewarding.

It's not rewarding because you don't have the skills required to enjoy it.
You wouldn't play in a tennis match and expect to enjoy it when you have zero tennis skills.

 

[buried_alive]

Based, I agree. In dating, if the woman is attracted to you, she'll help the conversation move forward, so your social skills don't really matter because it's 2 people putting effort into it. She won't send you conversation killers and one word replies. And you can't negotiate attraction. In truth, an apparent lack of social skills is just a reflection of your SMV.

 

[Loner94]

Based, I agree. In dating, if the woman is attracted to you, she'll help the conversation move forward, so your social skills don't really matter because it's 2 people putting effort into it. She won't send you conversation killers and one word replies. And you can't negotiate attraction. In truth, an apparent lack of social skills is just a reflection of your SMV.

Indeed it's easy when both people are invested.

 

[ADHD_cel]

Just be born gl and rich bro

 

[Incedel]

Based, I agree. In dating, if the woman is attracted to you, she'll help the conversation move forward, so your social skills don't really matter because it's 2 people putting effort into it. She won't send you conversation killers and one word replies. And you can't negotiate attraction. In truth, an apparent lack of social skills is just a reflection of your SMV.

Exactly, to put it precisely, social skills aren't the deal breaker when it comes to social interaction. If you don't know the rules but people like you they will teach. Plenty of foreign kids went to my school and adjusted quickly because people like them and helped them adjust, while some of the protocel ones spent months acclimating with only a teachers occasional help. If your hot or charismatic, 'social skills' isn't whats gonna stop you from getting laid

 

[Incedel]

It's not rewarding because you don't have the skills required to enjoy it.
You wouldn't play in a tennis match and expect to enjoy it when you have zero tennis skills.

Cope

 

[Righteous Hitter]

It's not rewarding because you don't have the skills required to enjoy it.
You wouldn't play in a tennis match and expect to enjoy it when you have zero tennis skills.

For once in the new age globohomo retarded era, make it right for once and screw this retarded trend! TO FEEL ISNT A FUCKING SKILL ITS A FEEL!!

 

[InMemoriam]

You clearly didn't look into social skills at all.
As someone who did, I know very well that they are in fact a skill.

women are social freaks does that indicate a higher social skills?

 

[Praise the Sun]

Talking to other people is easy if you're not expecting ridicule and rejection.