Yea, you are the product of your parents, but your parents also are the product of your grandparents and your grandparents blamed their parents for not being rich.
Take the blame-pill
I don't blame my parents for me not being rich, I blame them for not giving me the proper guidance to become rich.
They gave me generic cookie cutter trash advice that just leads to people being wage slaves.
My perspective is I don't care about blame, all I know is that once I get my life in order I'm leaving everything behind and they are never seeing me again.
If people say I can't blame them, then ok, but that doesn't mean I have to force myself to have anything to do with them.
I won't give my parents the excuse of "we didn't know better", because if a parent truly cares about their children
THRIVING in life (not just
SUBSISTING so that you can feel
CONTENT with "atleast they are alive") they will do research on the economy, take an honest look at reality, and provide proper guidance for their children so that they don't waste years of their life.
Had my parents did that, I'd already be a six figure earner in my 20's, I have no fucking doubt in my mind about that.
My parents took the lazy fucking route and that's because like they average parent they were
CONTENT with me
SUBSISTING through life so long as they could see that I was "alive and well".
But being alive doesn't mean you don't think about killing yourself everyday.
Being alive doesn't mean you aren't tired of life and you want more out of it than working a 9 to 5 job and waiting for the weekends to relax.
Most parents doom their children to a life of mediocrity and wage slavery.
I don't care what fucking excuses they have, for me the lies and/or misguidance was unforgivable, I will never forgive them for that shit, and I will have nothing to do with them in the future.
They spent so much time trying to teach me religious values, etc, but they lacked the common sense to realize that without prosperity, faith in God will never last in era of abundance. They should have been telling me about business, tax laws, etc instead of "muh God". Ironically if I was prosperous I might probably still be a religious person.
If your parents aren't trying to make you
THRIVE in life, and they are alright with you
SUBSISTING and "just being alive", they aren't good parents. You don't owe them anything and you should blame them for your lack of opportunities.
It's not my parents fault that I had to live through poverty, but what is their fault is the fact that it's going to take me longer to get out of poverty, because they didn't guide me on how to build wealth in the modern age. They took the lazy route like the average parent and just sent me to school with no guidance, no map for success, no suggestions on career choices or trades, no nothing.
If you just leave something up to random chance you can't complain about the end result. This is why I will accept no complaints from them about my current state of life.
Maybe my parents actually have some self awareness because they don't make any complaints. Maybe they've already realized how much they've failed.