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Discussion Sister just told me Im an incel because I'm not outgoing/social

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It actually got me thinking. All the guys i see around me with girls, aren't shy and introverted like me.

And i don't think I'm horrifically ugly, yes I'm a little weird looking but I've seen worse guys in relationships

She told me, in her opinion she doesn't think I'm unworthy or too ugly for a relationship, it's just because I don't put my self out there, according to her.

And before you say "But Chad doesn't have to be outgoing!", I'm referring to the average guy.

Could it just be beginning for introvertcels? Is socialmaxxing the way out?
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
 
graycel tier thread
 
That is why the only path forward is banning premarital sex/polygamy.
 
Could it just be beginning for introvertcels? Is socialmaxxing the way out?
Its good to have a social circle but it wont help you get laid unless you are a chad lite.
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends,
That's why shy = ugly.
 
@ThoughtfulCel We need to enact the graycel purge.
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
 
@ThoughtfulCel We need to enact the graycel purge.
They're multiplying at an unexpected rate. This is serious

20200525 023017

 
If you aren't Chad you have to approach women. So if you don't actively approach (tinder also counts) you could be normie tier and ascend eventually.
 
I hate normies
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
This
 
Maybe you are ugly and your sister try to be nice to you.
 
have you tried having sex with her?
you can say you're joking if it doesn't work.
 
It actually got me thinking. All the guys i see around me with girls, aren't shy and introverted like me.

And i don't think I'm horrifically ugly, yes I'm a little weird looking but I've seen worse guys in relationships

She told me, in her opinion she doesn't think I'm unworthy or too ugly for a relationship, it's just because I don't put my self out there, according to her.

And before you say "But Chad doesn't have to be outgoing!", I'm referring to the average guy.

Could it just be beginning for introvertcels? Is socialmaxxing the way out?
:soy:
Tbh
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
Surprised it has be said 1000x times, I don't think people will ever get it through their skulls.

A sliver of hope like you have now is ok and I'm in the same boat, still believing in the self-improvementpill, but don't overindulge too much in that hope and let it misguide and delude you. My sister says the same to me as well, and your mother probably will too. Don't fall for their bluepilled lies - always remember the scientific evidence regarding female behavior. Their behavior contradicts their actions because it is in their nature: they need to virtue signal in order to not get ostracized from the group or looked down upon as immoral.
 
Surprised it has be said 1000x times, I don't think people will ever get it through their skulls.

A sliver of hope like you have now is ok and I'm in the same boat, still believing in the self-improvementpill, but don't overindulge too much in that hope and let it misguide and delude you. My sister says the same to me as well, and your mother probably will too. Don't fall for their bluepilled lies - always remember the scientific evidence regarding female behavior. Their behavior contradicts their actions because it is in their nature: they need to virtue signal in order to not get ostracized from the group or looked down upon as immoral.
Watch what women do over what they say. Ya need to have good looks to have a social circle that actually wants ya around so others feel comfortable introducing people around you cause you look trustworthy to them this is so true for women assessment of men
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
its over
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
That's why shy = ugly.
Melvinpill
 
It actually got me thinking. All the guys i see around me with girls, aren't shy and introverted like me.

And i don't think I'm horrifically ugly, yes I'm a little weird looking but I've seen worse guys in relationships

She told me, in her opinion she doesn't think I'm unworthy or too ugly for a relationship, it's just because I don't put my self out there, according to her.

And before you say "But Chad doesn't have to be outgoing!", I'm referring to the average guy.

Could it just be beginning for introvertcels? Is socialmaxxing the way out?
Ok go be outgoing and leave this forum. Thanks graycel.
 
How are you going to be outgoing if you've been the subject of bullying or exclusion by your peers your whole childhood & this continues as an adult when ppl realise you have no friends, your social skills are poor due to lack of practice & in turn this makes other adults think you're creepy so won't give you a chance, add to that not everyone is naturally low inhibition, bubbly hyper social & then add to this autists that interpret & display emotions or react to stimuli & situations in a different way to the majority.

Dog ppl, cat ppl.

Attractive ppl don't receive negativity from others.
Bingo. You literally said everything I almost said. Firsts me
 
You have to ask yourself first why are you introverted. Is it because you didn't wanted to be part of the group? Or is it because you were excluded because you are an ugly subhuman? Try not to cope yourself with lies.
 
then put yourself out there and tell us the results
greycel thread ngl
 
Don't put too much stock into what normies say. They are usually virtue signaling.
 
Set up a spycam in the shower, and upload her nude to the internet. Fuck that bitch.
 
Then tell her to hook you up with her friends you fucking fakecel phaggot.
 
It actually got me thinking. All the guys i see around me with girls, aren't shy and introverted like me.

And i don't think I'm horrifically ugly, yes I'm a little weird looking but I've seen worse guys in relationships

She told me, in her opinion she doesn't think I'm unworthy or too ugly for a relationship, it's just because I don't put my self out there, according to her.

And before you say "But Chad doesn't have to be outgoing!", I'm referring to the average guy.

Could it just be beginning for introvertcels? Is socialmaxxing the way out?
There is no extraversion for your face
 
I've seen plenty of shy/introverted guys with girlfriends. They just happened to have certain key aspects in common such as being tall, white, and with a decent face. Pure coincidence I'm sure.
Also in your case they may have opened up more once getting a gf and gaining some self worth from it, I've also witnessed this and it's annoying as Hell.

But thanks for providing IT with some jerk off fuel I'm sure you'll be on the front page by tomorrow.
 
Decent IQ greycel thread. As a normie being NT and low-inhib is indeed important.
 
Being shy and introverted is actually genetic. Just change your genes theory.
 
Porn is a meme weapon. Therefore it's (((subsidised))).
Wouldn't surprise me. Soyciety needs men to be docile with copes. Last thing they want is for us to start going Allah Akahbar.
 
You have to ask yourself first why are you introverted. Is it because you didn't wanted to be part of the group? Or is it because you were excluded because you are an ugly subhuman? Try not to cope yourself with lies.
My parents and my sister tell me i'm handsome too OP, but i'm reminded that they are lying as soon as i see the mirror.

Your sister is lying, If you weren't her brother she would call the cops on you for breathing and existing too close to her.
I've seen plenty of shy/introverted guys with girlfriends. They just happened to have certain key aspects in common such as being tall, white, and with a decent face. Pure coincidence I'm sure.
Also in your case they may have opened up more once getting a gf and gaining some self worth from it, I've also witnessed this and it's annoying as Hell.

But thanks for providing IT with some jerk off fuel I'm sure you'll be on the front page by tomorrow.
Normies only fuck through social circles or JBW, aside from that they are incels.
Being shy and introverted is actually genetic. Just change your genes theory.

COPE
The mere fact that so many graycels are showing up lately shows that hypergamy is increasing.
 
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I'm outgoing and i approach, still get rejected.
But i agree with you OP.
Most uaers here don't try at all, Volcels.co
 

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