Mine was choosing not to go to a 4 year university right after High School. I choose to attend a local community college because I wanted to "save money" JFL.
This decision may be the reason I am still incel.
-miss out on forming post-hs friendships with dormmates
-miss out on possible girlfriend at beginning of first semester
-still addicted to masturbation (would probably have stopped if I had a roommate for an entire year)
-former 6th grade oneitis went to the 4 year college I got accepted to, majored in the same thing as me, and still hasn't had a boyfriend based on Social media
-unwilling to get out of my comfort zone, because I have never been forced out