Scared to engage in irl activities

[Nintendo 64]

I would like more copes irl but I'm scared that people will just be hostile towards me because I don't have the most pleasing face. That has been the consistent reaction to people seeing me and its been getting to me honestly

 

[Eunuch]

I can relate. I even tried volunteering and I got discriminated against. The key is to just accept that you're going to be treated like shit for being ugly no matter what if you leave the house.

 

[FuckYou]

I like to take walks, it’s very peaceful and you get to be alone with your thoughts. You can take walks in the woods if you really want to avoid normies.

 

[Nintendo 64]

I can relate. I even tried volunteering and I got discriminated against. The key is to just accept that you're going to be treated like shit for being ugly no matter what if you leave the house.

I may have to eventually accept that I'm going to be treated like shit because LDARing makes me want to paint my walls red

 

[Nintendo 64]

I like to take walks, it’s very peaceful and you get to be alone with your thoughts. You can take walks in the woods if you really want to avoid normies.

I might have to try this

 

[SyrianSchizoSage]

I can relate. I even tried volunteering and I got discriminated against. The key is to just accept that you're going to be treated like shit for being ugly no matter what if you leave the house.

Maybe try another volunteer place? Places vary a lot don't give up friend.
I volunteer and the people are incredibly nice to everyone. I got lucky. My jobs were brootal, but the place I go to is really nice to sub 5s.
Those places usually attract the kindest ppl

 

[Eunuch]

Maybe try another volunteer place? Places vary a lot don't give up friend.
I volunteer and the people are incredibly nice to everyone. I got lucky. My jobs were brootal, but the place I go to is really nice to sub 5s.
Those places usually attract the kindest ppl

It was almost all females volunteering and they treated me like a leper

 

[SyrianSchizoSage]

I would like more copes irl but I'm scared that people will just be hostile towards me because I don't have the most pleasing face. That has been the consistent reaction to people seeing me and its been getting to me honestly

I would tell you to volunteer in reputable places. Meals on Wheels for example.

Find a board game club usually found in tcg/geek shops.

Religious places.

 

[SyrianSchizoSage]

It was almost all females volunteering and they treated me like a leper

Did you try Meals on Wheels.
All female volunteer group never heard of such a thing that place is odd.
Don't let a bad place discourage you from trying elsewhere

 

[Sperg Abomination]

i am too "scared" to get out of my house because i know exactly what will happen if i do

 

[Sir Silentium]

I would like more copes irl but I'm scared that people will just be hostile towards me because I don't have the most pleasing face. That has been the consistent reaction to people seeing me and its been getting to me honestly

I have experienced this my whole life, it's a mixture of not having a pleasing face and being quite introverted. What irl activities were you thinking about?

 

[Sir Silentium]

i am too "scared" to get out of my house because i know exactly what will happen if i do

Yes, I am not scared to leave the house as people make it seem, I am scared of what going out of the house will cause and the unnecessary abuse I will have to endure.

 

[Nintendo 64]

I have experienced this my whole life, it's a mixture of not having a pleasing face and being quite introverted. What irl activities were you thinking about?

I religiously watch jiu jitsu content all day. It's a martial art that really interests me because it reminds me of chess

 

[Sperg Abomination]

I am scared of what going out of the house will cause and the unnecessary abuse I will have to endure.

exactly

 

[Monikak]

just do it, i tried hiking once

 

[Nintendo 64]

i am too "scared" to get out of my house because i know exactly what will happen if i do

Yeah this type of treatment is nothing new, I get really anxious about it if I do ever have to step out the house and the things I experience constantly reinforce my anxiety

 

[Sperg Abomination]

things I experience constantly reinforce my anxiety

 

[Nintendo 64]

just do it, i tried hiking once

With people? How did that go?

 

[Monikak]

With people? How did that go?

It went great, with my high school friends, and some foreigners I found at the national park.

 

[Sir Silentium]

I religiously watch jiu jitsu content all day. It's a martial art that really interests me because it reminds me of chess

That would probably be a preferred place to be in as an irl activity. I doubt normies will make fun of you at jiu jitsu. In my opinion I would say give it a try, if you end up not enjoying it or people there are not behaving accordingly, then you don't have to go again, but you never know how it will be if you don't go.

 

[Nintendo 64]

That would probably be a preferred place to be in as an irl activity. I doubt normies will make fun of you at jiu jitsu. In my opinion I would say give it a try, if you end up not enjoying it or people there are not behaving accordingly, then you don't have to go again, but you never know how it will be if you don't go.

May try enrolling eventually. Worst fear is pumping money into a gym to just get bullied and get nothing out of it

 

[Nintendo 64]

It went great, with my high school friends, and some foreigners I found at the national park.

Mogs

 

[Sir Silentium]

May try enrolling eventually. Worst fear is pumping money into a gym to just get bullied and get nothing out of it

Hopefully they have an option to make a single payment first, rather than immediately in bulk

 

[Sperg Abomination]

May try enrolling eventually. Worst fear is pumping money into a gym to just get bullied and get nothing out of it

at this point i wont go to a public gym i would need to make a home one

 

[Diesel_366]

Just do bus and plane spotting bro