Experiment Risk of socializing (Tried and Failed Miserably)

[FailedSoyCel]

Fuck it man

If you are incel and dont know how to talk to people communicating will be the most difficult shit you will ever face and i am not even counting Mentalcels (excluding them). In my UNI i thought that i will make friends and normalize things whatever happened bad in life can be overcome but turns out that it was all wrong i am currently staying in boys hostel FUCKKKKKKKKK with my seniors and few batchmates and believe me i tried to talk to them but whatever comes out of my mouth is straight offensive and no one likes that they call me moron and it is my fault but not completely it's like if one guy starts to badmouth you the rest will starts to do the same and that happened with me due to this i left being in groups and live solo in my hostel like there is literally no one who even say me once to join them .

Whatever i do is like trying to fit in the group in this process no one cares about me or my identity it's like i am non existent no one even asks me , i just left being with someone altogether atp in my hostel i am so much ashamed to even go there and look at their faces i will leave this place and move somewhere else and will never commit the things i did here

The moment you open yourself up it's over!!! keep your things to yourself or else you will suffer for things that you should not be , but the thing is there is also problem my side that i dont know how to talk well how will i know how to talk ?

 

[FailedSoyCel]

@The Reaver @currycell900 @Fevet @Redeemer i think this time i quoted everyone i dont remember that paxtani mudslime acc and curryboy420 is gone maybe

 

[Redeemer]

i tried to talk to them but whatever comes out of my mouth is straight offensive and no one likes that they call me moron

like what things did you say?

The moment you open yourself up it's over!!! keep your things to yourself or else you will suffer for things that you should not be

I second this. In my experience opening up often turned out really awful.

 

[Redeemer]

paxtani mudslime acc

@goblin

 

[Cloudrak]

Uni is for chads and women only

 

[anglocelticcel]

Keep yourself to yourself would be my advice to a younger me. Don’t fall for the ‘put yourself out there bro’ bs

 

[AdolfRizzler]

uni is for foids and chads mostly, that s it

 

[nico]

@goblin

ok

 

[nico]

its over bro.
just keep it to urself .

 

[currycell900]

@The Reaver @currycell900 @Fevet @Redeemer i think this time i quoted everyone i dont remember that paxtani mudslime acc and curryboy420 is gone maybe

Brootal mogs me for interacting with anyonw

 

[Rapemaxxer]

I also started college recently. Similar experiences. Will talk in dms or on discord.

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

Uni is for chads and women only

 

[FailedSoyCel]

like what things did you say?

I second this. In my experience opening up often turned out really awful.

opening up often is the main reason apart from that if they aren't your good friends having alot of moronic fun (backchodi) only brings down your image i think we grew so much that we have to maintain a level of decency and carry ourselves in a certain manner

I tried to be friendly but in a very childish manner often like a moron and it destroyed everything

 

[FailedSoyCel]

Uni is for chads and women only

i wouldn't say this man yk if you are someone someone like comes from a good family kinda rich kinda influential it will be very useful those types of kids hang out with eachother and make friends easily but if you are no one like me it is often hard very very hard

 

[FailedSoyCel]

Keep yourself to yourself would be my advice to a younger me. Don’t fall for the ‘put yourself out there bro’ bs

i agree to this man putting yourself out only works when you have something that would work in your favor or else one should keep there mouths closed

 

[FailedSoyCel]

I also started college recently. Similar experiences. Will talk in dms or on discord.

discord pe batana

 

[LostSoulUK]

The worst is the awkward silences, I think some of us loners over compensate by trying to talk to much but then the lull hits and its complete awkward silence after u finished ur brief sentence, its soul crushing.

 

[ColderManTruce]

Ragg

i dont know how to talk well how will i know how to talk ?

You don't have to talk the entire time, let them do the talking and deflect it back to them

 

[TouhouMathcel]

In my UNI i thought that i will make friends and normalize things whatever happened bad in life can be overcome but turns out that it was all wrong

Same

 

[anglocelticcel]

i agree to this man putting yourself out only works when you have something that would work in your favor or else one should keep there mouths closed

Thank you brother

 

[FailedSoyCel]

Ragg
You don't have to talk the entire time, let them do the talking and deflect it back to them

hmm be a good listener type shit i will apply it , yk the main problem is i try to fit in brutal that causes all the suffering i dont want to be alone but i guess i will be alone and there is no other way for me

 

[ColderManTruce]

hmm be a good listener type shit i will apply it , yk the main problem is i try to fit in brutal that causes all the suffering i dont want to be alone but i guess i will be alone and there is no other way for me

Same tbh, I don't mostly talk much, even if I did, i deflect it back and forth, ND moment, i tried to fit in but brutally failed aswell, so I keep quiet and observemaxx

 

[FailedSoyCel]

Same tbh, I don't mostly talk much, even if I did, i deflect it back and forth, ND moment, i tried to fit in but brutally failed aswell, so I keep quiet and observemaxx

seems like it should work i will try

 

[ColderManTruce]

seems like it should work i will try

Good luck brocel