Question for Oldcels and Wizards: what happens in your 30s, 40s+ as an incel?

[Esoteric7]

I know it gets worse.

But I want more in-depth answers:

1. Does the pain change?
Does the envy and agony of seeing couples persist or just become a dull weight?

2. Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

3. What happens to your social world?
When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?
Is your mind haunted by the regrets over missed opportunities, the females you were too scared to talk to? If yes, does the pain just get worse, compounded by every passing year?

6. Who is your emergency contact?
Who will be there if you get sick?
Do you ever go on holidays?
Do you just pretend they don't exist?

7. Do you think one should rope if they can’t ascend before entering their 30s and beyond?

I would like the brutal, unfiltered truth. I need to see the map of the hell I'm walking into so I can at least know what to pack.

@Vector2800 @Feeshtu

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

I know it gets worse.

 

[VλREN]

I wanna die young

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

i will be a wizard soon enough
sry for short half-assed answers i cba

1. not rly. theres always a new stage of feeling inadquate. u cant keep up.
2. no im more horny than ever. i can feel my standards dwindling by the month
3. i dont exist. my id documentation expired 5 years ago. only my family and cat know about me
4. i look at them like a zoo. I might fake being NT just to make it easier but Im absolutely repulsed by how these creatures operate
5. i cope by thinking that I missed by a massive margin, bcuz every1 short of chad still has to roll the shit roulette. foids are psychotic these days. even if u get to date one there are so many things that will go wrong with your temporary relationship. Cheating, shes talking to other ugys while dating u to look for upgrades, shes a size queen, shes dogpilled, she loves abortions, her cooch smells, she tells every embarrassing thing about u to all her girl friends etc. etc. u basically need a unicorn to not totally miss out
6. parents. parents. no. i make something for familys bdays and christmas thats it. on feb14 i make sure to hide in a hole.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

1. Does the pain change?
Does the envy and agony of seeing couples persist or just become a dull weight?

I stopped envying couples long ago, but I was blackpilled early in life seeing the majority of terrible relationships in my family/friends. The pain is now like a dull weight because life is pointless other than my copes.

2. Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

No, my sex drive hasn't faded at all at 45. And I have tried everything to kill mine.

3. What happens to your social world?
When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

Mine is completely dead. Once you hit like your upper 20s and don't have a marriage/kids as an ugly male, you officially become weird and even your family writes you off.

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

Just do small talk like all normalfags do. I despise it so I avoid it as much as possible.

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?
Is your mind haunted by the regrets over missed opportunities, the females you were too scared to talk to? If yes, does the pain just get worse, compounded by every passing year?

I went out of my way to resolve all my "what ifs". Every girl I thought I could have had any chance with in high school/college, I contacted many years later. They all confirmed I was a "good guy", "nice to talk to", i.e. I'm ugly worthless garbage that had no chance.

6. Who is your emergency contact?
Who will be there if you get sick?
Do you ever go on holidays?
Do you just pretend they don't exist?

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[starystulejarz]

1. Does the pain change?

it gets lesser but it's still there but you can easily distract yourself or just not go outside

2. Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

I can wank every 2nd day instead of every day so it's an improvement

3. What happens to your social world?

nothing as empty as before i was a neet since age of 18

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

i don't talk with normies and i would lie

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?

I don't feel any "what ifs" as i knew i was subhuman since start i have no regrets outside of dropping to low body fat before i have become a neet high school dropout. I was really proactive when i was a preteen i was very social and guess what most foids still ignored me. Especially the ones i wanted to impress. So i gave up 20 years ago.

6. Who is your emergency contact?

mom and nobody else if i die i will die

7. Do you think one should rope if they can’t ascend before entering their 30s and beyond?

Life is so short that you will reach age of 50 in a blind of an eye and you may as well rope in your 50s. And it's not like we will survive next plandemic and NWO plan. We will be executed Nazi style by new Global Citizen Protection Army.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I know it gets worse.

But I want more in-depth answers:

1. Does the pain change?
Does the envy and agony of seeing couples persist or just become a dull weight?

2. Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

3. What happens to your social world?
When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?
Is your mind haunted by the regrets over missed opportunities, the females you were too scared to talk to? If yes, does the pain just get worse, compounded by every passing year?

6. Who is your emergency contact?
Who will be there if you get sick?
Do you ever go on holidays?
Do you just pretend they don't exist?

7. Do you think one should rope if they can’t ascend before entering their 30s and beyond?

I would like the brutal, unfiltered truth. I need to see the map of the hell I'm walking into so I can at least know what to pack.

@Vector2800 @Feeshtu

I'm over 35.

1. Does the pain change?

Dull weight. But I don't even feel lonely anymore really, or very rarely. I'm thankful for that.

2. Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

Doesn't fade but lessens gradually.

3. What happens to your social world?
When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

Completely forgotten. I'm dead to everyone now. After my mom died 10 months ago, now I have nobody in the world. My dad died when I was 10. No siblings. Haven't spoken to any other family in probably 25 years. They might even think I'm dead, I dunno.

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

I never talk to normies. I haven't talked to a single human being (other than briefly saying "hi" to my neighbor a few days ago) in almost 3 months when my landlord came over to fix something. But when I have to talk (like to a store clerk or doctor) it feels weird but I just get it over with.

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?
Is your mind haunted by the regrets over missed opportunities, the females you were too scared to talk to? If yes, does the pain just get worse, compounded by every passing year?

No because I never had a chance in the first place ("it's over" in other words). My quiet "little personality" (as my mom called it) wasn't designed to be successful in this normie, neurotypical world.

6. Who is your emergency contact?

I don't have one. I used to think maybe my psychiatrist could be my emergency contact since he was the only human other than my mom who kind of knew me in a friendly way, but I don't see him anymore.

Who will be there if you get sick?

Nobody. Sometimes I think, if I need surgery or something and need somebody to drive me home (hospitals here aren't OK with Uber or taxi drivers), maybe they have some medical transportation service for that or I can hire someone from Facebook Marketplace to do it. Or maybe they can let me recover longer in the recovery room until I can drive myself.

Do you ever go on holidays?

Sometimes, planning to go to Japan soon by myself. First time I've gone on a big trip since 2019.

7. Do you think one should rope if they can’t ascend before entering their 30s and beyond?

No

 

[Soystein]

Does the sex drive ever actually fade, or does it just become a more desperate kind of ache?

My sex drive feels the same as when I was 20, but over time I started thinking about shit like actually spending time with a foid, doing activities together like hiking or just sitting on the couch even

How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?

I don't have that, I believe there was nothing I could have done.

Does the envy and agony of seeing couples persist or just become a dull weight?

When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

Who is your emergency contact?
Who will be there if you get sick?
Do you ever go on holidays?
Do you just pretend they don't exist?

The answer to all these questions is that I never leave the house and the only person I talk to is my mother.

 

[Cuckoja]

Im 38, ill try to answer the best i can

1. Does the pain change?
Does the envy and agony of seeing couples persist or just become a dull weight?

Pain doesn't change, envy and agony, jelaousy, depends sometimes you dont care, sometimes you just ask yourself why not me

3. What happens to your social world?
When your friends and family members get married and have kids, what is left for you? Do you just become a ghost they remember once a year?

You become the odd one out and withdraw, you lose the common subjects with most of people and you lag in maturity due to less life experience

4. When you have to talk with normies, how do you talk to them when you can’t relate due to not hitting those maturity milestones?

In my case, very awkwardly, i act like a nervous teenager, some find that cute, some funny, some weird as fuck

5. How do you cope with the regrets and the "what ifs"?
Is your mind haunted by the regrets over missed opportunities, the females you were too scared to talk to? If yes, does the pain just get worse, compounded by every passing year?

Not really, you come to the point where you realize that if it could happen, it would happen. If your only chances were missed in seconds, i doubt that they were real chances.

6. Who is your emergency contact?
Who will be there if you get sick?
Do you ever go on holidays?
Do you just pretend they don't exist?

I have my siblings. And i dont do holidays, never did.

7. Do you think one should rope if they can’t ascend before entering their 30s and beyond?

Thats on the individual to decide. I wont tell someone to rope, but also wont say to stay alive and suffer for the fuck of it.

 

[ColderManTruce]

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