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Just accept your role in this world

Eternatus

Eternatus

I shall surrender to the darkness beneath me
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I think this might be it for me. I’m entering authentic acceptance after years of burning pain for what has always been out of my control. Just let it go when you feel ready, or fall again until you get your mind right.

Someone asked my what reaction do I expect by making this threads with a veil of abstraction: the thing is, I don’t need to be over explanatory. You know what life should look like at your own age, you already know what you have been missing on, what youre carrying inside. This is not a group of happy acquaintances; we are desperate men coping, each in his own way, doesn’t matter what’s happening within my garden.

Let it go at some point. I think this might be it for me and my body is finally becoming comfortable with the idea. It’s fine to live as background noise, as a nobody, might be the realest thing u could do in a world of masquerades. It is starting to not bother me anymore.

Take care of yourself.

Forgive yourself.
 
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Everyone of us will and has to reach this point. We don’t have much choice. It’s either full acceptance or rope. There’s a third way though, (the worst one) which is in between first two: going through life trying to accept our situation, our inability to “make it” in this life, failing to accept it while still having some hope, while considering roping, thinking it will put an end to this misery but not having the courage to actually do it.

Most people here on this forum (including myself) oscillate between contemplating suicide, coping and attempting to increase their SMV through money or “looksmaxing” in the hope they’ll ascend one day.

This third way is the worst because it brings anxiety and depression, it pushes you to suicide which you won’t commit because deep inside you still cling to life.

It’s fine to live as background noise, as a nobody, might be the realest thing u could do in a world of masquerades.
I like this sentence, although I don’t know if I agree with it or not.
 
going through life trying to accept our situation, our inability to “make it” in this life, failing to accept it while still having some hope, while considering roping, thinking it will put an end to this misery but not having the courage to actually do it.
That’s being a regular truecel
 

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