Blackpill [PERSONALITY DETECTOR PILL] Being a victim of violent behavior has more social consequences than being a perpetrator of it

[shii410]

If a guy smashes your face in to the concrete and shoves you in to the lockers in front of your crush, that's humiliating and traumatic. that's the type of experience that stays with you for years and crushes your self esteem. but for the guy who kicked your ass, it was just another day. he's not going to feel any shame or embarrassment over it, why would he? he wasn't the one who got humiliated in public. nobody is going to look down on him for it like they will towards you

everyone wants to be the hammer, and no one wants to be the nail. this creates the human centipede of normie social dynamics where everyone is competing with each other to be the abuser, not the abused. violent, thuggish people excel in this type of social hierarchy, while meek & autistic people suffer from it

 

[BITG]

Jeremy Meeks unironically has a better personality than 99% of men | Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

being kind, intelligent, patient, understanding, hard working or anything like that doesn't constitute a "good personality". a "good personality" means being dominant, aggressive, neurotypical, knowledgeable of pop culture and social trends, etc. judging by society's standards, a violent...

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[Gymcelled]

Bullies don't even remember 95+% of the shit they've done to you. And if they do they feel like you deserved it or they were "just kidding haha"

Also bullies are more confident. I think there were also studies showing they did better in life

In a study of American 6th graders, researchers interviewed kids to determine who the bullies, bully/victims, and victims were. Then they asked each child a series of personal questions (Juvonen et al 2003).

Compared to other children, pure bullies were more likely to agree with such statements as “I do most things right.” They were least likely to agree with statements like “I worry about what others think.” They were also the least likely to agree with statements that indicated loneliness or social anxiety (e.g., “I have nobody to talk to” and “I worry about what others will think of me”).

For bully-victims, the results were different. They showed more psychological distress then did kids who were uninvolved in bullying.

But pure bullies seemed to be the least anxious, least depressed, and least lonely of all kids—including those kids who were wholly uninvolved in bullying.

Other research supports the idea of the confident bully. Studies conducted in Finland, Ireland, and the United States have all found that kids who bullied were more likely to have positive self-concepts (Kaukianien et al 2002; Collins and Bell 1996; Pollastri et al 2010).

In fact, kids with high self-esteem may tend to be more aggressive than other children. In one study, researchers asked hundreds of American kids (from the 3rd, 4th, and 4th grades) to rate the aggressiveness of their peers (David and Kistner 2000). Kids also reported on how they felt about themselves.

The kids with highly positive self-images were more likely to be named as aggressive by their peers. The results remained significant after controlling for gender and ethnicity, and even moderately positive self-perceptions were linked with higher levels of aggression.

 

[Jazavac]

the guy who beat the shit out of you is more likely to have positive social consequences than negative because he asserted his dominance. the way humans form hierarchies isn't any different that any other animal. every chimp knows that the biggest, baddest chimp is the boss. bullying increases the bullies status and decreases the victims status, dark triad men are more attractive and more successful in life, criminals fuck more than non-criminals etc. life is a mogging battle.

 

[shii410]

the guy who beat the shit out of you is more likely to have positive social consequences than negative because he asserted his dominance. the way humans form hierarchies isn't any different that any other animal. every chimp knows that the biggest, baddest chimp is the boss. bullying increases the bullies status and decreases the victims status, dark triad men are more attractive and more successful in life, criminals fuck more than non-criminals etc. life is a mogging battle.

precisely, the most "respectable" male by societal standards is the alpha. "being nice" isn't an inherently "respectable" or alpha trait, but making a weaker guy your bitch and kicking his ass in public definitely is

 

[BITG]

the guy who beat the shit out of you is more likely to have positive social consequences than negative because he asserted his dominance. the way humans form hierarchies isn't any different that any other animal. every chimp knows that the biggest, baddest chimp is the boss. bullying increases the bullies status and decreases the victims status, dark triad men are more attractive and more successful in life, criminals fuck more than non-criminals etc. life is a mogging battle.

It’s a mog or be mogged world

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Bullies don't even remember 95+% of the shit they've done to you. And if they do they feel like you deserved it or they were "just kidding haha"

Also bullies are more confident. I think there were also studies showing they did better in life

 

[Emba]

That helps explain why i had higher self esteem when i was an asshole.

But i was never a bully.

But i was bullied.

Until i fought back.

 

[Indari]

That helps explain why i had higher self esteem when i was an asshole.

But i was never a bully.

But i was bullied.

Until i fought back.

did u get the high score?

 

[Emba]

did u get the high score?

Not really. No external validation. Just fear. Enough to stop the bullies