Logic55
Blackpill Philosopher
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I've had enough of my relatives asking me why I haven't found a girlfriend (Im 20, btw). All of my siblings either have a gf or a bf. All the people in my family are not single. I am the only one who hasn't been in a relationship or lost my virginity. They think I am weird for being single. Being single is looked down upon by my family. Whenever I try to explain to them why I am single, they never understand me, they dismiss every point I make. Whenever I tell them that my looks are holding me back, they just give me the usual/typical bluepill advice, they say things like, "don't give up" or "you just need to put yourself out there". So I decided, that on Thanksgiving dinner, I will go into detail about why I am single. Instead of just saying, "my looks are not good enough, that's why girls don't like me", I will be using facts, logic, statistics, and scholarly studies to prove to them that my looks are the reason why I am single. here are some points I will make.
1) Women my age, are hypergamous meaning that they will be more attracted to men with better physical features. This can be proven by dating app statistics which indicate that average and below-average men are rejected while more attractive men are selected by females, dating apps are mainly for hookups not for finding a long-term relationship. Additionally, women on dating apps only choose a small majority of men while the vast majority of men are left out. The female, who has hundreds of men competing for her, carefully chooses a male based on looks, status, and wealth. Women do not randomly choose men based on personality on dating apps, they mainly focus on looks.
2) I do put myself out there, but whenever I become friends with a girl, she puts me in the friend zone or calls me her brother. Even if try to take the friendship to the next level, she makes it clear to me that she only wants to be friends and nothing more than that. This has happened to me repeatedly.
3) Improving personality, dressing well, and maintaining a clean appearance have not generated any progress. Women at my job and at my college don't even notice and are not impressed when I improve my personality and my looks.
4) My question to my family: Why do you keep saying that it's my fault for being single when I have boosted my confidence, have good hygiene, cleaned my face, worn nice clothes, maintained a healthy and fit body shape, have outgoing personality, and is well groomed? I have tried my best, I took all of your advice for years, and I'm still single.
5) My family; "there are ugly guys with girlfriends, it doesn't mean you won't have an opportunity to have one". Me: yes, there are bad-looking men with a girlfriend, but it doesn't mean I will get one, it is false hope. It's like me seeing a guy on the news win the lottery, it doesn't mean that I will win it when I buy a lottery ticket the next day. I saw a guy on the news get hit by a mini asteroid rock from space, but it doesn't mean that It will happen to me. I saw a random guy walking on a hill, and he met King Charles, it doesn't mean I will see King Charles when I walk outside my house tomorrow. and I will have to throw more arguments at them, 5 is not enough, I have to be persuasive. Hopefully, they will finally understand so they can stop accusing me of being gay, I'm sick and tired of it.
1) Women my age, are hypergamous meaning that they will be more attracted to men with better physical features. This can be proven by dating app statistics which indicate that average and below-average men are rejected while more attractive men are selected by females, dating apps are mainly for hookups not for finding a long-term relationship. Additionally, women on dating apps only choose a small majority of men while the vast majority of men are left out. The female, who has hundreds of men competing for her, carefully chooses a male based on looks, status, and wealth. Women do not randomly choose men based on personality on dating apps, they mainly focus on looks.
2) I do put myself out there, but whenever I become friends with a girl, she puts me in the friend zone or calls me her brother. Even if try to take the friendship to the next level, she makes it clear to me that she only wants to be friends and nothing more than that. This has happened to me repeatedly.
3) Improving personality, dressing well, and maintaining a clean appearance have not generated any progress. Women at my job and at my college don't even notice and are not impressed when I improve my personality and my looks.
4) My question to my family: Why do you keep saying that it's my fault for being single when I have boosted my confidence, have good hygiene, cleaned my face, worn nice clothes, maintained a healthy and fit body shape, have outgoing personality, and is well groomed? I have tried my best, I took all of your advice for years, and I'm still single.
5) My family; "there are ugly guys with girlfriends, it doesn't mean you won't have an opportunity to have one". Me: yes, there are bad-looking men with a girlfriend, but it doesn't mean I will get one, it is false hope. It's like me seeing a guy on the news win the lottery, it doesn't mean that I will win it when I buy a lottery ticket the next day. I saw a guy on the news get hit by a mini asteroid rock from space, but it doesn't mean that It will happen to me. I saw a random guy walking on a hill, and he met King Charles, it doesn't mean I will see King Charles when I walk outside my house tomorrow. and I will have to throw more arguments at them, 5 is not enough, I have to be persuasive. Hopefully, they will finally understand so they can stop accusing me of being gay, I'm sick and tired of it.